Krishna's dilemma

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Is Krishna hanging out with the wrong people that is influencing his choices and behavior? Who are they?

It was Tunna who brought Angad to Krishna for help. The only good that came out of it was that Krishna saw Prats and their story began.

Tunna/Chandu didn't find out about Angad's ghatiya actions against Nitin and Prats for which Krishna is being punished.

He befriends (sort of) Angad, and shot him in the hand to frame Adarsh.
Angad has manipulated him in his pursuit of Prats and framed him for ghatiya crimes (Prats still believes Krishna did them). At least he has asked Angad to stay away from him.

SS has filled Krishna's head with nonsensical ideas over the years and still continues to influence him. Krishna loves and trusts his father. When will he finally see the light and realize that his life is going down the drain with these terrible ideas?

The only people who have given him any sound advice are Kesar (explain to her nicely, she's an educated girl she will understand, everyone likes to be loved) and AV (woman have to be treated gently and not forced). Prats has given him a few "speeches" blaming him rather than making him understand the errors of his ways in a productive way.

His Amma, SS and Sakthi ridicule his love for Prats openly

So, who should Krishna hang out with and who should he turn to for advice to turn his marriage around?

All hope is not lost: He does have some redeeming qualities. He is willing to reflect and has also realized a few truths so far.................

Tacurse jooti shaan se mar rahe hain
Ghar is khaidkhana
Komal will be better off not marrying a Tacurse
Tells Komal to change her ways
Regrets not having an education
Supports Prats in little ways and steps in to defend her against his family
In spite of his very rude behavior at the hotel, he walked away in the end
Feels bad about his father and brother's abuse of their wives (tricky ..... does not step in)
Has been trying to change since his wedding but doesn't get positive feedback or appreciation for his efforts (and reverts back to old patterns of behavior feeling frustrated, hurt and angry and more confused)

Your thoughts?


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: MERARAI

<font size="3">Is Krishna hanging out with the wrong people that is influencing his choices and behavior? Who are they?</font>

It was Tunna who brought Angad to Krishna for help. The only good that came out of it was that Krishna saw Prats and their story began.

Tunna/Chandu didn't find out about Angad's ghatiya actions against Nitin and Prats for which Krishna is being punished.

He befriends (sort of) Angad, and shot him in the hand to frame Adarsh.
Angad has manipulated him in his pursuit of Prats and framed him for ghatiya crimes (Prats still believes Krishna did them). At least he has asked Angad to stay away from him.

SS has filled Krishna's head with nonsensical ideas over the years and still continues to influence him. Krishna loves and trusts his father. When will he finally see the light and realize that his life is going down the drain with these terrible ideas?

The only people who have given him any sound advice are Kesar (explain to her nicely, she's an educated girl she will understand, everyone likes to be loved) and AV (woman have to be treated gently and not forced). Prats has given him a few "speeches" blaming him rather than making him understand the errors of his ways in a productive way.

His Amma, SS and Sakthi ridicule his love for Prats openly

<font size="4">So, who should Krishna hang out with and who should he turn to for advice to turn his marriage around?</font>

All hope is not lost: He does have some redeeming qualities. He is willing to reflect and has also realized a few truths so far.................

Tacurse jooti shaan se mar rahe hain
Ghar is khaidkhana
Komal will be better off not marrying a Tacurse
Tells Komal to change her ways
Regrets not having an education
Supports Prats in little ways and steps in to defend her against his family
In spite of his very rude behavior at the hotel, he walked away in the
end
Feels bad about his father and brother's abuse of their wives (tricky ..... does not step in)
Has been trying to change since his wedding but doesn't get positive feedback or appreciation for his efforts (and reverts back to old patterns of behavior feeling frustrated, hurt and angry and more confused)

Your thoughts?




good points made! i totally agree with you! i think that the only way that krishna will make any progress with prats is if he stops taking the wrong advice and starts taking the good advice! krishna did well the night he talked to varun as he remembered what varun said about women being delicate and so he let pratigya sleep that night but i cant help wondering that if krishna had understood varun's advice properly and not tried to force prats, he probably would've made some leeway with her, maybe she would have been on the verge of forgetting some of the stuff he did 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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u r right ...krishna is a very complex character ... one never knows what he will do next
or what is going on in his head ....

he loves Pratigya ... but cannot express in the right way due to his upbringing and wrong
influences in his life ... I am very eager to see how he shapes up in future episodes ...

