The current issue stands thus… The sindoor n the nuptial knot… Whether to go by the nuptial knot or to consider the intimate luv n the man who never ever missed a chance to honour the desire, decision of his lady luv…
Yesterday's projector show showed Ridz luv for Armaan… Their journey as it mentioned… Where has Sr. Stella gone that time… Why can't she come out to accuse that Ridz n Armaan had an affair… So Sr. Stella n few others are the society in which we live… Can be easily blamed thus… She hand shaked with a guy, spoke to him with a smile for half an hour, so there is an affair b/w both of them… People may say anything n the issue can be made 1+1=11… This is reality… But amidst these people, we make the wisest decision, n take the safest route… Listening to the inner voice n the will of mind, we are to decide in which direction to move on… If we decide n start to walk, we will find new relations, new friends, new life…
There are two set of people that we see… People who say that I don't value earthly materials equaling these material to the luv/life of my hubby… My will power, my luv alone decides my hubby's well being… The other cadres, the conventional people, who say that sindoor n the knot are divine materials which symbolizes the well being of their hubby… These people do have will power/luv, but have induced some of their power to these earthly materials…
The difference is seeing God in sculpture n seeing God everywhere in God's creations… Bhakthi is the same, the way of worship differs… Luv for hubby is same, the way you express it, differs… But luv is all the whole same… Sweet quarrels, good bashing, she punching his arm, he teasing her… The same luv…
A triangle relationship is a delicate issue… Have any of you given the first flower to a widow n faced that gripping emotional moment… My friend was devoid of happiness for three years after her hubby's death… It was in the fourth year, a remarriage was considered… The turmoil of my friend all these years is a different track… Here I wish to share just one incident… It was after her engagement (an arranged formal one, decided by the elders… It is a custom here to exchange a tray of fruits n flowers between the elders of the two families…) She didn't wear flower that day… Certain things are highly sensitive which can't be approached n dealt with ease… So we waited for our friend's birthday on the verge… Spoke prior hand to my friend's mom… For days we have been boosting her that happiness in life is due for her… When she turned that day, we wished n I took her hand n pressed a rose into hers… Tears trickled down her cheek… She was silent for few seconds, the rose in her hand n said, "Yami, no one took the guts to give me a flower…" I replied that you have the right to wear it… (Though it took some more days for her to wear flowers…) Before handling sensitive issues, the mindset of the people involved are to be accounted n should be prepared to meet the consequences… N lol it took a whole year for her wedding to happen, just because we do have many Sr. Stellas here… N yes, my friend lost some of her relatives/friends but also gained new relatives…
No one in this world needn't stay alone… We get to meet n befriend people who share same views as ours… N women empowerment is not a sensational publicizing matter, but a process to live through… While I also wish to share a bit of new from 'The Hindu', a month ago… A 16 year girl in Turkey was buried alive to death by her family because she spoke to her classmate, a boy… Women liberalization is not a one day magic but a phased out calculated operation which begins in our society…
P.S : If at all, the SR/AR storyline was needed, could have shown that Shanky pressed Sid-Ridz marriage for the sake of his daughter's life (not for the sake of his pride…) n Ridz succumbed for the luv of her father… A sacrifice n compromise in a father-daughter is more justifiable n more admirable…(The rape fiasco could have been avoided in a classy show like DMG…) N as for the new interns, they could have taught Stella, a lesson for staining their friends name… Setting a trap, a fake patient, photographing, video shooting… Whatever just like Sid did… Post the pictures on Sanjeevani walls, make Sr. Stella realize bringing Sid-Ridz n everyone together, the building of stronger bond between friends…
Luv
Yami.
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