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ramas

@ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

from yesterday's episode the scenes between Anusha Simi and Abhi moved me. I was shocked to see how Simi and Anusha;s love and niceness were considered their weaknesses and was totally ignored.

Mr T is treating 2 wonderful ladies like a dirt and an object to insult the way he wants .

Simi came there and brought Abhi to get his blessings only despite getting insulted and thrown out on her wedding night.

The least Mr T had done is gave his blessings to them.

He should have recognized that Simi has change his son who came to seek his blessing who other wise stayed away from him.

I was totally disgusted seeing Mr T thinking that both Anusha and Simi are so weak that he can take his cheap shots on them and, their love and respect for him is their weakness

I really like Simi and Anusha to form allliance against the 2 evils Mr T and Anita as they both need to learn how to treat ladies. and that niceness and kindness is a trait not to be taken as weakness,

the hand that rocks the cradle can do anything .

I truly like 2 see this 2 as very strong women. I mean they are . But I want them to fight injustice in their own homes.

My heart goes out for mothers like Anusha who has to loose his son because of evilness and stubborn ness of 2 sick ppl. and poor simi is denied a right to live in her sasural.

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SaNiCo

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ramas I do agree on the part of wonderful alliance of Simi/Anusha to be made and to defeat the Anita/Me T in their game but doing that we are letting them win in this game and that would be defeating the whole purpose.😍

Anita's evil side is due to her upbringing of always been the favorite one in the household and the BRAT. Now I don't know the earlier episodes that well but form the roka episode it as very clear that Anusha always took her Hubby's and Anita's side but after that she had a change of heart and reformed. The lohiri episode Anusha without knowing the facts even was ready to lie for Anita and was hell bent on taking Anita's side. We as parents have to show our children when they are wrong and not take their side and teach them the process of decision making and that is parenthood which in Anita's case was missing from both parents. Abhi on the other hand went abroad i guess..... and learned to judge the right and the wrong.
Anusha from the get go should have taught The lesson of TOUGH LOVE TO ANITA.

I really don't think women as the general should be labeled weak cause how can someone who gives birth to the kings and the scientists be considered weak
It is stories like this portraying females in majority like the weaker gender.
Not only that many of us will acknowledge this sad truth and shake our heads and walk away . Ramas how can we unravel the thousands of years deep seated Indian mentality???
Do the powers of revolution truly lie within our reach.an our grasp.
THERE IS AN ANSWER FOR ALL THIS WEAKER GENDER SHOWN
ON THESE SERIALS either we are weak or nasty.😍.

UNTIL AND UNLESS WE WRITE ON THESE ISSUES IT AIN'T HAPPENING!😍

WE FEMALES HAVE TO CARVE OUR OWN DESTINY ON THESE SERIALS WITH OUR OWN HANDS.😍😍

I always try to add the humor in my posts and this time just got to put my two cents in........
on this serious issue on these serials😍

Edited by SaNiCo - 15 years ago

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Dhabu89

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: SaNiCo
Ramas I do agree on the part of wonderful alliance of Simi/Anusha to be made and to defeat the Anita/Me T in their game but doing that we are letting them win in this game and that would be defeating the whole purpose.😍

Anita's evil side is due to her upbringing of always been the favorite one in the household and the BRAT. Now I don't know the earlier episodes that well but form the roka episode it as very clear that Anusha always took her Hubby's and Anita's side but after that she had a change of heart and reformed. The lohiri episode Anusha without knowing the fact seven was ready to lie for Anita and was hell bent on taking Anita's side. We as parents have to show our children when they are wrong and not take their side and teach them the process of decision making and that is parenthood which in Anita's case was missing from both parents. Abhi on the other hand went abroad i guess..... and learned to judge the right and the wrong.
Anusha from the get go should have taught The lesson of TOUGH LOVE TO ANITA.

I really don't think women as the general should be labeled weak cause how can someone who gives birth to the kings and the scientists be considered weak
It is stories like this portraying females in majority like the weaker gender.
Not only that many of us will acknowledge this sad truth and shake our heads and walk away . Ramas how can we unravel the thousands of years deep seated Indian mentality???
Do the powers of revolution truly lie within our reach.an our grasp.
THERE IS AN ANSWER FOR ALL THIS WEAKER GENDER SHOWN
ON THESE SERIALS either we are weak or nasty.😍.

UNTIL AND UNLESS WE WRITE ON THESE ISSUES IT AIN'T HAPPENING!😍

WE FEMALES HAVE TO CARVE OUR OWN DESTINY ON THESE SERIALS WITH OUR OWN HANDS.😍

I always try to add the humor in my posts and this time just got to put my two cents in........

Women need to be heard...I totally agree and the only way to change the Indian mindset is for serials to show a woman who is strong and yet has the ability to be gentle and caring...Right now on the serials it is one or the other...If you are strong you are evil and vice versa....Thanks for pointing that out. Even though it is in everyones mind no one will speak up....And I am here with you to speak up.................

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: SaNiCo
Ramas I do agree on the part of wonderful alliance of Simi/Anusha to be made and to defeat the Anita/Me T in their game but doing that we are letting them win in this game and that would be defeating the whole purpose.😍

Anita's evil side is due to her upbringing of always been the favorite one in the household and the BRAT. Now I don't know the earlier episodes that well but form the roka episode it as very clear that Anusha always took her Hubby's and Anita's side but after that she had a change of heart and reformed. The lohiri episode Anusha without knowing the fact seven was ready to lie for Anita and was hell bent on taking Anita's side. We as parents have to show our children when they are wrong and not take their side and teach them the process of decision making and that is parenthood which in Anita's case was missing from both parents. Abhi on the other hand went abroad i guess..... and learned to judge the right and the wrong.
Anusha from the get go should have taught The lesson of TOUGH LOVE TO ANITA.