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Originally posted by: MERARAI

Is Krishna hanging out with the wrong people that is influencing his choices and behavior? Who are they?

It was Tunna who brought Angad to Krishna for help. The only good that came out of it was that Krishna saw Prats and their story began.

Tunna/Chandu didn't find out about Angad's ghatiya actions against Nitin and Prats for which Krishna is being punished.

He befriends (sort of) Angad, and shot him in the hand to frame Adarsh.
Angad has manipulated him in his pursuit of Prats and framed him for ghatiya crimes (Prats still believes Krishna did them). At least he has asked Angad to stay away from him.

SS has filled Krishna's head with nonsensical ideas over the years and still continues to influence him. Krishna loves and trusts his father. When will he finally see the light and realize that his life is going down the drain with these terrible ideas?

The only people who have given him any sound advice are Kesar (explain to her nicely, she's an educated girl she will understand, everyone likes to be loved) and AV (woman have to be treated gently and not forced). Prats has given him a few "speeches" blaming him rather than making him understand the errors of his ways in a productive way.

His Amma, SS and Sakthi ridicule his love for Prats openly

So, who should Krishna hang out with and who should he turn to for advice to turn his marriage around?

All hope is not lost: He does have some redeeming qualities. He is willing to reflect and has also realized a few truths so far.................

Tacurse jooti shaan se mar rahe hain
Ghar is khaidkhana
Komal will be better off not marrying a Tacurse
Tells Komal to change her ways
Regrets not having an education
Supports Prats in little ways and steps in to defend her against his family
In spite of his very rude behavior at the hotel, he walked away in the end
Feels bad about his father and brother's abuse of their wives (tricky ..... does not step in)
Has been trying to change since his wedding but doesn't get positive feedback or appreciation for his efforts (and reverts back to old patterns of behavior feeling frustrated, hurt and angry and more confused)

Your thoughts?




I have always believed that Krishna is a good guy with all the wrong upbringing. He can identify that his heart tells him that they way his dad and brother treat their wives is wrong but I guess he 'doesn't think it his forte to intervene. He has been brought up in a patriachal family where the father is the head of the family where all the decision are made by the head and no one can challenge. He only challenged his dad's decicion when SS's norms started getting in the way of his love.

His contradictions started when he met the Sucksena family where evryone was respected and treated equally. Then the difference between the two fam sunk in.

Since he has very limted concept of right or wrong when people give advice to him most of the time he listens to them if he thinks the final outcome will be in his favour.




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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo



I have always believed that Krishna is a good guy with all the wrong upbringing. He can identify that his heart tells him that they way his dad and brother treat their wives is wrong but I guess he 'doesn't think it his forte to intervene. He has been brought up in a patriachal family where the father is the head of the family where all the decision are made by the head and no one can challenge. He only challenged his dad's decicion when SS's norms started getting in the way of his love.

His contradictions started when he met the Sucksena family where evryone was respected and treated equally. Then the difference between the two fam sunk in.

Since he has very limted concept of right or wrong when people give advice to him most of the time he listens to them if he thinks the final outcome will be in his favour.




I think that is what is fascinating about Krishna's character. He sees the difference between what he is and what he could be but doesn't know how to get there. As they say ....you can catch bees with honey not vinegar. I guess he was looking to Prats to be his honey 😉 in more ways than one who showed him the way out of the kaidhkhana life but she is right now the vinegar and things are sour between them. He had dreams she was going to make a difference in his family but for now it all seems like a nightmare. They say behind every successful man is a woman. Prats doesn't want to be anywhere near him so what are the chances of succeeding? Arey, kuch tho bolobo yaar! All she does is rona-dhona....just like the Sucksenas.

When Prats told Krishna he only loved himself and didn't think about anyone else was she projecting? Her focus is on wanting to go to her maike and what she wants, even after she was told NO twice. She doesn't seem to want to even start fixing things with Krishna. Seems like she is thinking about herself right now.

BTW, is the show headed in making Adarsh and Komal be the golden couple? How long will Krishna and Prats be on the outs with each other?
Edited by MERARAI - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well i guess thats the charm of his character,unpredictable and a man of words.i love him in last episode when he said 'kassam kha li toh kha li,hum nahi choenge'.u guys are right,krishna never gets a right advise from anywhere,he has showed that he has the capability to refrom but nobody is helping him in it.even prats who told his dad on wedding that she will refrom him,but till now she is just neglecting him.treuly krishna is good guy with all the wrong upbringing and that's what i like about his character.

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