Music to my ears, but... - Page 2

I agree totally.

In agree totally.

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Originally posted by: Laila2009

While I liked the fact that Abhi finally blew up in frustration with Simi, here are a few things to note. We never got the impression throughout the series that Simi wanted to marry Abhi. If anything, Abhi was the one who aggresively pursued Simi. If you remember, when he proposed to her she was not happy; when she was pressured to marry Nakul, she never bothered to think of how this would impact Abhi - her responsess were that he will understand (or whatever), and even down to the moment she was taking the pheras, it was Abhi, NOT Simi who was trying to end the marriage...

A few weeks later and we see Abhi is married to a woman with a lot of emotional baggage. The fact she calls him bachcha when he is probably the one with more sense than her, is an insult. He could have done better for herself, she could not. Rather than appreciate the fact that he wanted her, she's treating him as if she could have had any guy and he is the one who has lucked.

Pay close attention to the scene. He says to her that if you're so unhappy, why don't YOU leave. Is Abhi suggesting that he is not unhappy with her and is ready to stay with her? I would rather he have said, Simi, I've had enough, after 3 days I am going to set you free and you can marry an "Aadmi" for your choice.

Also, while Abhi has finally blown up, Simi will give him a sob story and make him feel guilty for what he said. Then he'll either jump of the terrace or electrocute himself - or both at the same time - to prove his love for Simi.

The writers give us a bit and then they taketh away. So while I am GLAD (and good work from Neil Bhatt) that Abhi blew is top, I know he will not leave Simi (which sucks) and Simi's sob story will win him back.

great laila , u have written very very good points , In fact when seeing yesterdays episode where abhi gets angry ad blows up, i was so happy, I started literally jumping, but after something i thought this female will cry in front of him and he will melt. I hope this time er carried his anger a little while more, I wouldnt mind if he gives simi a slap , when he knows that she went to meet RB.

Simi think Abhi thinks like her all the time
But No He has his brain cells which are much more powerful and can make complicated things work out easily

If Simi wud have told ABhi tum kuch hal Kilao Abhi Hamaray paas sirf 6 din bachay hai and klet him do somthing and then give him a helping hand then there wud be some sense in the action

Here Simi things she is the only saviour of the problem and handle everything herself

A balance of emotions thought and sharing of problems between a man and women is what Simi is not able to understand..

She has always thought of Abhi as her friend and only needed when she want to use his help
Never she has allowed him to be close to her and when he wants to make her feel comfortable she gives excuses and feels that things are not at the right time to be done

Her problem is she is not able to understand the reality that Abhi is a husband to her who need to get respect and his maturity should be given dignity !!