Vandita's - Attempted Rape

Laila2009 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 15 years ago
#1
I am behind with the show - I watch it in the US hence the reason I don't visit this board often, but I was made aware of an attempted rape and that the girl would be pressured to marry her attempted rapist.
WHAT KIND OF GARBAGE IS BEING PROMOTED HERE😡?

Any man who attempts to rape a woman is a criminal and should be charged with that crime. Why are the writers of this show forcing or pressuring the victim to marry the rapist? Surely television would move away from promoting such thinking.
Rape is NON consensual sex. It is where an individual is forced, pressures, cooerced, taken advantage off. Vandita fortunately was able to escape😲.
I don't understand where her reputation is ruined? She did not AGREE to this liasion. So how is her reputation tained? More importantly she was able to escape before he got further than tearing the sleeves of her outfit.
I am also bewilderd - didn't anyone even notice she was missing when it all happened?
Ekta Kapoor really has some serious issues. In another of her dramas (which was recently taken of the air) she claimed she was doing some "research" and had found that a number of servants were taken advantage of by their employers (no $&^%), but instead of showing this, she had the employee fake a rape😡.
Now Ekta has a the victim of an attempted marry her rapist? It seems Ekta is a rich girl who has very little life experience or knowledge about the real world. A highly sheltered young girl who doles out her money for these shows, makes money and then goes to Lous Vuttion or wherever rich girls go to shop. It is quite evident that if she was disgusted with what women have to endure when they are raped or an attempted rape takes place, she would never have promoted or supported this "marriage." If EK likes this, then she should herself get married this way.
Plus no research supports that a man who rapes a woman changes upon marrying her. Please, stop this romantic notion. A man who treats a woman like dirt before he marries her, will treat her the same way, because he is a JERK. So this Ajit will become good - he will probably because Ekta Kapoor will want it, but in real life - give me a break.
Edited by Laila2009 - 15 years ago

Created

Last reply

Replies

4

Views

2.2k

Users

4

Likes

4

Frequent Posters

gayatri maharaj thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#2
i totally agree with you maybe she is obsessed with this kind of topic maybe its one of her deepest desires because no normal sane woman would promote this sh..!
nagasurendra.ku thumbnail
Posted: 15 years ago
#3
I totally agree to what Laila has said... this PR is goin weird now a days doing nonsense stuffs like this... As today serials are taken females as main characters they should atleast try not to incorporate these kind of stupid sentiments of marrying a man who tryed to rape her.... i dont know whats happening.....
mandy0310 thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 8
Posted: 15 years ago
#4

It really makes no sense how Vandu's reputation could become tainted especially when it was attempted rape! Vandu escaped before Ajit could rape her, yet there was plenty of talk about her reputation being ruined and Savita going on and on about how no one wants to marry her daughter. I still blame Savita for messing with Vandu's mind, Vandu was already traumatized by what Ajit did and Savita didn't help matters.

Laila2009 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 15 years ago
#5
Watching the episodes, while it appears Vandu was pressured into the marriage, her reasons were terrible - the idea that she was going to get married and it didn't matter if it was Ajit? That's awful. Marrying your rapist means eventually he is going to have sex with you even if he has not already. Does the Vandu or the writing team have any idea what they are proposing? Basically Vandu is agreeing to marry a man which will legitimize his ability to rape her everyday. For those who are not aware, rape can happen in marriage.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".