Few bad apples ruining the fun

Hi All,

^^ cudn't agree more..... not paying attention to such posts of bad taste is the best way to deal with them.

I come here only for some fun and gossip. I got to know about this forum from PB days but never dared to register coz Priya some numberwali (???? that's how she was called i believe) was a big turn-off badmouthing everyone who went against her.

Now as the show is ending these flaming posts about Nikunj are showing up by a newly joined member having just 1 post count. I wonder what do they gain from it 😕 😕

Originally posted by: nitz17

^^ cudn't agree more..... not paying attention to such posts of bad taste is the best way to deal with them.

I come here only for some fun and gossip. I got to know about this forum from PB days but never dared to register coz Priya some numberwali (???? that's how she was called i believe) was a big turn-off badmouthing everyone who went against her.

Now as the show is ending these flaming posts about Nikunj are showing up by a newly joined member having just 1 post count. I wonder what do they gain from it 😕 😕

Not sure they gain anything.................they are just people who take reality shows too seriously.

Originally posted by: sushumna

Hi All,

I have been enjoying reading the posts on this forum and responding to them as well. The show in itself is fun and entertaining and I think we in turn crititcise, defend, mock and poke fun at the show and its participants. We each have personal favourites and dislike some and are neutral towards some. However some memebers are getting personal and bitter and posting malicious content which amounts to personal character bashing. While it is fine to defend someone you like and criticise someone you dont, I think calling people names and spreading malicious rumours about them is not in good taste and is beginning to ruin the fun of the discussions we have.

I think memebers should refrain from posting such vulgar and unpleasant comments about anyone.

I believe in freedom of expression and everyone has a right to express their views however I dont think this forum is meant for people to vent their anger and frustration.

Although we cannot stop such members from posting such caustic content, we can ignore and not respond to such posts. I hope I am not wrong here and I would appreciate your response to this post (hopefully positive).

Originally posted by: Xserial_queenX

def. agree =] some people take this "reality" show wayy too seriously and start using vulgar and inappropriate language on the forum. Just because we dont have a moderator, it doesnt mean we can just go on and be disrespecful. IF is a place to share your opinions with being respectful to others =]

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Originally posted by: smartcookie

Cant agree with you more, you are right these vulgar posts should be ignored. Almost seems as if someone is putting them upto this. They are ruining the fun of this forum. I really wish there was a moderator to block such posts and members.

Thankyou

Originally posted by: sushumna

Not sure they gain anything.................they are just people who take reality shows too seriously.

Should have guessed that 😛 😛

Well their act of detracting is forcing us into liking him/her even though they are not our favorite choices i.e kind of reverse psychology.

Should congratulate you for bringing out a very important point and all those who agree.

Very very true! I agree 100% with you!! Some people are so full of hate..it is truly pathetic..this forum is s'pposed to be about have meaningful discussions, and some people have forgotten that..Yes, like you said we should just ignore such posts and not pay attention at all..Thanks for the post! Was much needed here! 😊