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Posted: 15 years ago
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While I liked the fact that Abhi finally blew up in frustration with Simi, here are a few things to note. We never got the impression throughout the series that Simi wanted to marry Abhi. If anything, Abhi was the one who aggresively pursued Simi. If you remember, when he proposed to her she was not happy; when she was pressured to marry Nakul, she never bothered to think of how this would impact Abhi - her responsess were that he will understand (or whatever), and even down to the moment she was taking the pheras, it was Abhi, NOT Simi who was trying to end the marriage...

A few weeks later and we see Abhi is married to a woman with a lot of emotional baggage. The fact she calls him bachcha when he is probably the one with more sense than her, is an insult. He could have done better for herself, she could not. Rather than appreciate the fact that he wanted her, she's treating him as if she could have had any guy and he is the one who has lucked.
Pay close attention to the scene. He says to her that if you're so unhappy, why don't YOU leave. Is Abhi suggesting that he is not unhappy with her and is ready to stay with her? I would rather he have said, Simi, I've had enough, after 3 days I am going to set you free and you can marry an "Aadmi" for your choice.
Also, while Abhi has finally blown up, Simi will give him a sob story and make him feel guilty for what he said. Then he'll either jump of the terrace or electrocute himself - or both at the same time - to prove his love for Simi.
The writers give us a bit and then they taketh away. So while I am GLAD (and good work from Neil Bhatt) that Abhi blew is top, I know he will not leave Simi (which sucks) and Simi's sob story will win him back.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

While I liked the fact that Abhi finally blew up in frustration with Simi, here are a few things to note. We never got the impression throughout the series that Simi wanted to marry Abhi. If anything, Abhi was the one who aggresively pursued Simi. If you remember, when he proposed to her she was not happy; when she was pressured to marry Nakul, she never bothered to think of how this would impact Abhi - her responsess were that he will understand (or whatever), and even down to the moment she was taking the pheras, it was Abhi, NOT Simi who was trying to end the marriage...

A few weeks later and we see Abhi is married to a woman with a lot of emotional baggage. The fact she calls him bachcha when he is probably the one with more sense than her, is an insult. He could have done better for herself, she could not. Rather than appreciate the fact that he wanted her, she's treating him as if she could have had any guy and he is the one who has lucked.
Pay close attention to the scene. He says to her that if you're so unhappy, why don't YOU leave. Is Abhi suggesting that he is not unhappy with her and is ready to stay with her? I would rather he have said, Simi, I've had enough, after 3 days I am going to set you free and you can marry an "Aadmi" for your choice.
Also, while Abhi has finally blown up, Simi will give him a sob story and make him feel guilty for what he said. Then he'll either jump of the terrace or electrocute himself - or both at the same time - to prove his love for Simi.
The writers give us a bit and then they taketh away. So while I am GLAD (and good work from Neil Bhatt) that Abhi blew is top, I know he will not leave Simi (which sucks) and Simi's sob story will win him back.

What he is trying to tell Simi is that because she is always saying he is not sensible or not thinking clearly or not handling the situation maturely and if she is unhappy then she can leave.........She is the one who constantly seems to have a problem with him.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Laali we all know the CV's will not stray from the tried and true "formula." I've been watching Hindi serials and Bollywood movies enough to know that divorce does not happen. Whoever, you're married to no matter how bad you don't divorce. Of course, sometimes the other person dies, jail, etc. but no divorce. Or you will magically fall in love with your husband ala the movie Dhadkan. If their history of arguments is any indication he will be holding her by Sunday. All will be forgiven and Abhi back to square one. Abhi will never leave Simi Di.
I think Simi made Abhi love her. Remeber the day they met and she yelled, "you don't love me do you?" and walked away in a huff. I think Simi loves Abhi now but doesn't know how to show IT. The nuptial night would be a great place to start. ☺️ 😃 What say yaar?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RoyalT

Laali we all know the CV's will not stray from the tried and true "formula." I've been watching Hindi serials and Bollywood movies enough to know that divorce does not happen. Whoever, you're married to no matter how bad you don't divorce. Of course, sometimes the other person dies, jail, etc. but no divorce. Or you will magically fall in love with your husband ala the movie Dhadkan. If their history of arguments is any indication he will be holding her by Sunday. All will be forgiven and Abhi back to square one. Abhi will never leave Simi Di.

