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carpe-diem

@carpe-diem

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#71

Worst case scenario the question remains the same how far will u go when he becomes your hubby?anything as long as he wants to be with me. i like what i like and have to have what i like. of course freedom and respect and love are a must

Then you realize oh god men are really from Mars then is a compromise formula what u r going to work out for or u will be blund tell him hey dude u have changed a lot off lately? see how much of this is to impress the girl. A guy wants a girl to be in his life so he does things for her so that she does not leave him. Once he finds out she is not going anywhere he stops doing all those things, and i think that's where the problems start. I believe in fixing things i want changed, so i will get a move on. I will be blunt and tell him ok this is working or this is not working so lets work it out. If we care about each other than we will meet half way.

Thats what happens prior to marriage girls are like you loved me took me here and there and now u don't find time for me. i would just plan things on my own since he doesn't have time to do so, i expect him to show up at least. i hope he is going to eat and be free during one day a week or at least during the night. 😉 Also, there are plenty of things you can do at home and still have fun lol. I guess where you go is not important but who your with is. So i really don't care as long as I'm with him.

You give so much of time to the idiot box thts my souten of sorts and keep watching cricket which happens 365 days! i will try to leave him alone when he is watching cricket or join him because i like it too. He will be coming to bed sooner or later. one can have the closeness one needs by just being in the presence of a person. you don't necessarily need to talk or argue. if its love being with each other will do.

ok i don't mean to offend anyone when i say i have to have what i like and want. i'm not trying to reduce a person to a thing

Edited by carpe-diem - 15 years ago

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carpe-diem

@carpe-diem

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#72

aki if men act the way u have presented in the post above how do u expect the women to stay sane

Edited by carpe-diem - 15 years ago

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akash

@Spartacus

Stunner

Posted: 15 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: carpe-diem
aki if men act the way u have presented in the post above how do u expect the women to stay sane

Helen its just a scenario!

I have come across these things what ever i posted especially before and after the marriage!

Your right when u said that men take it for granted and they think that they have been in a legally married away and no one will steal them, so they tend to be laid back!

My friend who got married and there problem started right away, the complaint was the same, before marriage u used to talk to me the whole nite. Now u have changed!

Well if everyone thinks in the same line as you think they would live in paradise on earth, if not it becomes hell of sorts....

I think both Men and women need to understand in a relationship no demands no complains its pure love all the way!!!!!!!!!

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unknown18

@unknown18

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#74

Carpe, i like ur answers😊

I know Akash u didnt ask me but this is what i feel. i know most probably some day i m going to face "u dont hav time for me" argument. every couple faces this i think. personally, i wud do something for my husband. if he doesnt hav time for me, then i will do something to make him feel special. who doesnt like to feel special? nd then he will response in the same manner (most probably). a relation is not abt "laina laina" always. in a relation there is laina daina. if my husband is not giving me something then shud i stop giving him something too?? no.i dont think so. this just makes things worse. nd a competition will start that who can ignore the other more nd treat them bad. to make a person realize u r someone special for them, u hav to do something special. nd its gud to keep doing special things from time to time. it keeps the love nd romance fresh. its filmy to think "our love will stay the same forever" sometimes love takes a back seat during some situations. thats when u shud bring back the love to freshen ur relation.its easy to complain that now u dont love me or u dont do things for me. but 1st luk at urself. r u doing the same or not? if u r, then change urself 1st. nd then try to see the real problem.

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akash

@Spartacus

Stunner

Posted: 15 years ago

#75

Hey Sid,

The honey moon period gets over in a short span of time, then it becomes routine that things keep changing from bad to worse!

There will be a point where the become two side of a coin, they just cant' face each other!

Thats a million dollar argument which is been happening for ages now, so its pretty difficult to figure out who is right from wrong!

Something special yes agreed but what is that special u r going to do when u have done 50 years of married life.

It becomes stale meat same bhasi biryani, so then comes the question of compromise just for the heck of staying u need to stay!!!!!!

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carpe-diem

@carpe-diem

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Akashspartan
Hey Sid,

Something special yes agreed but what is that special u r going to do when u have done 50 years of married life.

It becomes stale meat same bhasi biryani, so then comes the question of compromise just for the heck of staying u need to stay!!!!!!

well after 50 years of marriage i hope no one needs to go searching for more. lol😆

hey sid feel free to comment. aki and i just presents two extremes where as you have more levelheaded answers

Edited by carpe-diem - 15 years ago