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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nimi2b4u

this topic is nice but i dont think ,now this is the issue,but the issue is bonding the trust b/w husband and wife that they share ,now abhi has job ,i think the creatives r very clever that they have raised this problem now ,after he got the job and and ofcourse his long waitied SR.when they r in all means together.

They are together and still we are blaning simi for all old things along with latest one. When simi has done most things with abhi;s approval.
Abhi has gotten job but he is still unable to take care of himself or Simi. in the sense of house, food and other necessities of life as they are living in barsati.
The issue is when abhi says ab tum miujhe kitna giraogii. meaning he is already feeling bad living in his sasural.
Abhi already feels he is uncapable of taking care of simi the way he wants and not able to give simi what he should and that is why he uses the words ab tum mujhe kitna aur giraogi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

They are together and still we are blaning simi for all old things along with latest one. When simi has done most things with abhi;s approval.

Abhi has gotten job but he is still unable to take care of himself or Simi. in the sense of house, food and other necessities of life as they are living in barsati.
The issue is when abhi says ab tum miujhe kitna giraogii. meaning he is already feeling bad living in his sasural.
Abhi already feels he is uncapable of taking care of simi the way he wants and not able to give simi what he should and that is why he uses the words ab tum mujhe kitna aur giraogi.



I must have missed this episode which one was this one .Can you please let me know 😲
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaNiCo



I must have missed this episode which one was this one .Can you please let me know 😲

I think it is part 2 of part 3 of thursday episode. let me get u linl
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

They are together and still we are blaning simi for all old things along with latest one. When simi has done most things with abhi;s approval.

Abhi has gotten job but he is still unable to take care of himself or Simi. in the sense of house, food and other necessities of life as they are living in barsati.
The issue is when abhi says ab tum miujhe kitna giraogii. meaning he is already feeling bad living in his sasural.
Abhi already feels he is uncapable of taking care of simi the way he wants and not able to give simi what he should and that is why he uses the words ab tum mujhe kitna aur giraogi.

sorry but i dont think i heard something like that ,he only said "bhalla ne itni giri hui baat tum se ki kaise" infront of her he made fool out of him.he raised the qouestion y did she not trust him ,is he not capable of doing his responsiabilites.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

They are together and still we are blaning simi for all old things along with latest one. When simi has done most things with abhi;s approval.

Abhi has gotten job but he is still unable to take care of himself or Simi. in the sense of house, food and other necessities of life as they are living in barsati.
The issue is when abhi says ab tum miujhe kitna giraogii. meaning he is already feeling bad living in his sasural.
Abhi already feels he is uncapable of taking care of simi the way he wants and not able to give simi what he should and that is why he uses the words ab tum mujhe kitna aur giraogi.

hi but i dont think any harm about abhi staying in simi's house ,if their son is not capable of taking care so y not son-in-law. i have seen some familys were son-in-law takes care of the family . in my vision no harm.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nimi2b4u

sorry but i dont think i heard something like that ,he only said "bhalla ne itni giri hui baat tum se ki kaise" infront of her he made fool out of him.he raised the qouestion y did she not trust him ,is henot capable of doing his responsiabilites.

ok this was the exact dialogue bas simi explantion ya safai deke mujhe aur jalil mat karo meaning he already feels ashamed and now simi;s actions make him for more ashamed that he is unable to protect his wife. The dialogue comes at 1-30 minute in part 3
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nimi2b4u

hi but i dont think any harm about abhi staying in simi's house ,if their son is not capable of taking care so y not son-in-law. i have seen some familys were son-in-law takes care of the family . in my vision no harm.

some ppl can do it but a khuddar person like abhi can not and will not.
If you remenber incident when manju asked abhi not to come in his house and anita told him that he came to sethi nivas to respect RS;s wishes but did not ente the house.
Abhi is staying in barsati only to help them and to make simi happy. Inside he feels bad and says every now then. the last he metnioned when simi called him bachha and tried to apologize . He said you don;t know how hard it is for me.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaNiCo



To protect his wife is Abhi's right that goes with the duty of also the HIGHNESS to let him have it. Rights and duties go side by side and Abhi the levelheaded guy has never ever shown violent streak in his behavior except during the wedding saga and even then he warned Nakul first to back away. Now for Simi to think she is scared of his anger is 🤬 And we all know she was the one running with the iron rod and Abhi just found that out. How could she justify her anger to act to be violent and he just slapped Bhalla once or twice she calls him to be the violent one. Simi needs to be in the doghouse( or may be she already is)
to learn her lesson and not for a day o two......to appreciate the value of her marriage and her husband.....and I hope she does not tag along with him to the Taneja's house for just this once and stays behind .......
now for her to have learned her lesson...........................NOT A CHANCE ..........
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Everyone comments are absolutely correct. I couldn't agree more. I especially like sanicos comments about it is Abhis right and duty to protect simi. Although he is younger than simi he is far more mature in years than her. It would be eating him up that he has no job, no money and is living off of his in laws. That would be so down grading for a person such as Abhis character who has always taken care of his needs and himself on his own without any help from his father. Simi should realise that living with her family is not a good position to be in. They need to move away and she needs to let Abhi be a man and care for her and himself in a way that a normal husband would want. He needs to stop being so nice to simi and stop letting her take the decisions all the time. He needs to tell her how they are going to live their future lives together and where they are going to live. She is his wife and should act accordingly. Abhi needs to be more the dominating figure in the relationship. Marriage means two people understanding each other needs. Not simi understanding her familys needs and telling abhi what he must do to help the solve the sethis problems.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ginac

Everyone comments are absolutely correct. I couldn't agree more. I especially like sanicos comments about it is Abhis right and duty to protect simi. Although he is younger than simi he is far more mature in years than her. It would be eating him up that he has no job, no money and is living off of his in laws. That would be so down grading for a person such as Abhis character who has always taken care of his needs and himself on his own without any help from his father. Simi should realise that living with her family is not a good position to be in. They need to move away and she needs to let Abhi be a man and care for her and himself in a way that a normal husband would want. He needs to stop being so nice to simi and stop letting her take the decisions all the time. He needs to tell her how they are going to live their future lives together and where they are going to live. She is his wife and should act accordingly. Abhi needs to be more the dominating figure in the relationship. Marriage means two people understanding each other needs. Not simi understanding her familys needs and telling abhi what he must do to help the solve the sethis problems.



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