disgust...the new cliche term...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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we are seeing this word a lot today...just wondering why this emotion shows up only at certain times..and not at certain other times...
like where was this natural feeling of distaste when a colleague clicks defaming pictures of another innocent colleague....actually a lady colleague ...to blackmail her in to submission...dont remember seeing this word so many times then..???
or when a man manhandles his wife, or abuses her ...not only in the privacy of the house but actually in her working place,,,,in front of the staff of the hospital...drags her by her arm..inspite of her refusal....what is it then...oh yeah a sexy grab ...right !!
or for that matter when a husband asks a wife to clean his shoes in public...was there no feeling of distaste or weirdness or wrongness......oh yeah...husband hai...mera pati mera devtaa hai funda...
and ofcourse when this same husband and ..what was it again ??...ex boyfriend...right !! sends him to meet his wife in his place...did not feel weird ???
or when he goes ahead and checks out another girl in the marriage market as his future prospective wife.....there was no disgust...
or when he refuses to acknowledge his wife in front of his mother but pretends that she is his friends wife...the disgust cells were all dried up then.....
and when a husband asks his wife to pretend to be her ex boyfriend's wife....what was the feeling then ??
or when a married man sees his wife being forced to take vows of marriage with her ex....and when she tries to leave....does not let her ..by silent expressions....what emotions arise then ??
or when a husband tells his wife...give me seven months...after that u can go back to ur ex....what feelings does it evoke ???
strange...how people can forgive soo much as human flaws...but an accident disgusts them !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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soo true..you explained things sonicely..exactly tehre was no such feeling then because it was justified as hewas angry, the husband was hurt😔 but it doesn't matter whether Armaan has come closer to Riddhima accidentally..it's a disgust..i don't know what logic is there..it's hard for me to understand...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey u dont know the logic....he is her husband....whatever he does is fine..they are married..marriage gives a man license to do anything and everything and still be forgiven...no disgust attaches to his actions....😡🤢
Edited by eveline - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i so agree wid u n v dont even know the whole story..it was just a PRECAP!!!....n the whole husband thing....i totally agreewid u
Awesum topic waise i luv ur posts...Dynamic😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with u ...well d latest was d one where d husband tells his wife...give me seven months...after that u can go back to ur ex...I was shocked 2 hear that...it sounded like some fairness cream ad..."try for 3 week if u don't get d results get ur money back"😆...no wonder d wife refuses 2 talk with d husband...n this is no act of mahanness...

d mud precap was n accident...it was not like Armaan has put up a trap for Ridz 2 fall into that puddle...infact he wanted 2 go away from Ridz...he was send away 2 lonavala...ALONE....but u see destiny brought them together😛😆

Btw I wonder how long this topic will remain open🤔
Edited by -Moni- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Moni-

I agree with u ...well d latest was d one where d husband tells his wife...give me seven months...after that u can go back to ur ex...I was shocked 2 hear that...it sounded like some fairness cream ad..."try for 3 week if u don't get d results get ur money back"😆...no wonder d wife refuses 2 talk with d husband...n this is no act of mahanness...

d mud precap was n accident...it was not like Armaan has put up a trap for Ridz 2 fall into that puddle...infact he wanted 2 go away from Ridz...he was send away 2 lonavala...ALONE....but u see destiny brought them together😛😆

Btw I wonder how long this topic will remain open🤔

actually who cares how long it will remain open yaar...this topic was ripped out of me by all the comments on this forum...had to have my say .....they can do whatever they may😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good points - I don't agree with all of 'em, but you do well in bringing them up ...

If only we could have a serious discussion over 'em. But people tend to lose their cool when dealing with those who disagree ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I so agree meanings of disgust change so quickly !!
A husband can do anything he pleases even if its wrong and in bad taste but that isnt termed digusting because, it is said a husband has a right over his wife ...as if the woman has no identity and choice of her own that she has to live on the command of her husband !!
And if there is an accident and two people fall over one another it is termed as disgusting ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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one thing i would love to Add.. beta pathi parmeshwar bagawan ka roop hota hai. woh joh karthay hai usay prasaad samaj ke swekar karlena
lekin humay kuch ulta nahi karna chyeh.. varna log hum paar hassingay...
Disgusting cheep kaheinga
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

we are seeing this word a lot today...just wondering why this emotion shows up only at certain times..and not at certain other times...lol. i am confused myself!😆


like where was this natural feeling of distaste when a colleague clicks defaming pictures of another innocent colleague....actually a lady colleague ...to blackmail her in to submission...dont remember seeing this word so many times then..???
i seriously didn't like it but then riddhima had provoked him thoroughly. but i didn't expect sid to pay back her so nicely. well and he was doing it for his own purpose, to avenge what ridz did to him.
so actually i didn't like both of them. they were not behaving innocently, rather spiteful, mean, nasty and crude villains!😡............

😡😡
or when a man manhandles his wife, or abuses her ...not only in the privacy of the house but actually in her working place,,,,in front of the staff of the hospital...drags her by her arm..inspite of her refusal....what is it then...oh yeah a sexy grab ...right !!
yes! i didn't like it! i actually paid no heed to her pleas and dragged her through the corridors! the situation was quite embarrassing!
i don't know when sid will give her time and space to resolve her issues rather than imposing himself upon her.😡 she gets utterly infuriated and disgusted by his attitude!
or for that matter when a husband asks a wife to clean his shoes in public...was there no feeling of distaste or weirdness or wrongness......oh yeah...husband hai...mera pati mera devtaa hai funda...
and ofcourse when this same husband and ..what was it again ??...ex boyfriend...right !! sends him to meet his wife in his place...did not feel weird ???
or when he goes ahead and checks out another girl in the marriage market as his future prospective wife.....there was no disgust...
or when he refuses to acknowledge his wife in front of his mother but pretends that she is his friends wife...the disgust cells were all dried up then.....
all things you have listed above are so natural to be felt mocking and literally a crime, anyways i didn't like the events at all. i understood sid's frustration but he could have been better. i agree he is not human but atleast don't make a mockery out of your marriage and especially when riddhima was actually giving her earnest efforts! he should have own up about his marriage to mom. and said anything else when she was literally cursing riddhima!
her morale and self esteem was so low and then add to it the injury on her character and self respect!

and when a husband asks his wife to pretend to be her ex boyfriend's wife....what was the feeling then ??
or when a married man sees his wife being forced to take vows of marriage with her ex....and when she tries to leave....does not let her ..by silent expressions....what emotions arise then ??
these two things broke me up. i could to some extent justify sid's earlier actions as a result riddhima's suicide attempt! but why and what was the need to do all this?😕
he not only played with armaan and riddhima's emotions but also made a mockery of their self respect, their relationship and his marriage!
😡
or when a husband tells his wife...give me seven months...after that u can go back to ur ex....what feelings does it evoke ???
now, that was last thing i expected. the statement sounded like a deal, not a decision and was very immature! infact, whether riddhima loved sid or not, she would have been utterly disgusted and felt like a dejected person or just like a piece of furnitute! riddhima's reaction was genuine!😡...............
strange...how people can forgive soo much as human flaws...but an accident disgusts them !!


di! thank you for carving it so beautifully! you elaborated it very well!
i hope this ends soon and you keep putting in more posts. i really wanted an analytical post from you!😊

Edited by shihij07 - 15 years ago

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