I think Simi made Abhi love her. Remeber the day they met and she yelled, "you don't love me do you?" and walked away in a huff. I think Simi loves Abhi now but doesn't know how to show IT. The nuptial night would be a great place to start. ☺️ 😃 What say yaar?

That particular night has been known to do wonders😆😆
It definetely is a great place to start😆😉😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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GREAT PLACE to start.....😛.... what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!just kidding and the mystery of this great magical night has to be solved by our duo. When and how depends on the push and shove from us the viewers and the mood on the creatives.
This rift might help but I DOUBT IT. noooooo I am not a pessimist even though you are always either proven right or pleasantly surprised. but in case I will be an optimist and hope for the fine story line at the right time which is NOW. I learned it long time ago that the optimist invent the airplanes (to go up) and the pessimist the parachutes(to go down).My guess at this cross roads is that they have to be in their own house safe and secure both happily employed, for any further storyline or the SR to happen and it will be right time too without the hassles. And both will have their phone on
SILENT MODE🤣

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think simi ws also equally interestd in marriaging abhi! I think whatever he did ws 100% right bt i dont wnt simbhi to b separatd nd i knw it wil never happen!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Did you notice Simi always tells Abhi off in front of her family, while he controls his reaction and gives her a piece of his mind in private - and ironically she calls him a bachcha!
If there were an award for the most unpopular wife/bahu/behen, Simi would win it hands down. I am sure even the conservative behenjis and maatajis who form the bulk of the soap audience in India don't like her character because while being sacrificial is admired being disrespectful and unappreciative towards husband is not.
If you see the other shows where the heroines makes assess of themselves sacrificing for their maika and sasural, they are still very respectful and loving towards their husbands - they may hide stuff from them but they never put them down. No wonder KB's TRP ranking is stagnant.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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What a wonderful thought Bana,,,,,it is the truth and I am starting to hate Simi.....I am actually rooting for Abhi to go find another girl,,,,
At the same time I know it is not Simi's fault...It is the CV's who have ruined our favorite heroine......And I hope they bring her right back on track like they did with Anuj and Manju......before it's too late.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: daboo89

What a wonderful thought Bana,,,,,it is the truth and I am starting to hate Simi.....I am actually rooting for Abhi to go find another girl,,,,

At the same time I know it is not Simi's fault...It is the CV's who have ruined our favorite heroine......And I hope they bring her right back on track like they did with Anuj and Manju......before it's too late.....

Of course it is the creatives fault! Simi is not a real person who acts alone.
They character was ruined a long time ago, most people just don't like it now. All that "optimism" has finally got the better of them. People are now seeing things for what they are and demanding that the creatives do something about it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: RoyalT

Laali we all know the CV's will not stray from the tried and true "formula." I've been watching Hindi serials and Bollywood movies enough to know that divorce does not happen. Whoever, you're married to no matter how bad you don't divorce. Of course, sometimes the other person dies, jail, etc. but no divorce. Or you will magically fall in love with your husband ala the movie Dhadkan. If their history of arguments is any indication he will be holding her by Sunday. All will be forgiven and Abhi back to square one. Abhi will never leave Simi Di.

I think Simi made Abhi love her. Remeber the day they met and she yelled, "you don't love me do you?" and walked away in a huff. I think Simi loves Abhi now but doesn't know how to show IT. The nuptial night would be a great place to start. ☺️ 😃 What say yaar?

What is wrong with a seperation and watching Simi try to get Abhi back? I think it would be great to watch. Of course the two finally get together but it will be the process of how she wins him back that would be interesting...we were all deprived of the process of Abhi and Simi falling in love, at least we can get some compensation of these darn creatives.

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