I really don't think women as the general should be labeled weak cause how can someone who gives birth to the kings and the scientists be considered weak
It is stories like this portraying females in majority like the weaker gender.
Not only that many of us will acknowledge this sad truth and shake our heads and walk away . Ramas how can we unravel the thousands of years deep seated Indian mentality???
Do the powers of revolution truly lie within our reach.an our grasp.
THERE IS AN ANSWER FOR ALL THIS WEAKER GENDER SHOWN
ON THESE SERIALS either we are weak or nasty.😍.

UNTIL AND UNLESS WE WRITE ON THESE ISSUES IT AIN'T HAPPENING!😍

WE FEMALES HAVE TO CARVE OUR OWN DESTINY ON THESE SERIALS WITH OUR OWN HANDS.😍

I always try to add the humor in my posts and this time just got to put my two cents in........

i do agree and you are right it is fact of life I have experienced myself shedding bucketful ot tears always for being nice and caring till my own child taught me not to take a crap from any one and fight back without loosing niceness.

So we women have to fight back and I am surely going to give my earful as I want to see Simi back into T mansion where she belongs after being Tarneja and kick Anita's behind out of there and bring her back to sethis,

We women are not weak that is why god has given us pain of childbirth and made us so storng to take that smilingly.

i was disgusted watching Simi clutching her fists and poor Anusha crying.

How can those 2 evil late a mother go thru such pain of loosing her son.

If she is preg anuj should take her child away when it is born then may be she will understand how a mother feels when she is separated from her child.

Edited by ramas - 15 years ago

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SaNiCo

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ramas
i do agree and you are right it is fact of life I have experienced myself shedding bucketful ot tears always for being nice and caring till my own child taught me not to take a crap from any one and fight back without loosing niceness.
So we women have to fight back and I am surely going to give my earful as I want to see Simi back into T mansion where she belongs after being Tarneja and kick Anita's behind out of there back and bring her back to sethis,

We women are not weak that is why god has given us pain of childbirth and made us so storng to take that smilingly.

i was disgusted watching Simi clutching her fists and poor Anusha crying.

How can those 2 evil late a mother go thru such pain of loosing her son.

If she is preg anuj should take her child away when it is born then may be she will understand how a mother feels when she is separated from her child.

And Ramas it is not portraying them as the weaker gender but also showing them being so tolerant ,naive and proud of this fact.... it to the extent of being to a level of being called foolish. I am all for the realism of the society and the society as a general condemning the outburst by this gender........., and being polite and humble to your elders............ but to an EXTENT an then for God sake ............call it enough is enough.😡😍
Now given simi went to her in-laws the first time after her marriage but she should have spoken up.... and answered Mr. T in a polite manner......... of course Abhi did that in a very beautiful way.
Anusha should have done that long ago . Here she is the kitty party lover and the gossip central and can't even fight for injustice in her very own home. The creative's must think we all have the blinders on and can't rationalize the utter nonsense being fed to us that the females in India are either weak or witches 😡😍

Edited by SaNiCo - 15 years ago

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SaNiCo

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: SimBhi2

Women need to be heard...I totally agree and the only way to change the Indian mindset is for serials to show a woman who is strong and yet has the ability to be gentle and caring...Right now on the serials it is one or the other...If you are strong you are evil and vice versa....Thanks for pointing that out. Even though it is in everyones mind no one will speak up....And I am here with you to speak up.................

And that is the attitude and the strength we need in INDIA to change the mindset and for the INDIAN MENTALITY to think about us FEMALES as the fighters for the just cause and be ready to make any changes in the.society.............let it be the social reform or the domestic issues. And speaking about the changes in the mindset one episode does come to mind is the one where Simi tells Abhi that her mom is not out to change the thinking that is deep-rooted in the Indian mentality of some 5000years old regarding the females and this
same issue was very beautifully raised in this serial from the get go before the LOVE
😍CONFESSION so... my dearest Simbhi2.......the first and the foremost step would be to speak up and to write about it.

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Batuni1

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: SimBhi2

Women need to be heard...I totally agree and the only way to change the Indian mindset is for serials to show a woman who is strong and yet has the ability to be gentle and caring...Right now on the serials it is one or the other...If you are strong you are evil and vice versa....Thanks for pointing that out. Even though it is in everyones mind no one will speak up....And I am here with you to speak up.................

Beautifully expressed by all of you just wanted to add one more fact of the female gender shown in today's episode is the bitter reality of the female infanticide and why it is also the females who are subject to it who are themselves a FEMALE JUST THINK ABOUT IT!!!!

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Shankar

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Posted: 15 years ago

I hate being late when there is nothing left to say. 😔 😆 but i totally agree and it is being shown in ALL dramas. 😡

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SaNiCo

@pageant101

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: -Shankar-
I hate being late when there is nothing left to say. 😔 😆 but i totally agree and it is being shown in ALL dramas. 😡

Shankar you are not late and still can jump in the discussion and your views are not only needed but are also welcome.

This did surprise me in todays episode for just merely the fact that they did mention the female infanticides and eventhough simi and milli had lied about this and concocted the whole story but This is why karol-bagh impressed me in the beginning to bring the taboo topics of our society. I am not going to discuss my views on the abortion issue here on this forum but the issue of FEMALE INFANTICIDE should be discussed. Karol-bagh three cheers to you and the creative's team for opening this issue for the media to ponder upon and for us to face it now before it is too late.😍

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ReadLo

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Posted: 15 years ago

#10

We have two choices
1) they are weak
2) they are bad
I think we have no other choice but there is two. Too bad they always end up destroying the character of the woman (I think it's sexist lol)😆😉

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