Take A Risk. Dare To Move. Love Is A Leap Of Faith

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Posted: 15 years ago
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the wonderfully gifted Nicholas sparks is somewhere responsible today 4 d Title of my post, yes it's inspired from d movie that's adapted from his beautifully written heart touching book called ' A Walk To Remember'

the story is about a couple Landon & Jamie a couple just like SaJan - he's d son of a rich family who's a popular dude amongst his friends & ppl frankly just take him as a cool dude who rocks as hell - despite all this beneath d surface - he' a lost soul , he's lonely

she is considered d eternal loser - d one ppl swear 2 stay away from - avoid like a plague & yet she is content in that - 4 to her ppl & their words dont matter as much she's only concerned about her own ppl - her loved ones her family

yet fate brings em together & they collide to end up with what was inevitable - Love

He makes her Miracles come true & she is his Angel - together they truly give meaning to these words - Take a risk. Dare to move. Love is a leap of faith.

yes it was a risk he took when he accepted their love, it was d strength of their love that dared to move d social norms that said they cant belong together & their love truly had a leap of faith - when he did d impossible married a dying gal not only to share her last days with her - but to make her miracle come true

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Strangely SaJan are at similar crossroads today where all Samrat wants is Gunjan to - Take A Risk - To Dare To Move.

where he wants her to believe that their love can achieve anything - That she can walk again - all that is needed is Just a - Leap Of Faith

She wants to get away from him , to leave her alone thinking this was never meant to be - can never happen for never truly was i worthy of him nor did i ever deserve him & now , Now i cant even stand tall beside him , walk d road of life hand in hand when there are gonna be hurdles , blocks perhaps with no road maps , i may have shown him d ways once guided him thru d dark when i could , but now no longer - no longer can i do that , forget any of it i cant even make him move a step ahead w/o being a burden to him

and if i love him so that i truly wish he were to be happy it's best that i make him leave - leave me for good - he deserves a chance at life, a better road ahead & with someone his equal , someone more suitable of him - someone who ppl wont scrutinize & feel how what ever
does he see in her - so that none could ever mock him

all she wishes for his sole victory in life & hence prefers 2 give up even b4 she has begun to try

He on d other hand could never ever think so of her & so could never lose or plan to give up on her - on him - on them - as for him - it never felt She didn't belong. She was only misunderstood. And she changed him forever....She made him want to be different, better.

and today so when he sees her weak , sees her in pain , sees her not willing even to try - yet determined - only to lose & not to win - there isn't anything he wont be willing to try - if that meant it could save her - save him & save them

he knows he isn't perfect , life isn't perfect & that d world isn't perfect - but all he knows is she is perfect - perfect for him and hence isn't willing to let her go - willing to give up - loose her - let even her take herself away from him

she's trying - trying hard - to reduce d need she feels for him , d love that his heart holds for her - to go away from him - she' become for once trying , testing & at moments even rude - feeling if this is what it takes to drive him away then so be it

but if she only knew his love wouldn't budge, he wouldn't give up on her for his love is that strong , that after all he's been thru in life - he sees her as his only ray of hope , his only chance at survival - his home - d one place he truly belongs - he would endure all that , take whatever she dishes out to him for - Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful

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Posted: 15 years ago
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ahhh my daily dose of SAJAN is here....now i can breathe easy...gosh aahana dear....u delay a few min n i go all restless searching the forum hayway for ur post....

rest res coz i need to take it easy n go thru ur lovely post again coz i gobbled them d first time now ii need to read it slowly n sensibly one more time....pufff...breathe in breathe out😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am going to come back to this one ... the pathos in the Sajan scene touched me to the core today ... especially gunjan's words 😭 ... and your words have done the rest ...

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Loved the way you put forth both points of view - Gunjan always thought that she was not worthy of him, and how much more so today - earlier, he may have been the most popular, the college star, but she knew the real him, the one who depended on her, she was an equal in the relationship, they were support to each other, his outer strength matched to her inner one, his inner vulnerabilities touching her outer soft shell, they fitted into each other, his strength to her weakness and her strength to his weakness, till they made two parts of a complete whole ... But now, that inner core of strngth is shattered, because of all the events of Valentine's night ... not only that conversation, but her own loss ... she can't walk with him any more, she will be a burden ... earlier, she was his guiding light, but now he has to carry her every step of the way ...

and Samrat ... having almost lost her, he knows he can't go through that again, he knows her confidence is shattered, and he wants to restore that confidence by making her walk, which wound is the deeper? the loss of her legs or the loss of that confidence she had in her love ... and which is the wound that needs to be filled first? Is it her feeling of unworthiness that is making her push him away, her feeling of being less than physically perfect, or is it the feeling that she is no longer an equal in their relationship, that she will be a burden, and one which she feels that he wasn't even sure he wanted?

and the only hope for them are the words you quoted right at the end ... Love is always patient and kind. .... It does not take offense and is not resentful ...
he will need all the patience and not taking offense as she tries her best to drive him away ... because he knows why she is doing what she is doing ... out of her love for him ... Only because of their deep friendship and the way they understand each other, will they find a way out of this incompasse.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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awsome post aahana just loved it dear😊

Edited by sana_sajan - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Beautiful, beautiful post aahana!...I wanted to wait so I can write a nice and long reply but I just don't have enough time for it so all I am going to say is I agree with everything you said….and I love the way you said it..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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first of all....great post as usual aahana... 👏
agree completely......😊
wht more to say.......i was thinking of this long post bt...u have said it all this time.....so i am clueless 😳
well done 😊
and this space is reserved.....just in case i do think of some more points and praises for u !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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aahana...dear great post dear ....
well said .... will update later..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: meens1981

ahhh my daily dose of SAJAN is here....now i can breathe easy...gosh aahana dear....u delay a few min n i go all restless searching the forum hayway for ur post....

rest res coz i need to take it easy n go thru ur lovely post again coz i gobbled them d first time now ii need to read it slowly n sensibly one more time....pufff...breathe in breathe out😊



meens thx a ton sweety bu where's ur wonderful take , m waiting 4 ur analysis hon sorry had 2 leave early last night am not keeping well these days
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aahana86



meens thx a ton sweety bu where's ur wonderful take , m waiting 4 ur analysis hon sorry had 2 leave early last night am not keeping well these days




hey hope u r doing fine sweety/...take gud care......give me sum time,....am gonna be back on this one for sure .....i wudnt miss it for nething😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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aahana superb post as always👏take a risk, dare to move .love is leap of faith wow what a line yar totally agree with you, love gives happiness n sometimes take a test to prove your love, here we have a same situation, sajan r giving their test of love, may be from the v'day night ,the night of sadness, loss and shattered dream of gun, loss of her confidence and loss of her ability to walk, she lost everything mentaly from physicaly, now she has no ray of hope, she knows very well sam is doing to cheer her up and to make her happy but wound coudn't heal as this time she herself proved wrong that not only she but also sam wants to live his whole life in the form of marriage, ya sam wants to live with her but marriage phobia couldn't make him to stop her from his life
now as gina also mentioned in her one topic that issue is not marriage but issue is worthiness, she lost her whole confidence and again go back to her shell of inferiority that she doesn't deserve him and being soulmate sam feels her this kind of feelings and that's why he wants her to walk to give her confidence again, but she knows very well if she will be weak he can't move away so she is trying to avoid her and speaks bitter words and being rude with him and he also knows her this kind of attitude and ya his patience give him support to handle his love, he knows she is testing his patience and he is giving his best to prove himself right ,both r right in their place but love make them together in past as well in future , bcz they r soulmate and soul can't part from each other

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