Dominant Male!!!!!!!!!! - Page 7

Ha Helen thats pretty difficult in this world both appreciating each other! Sometimes the ego really plays spoilsport, when women is more successful than her hubby!

yea i see what you mean about the power struggle but that comes into play when the persons in power brings it in. for example you can't tell your man that he should listen bc you make more money, and also if he is insecure about it then the woman should hype up everything he is good and why she needs him in her life. everyone wants to feel needed and wanted so do things that would make the other feel like they are on top of the world. lol i can't believe i have so much to say about relationships haha

Thats good in a way u r shaping up ur mind so that in the near future u don't wont to be a cholostophobic about ur man!

i know my short comings and limitations and i don't hide these if the guy wants to be with me then he will accept them if he can't well i have no problem saying tata bye bye

of course i will try to fix the limitations and accommodate he's wants too but not at my expense

I believe that in a relationship one needs to ajust here and there, i don't know if you watched one of the earlier episodes!

lol haha. no i will try to change myself so that we can work it out. of course he has to acknowledge it and appreciate it too. if its a few things here and there then i don't mind at all. for example he want to have a guys night out then he can knock himself out...i would want him to go. he doesn't need to ask for my permission however if i happen to call him i want him to pick up and be like i'm out with buddies. i like honesty.

so no i will work it out if he is the love of my life and of course my hubby. but if we are not married then i would consider how much i can compromise and how much will have to compromise in the future. i believe in being some what difficult in the beginning of a relationship bc u can change to be nice. you can't however go from nice to mean. and i mean difficult in the sense he is not going to have his way all the time. I would like him to be honest about what he wants. if he wants to live with his parents after marriage then thats fine as long as i know about it. however i don't want him to tell me everything he is doing either...long story short i don't mind bending as long as i don't break

Worst case scenario the question remains the same how far will u go when he becomes your hubby?

aki give me a few mins i will draw the lines for you haha

Well Helen i will wait for that............😎😊

the best way to answer you question.

i will do anything as long as no one gets hurt...him me or anyone else. but if he doesn't want to be with me then i will not try to force it either. so basically whatever it takes, and hopefully i will have the sense to know he is worth it or not.

i get what i want and i keep what i want. but not in a controlling or possessive kinda way

so yes to hell and back for the one love that i know will never happen to me again