Is Manav Doing the right Thing?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I've always liked Manav but in recent times I am doubtful of Manav's intentions.... What does He Want??????????????😲
Manav has agreed to marry another Woman and is Mentally ready that he'll Divorce archana.....Then Why is he doing such things which makes him n Archana Emotionally attached and it might make their Divorce more Painful..????????
If Manav Has taken the Decision n he has Committed himself to shravani,he must live upto that??I agree that Savitha is giving ideas to Shravani but even if we Ignore the 'Savitha' factor... if there was some other Woman in Sharavani's place,...is it really acceptable to see your Fiance holding hands and consoling his- Ex.😵.>??????????????????
I'm not a Fan of Shravani's or diagreeing to Manav-Archana union BUT if we see from SHRAVANI's POINT OF VIEW,Shravani Never Ever pressurised Manav into this relationship,He himself gladly accepted the responsibilty...So why is shravani going to be treated like a 2nd choice in Manav's Life😲..???????????
After all it was Manav's decision to Divorce Archu n Marry Shravani.....though there were some factors behind his decision...But as far as a Man's word is concerned- Why doesn't Manav decide once for all N stick to it😳?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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what manav is doing is wrong.he is stringing 2 womenn along.both the women in his life have no self respect.i put my self in both there positions and i can say i wouldnt go thru this crap. screw manav better off living alone with dignity and pride!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yeah,in this situation,Archana Should ignore Manav as Manav has declared lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng back that He doesn't wish to be reunited witrh Archana n wants to marry Shravani SO Why Now archu is trying to get Closer to Manav who's already Committed to someone Else..? If Archu loves Manav She should stand by his decision n not put him into further confusion! Archu should take Responsibilty of her past stupid-but-serious act of disbeleiving n accusing Manav of infidelity and leaving him and NOW Archu needs to leave Manav for Peace in the Deshmukh household!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Archana is not Manav's ex . She is his legally wedded wife as of now . Shravani will have to wait for 6 weeks before showing hak on Manav . It's because Manav and Archana are good people she is getting away with all this otherwise she has absolutely no right to question and drag Archana the way she did .
manav is trying to do his best for her but he is soon going to realize what he has got himself into . Manav is doing wrong ....but not to Shravani , Manav is doing infinite injustice to Archana ..... he should be ashamed of himsef for treating his wife the way he is doing . He owes her a big big apology .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hmm i kind of agree but i still fricken hate shravni why can't she just back off! god ! i hate her!

is she blind? and not understand how much Archana and Manav love each other
they don't need too express it in words it clearly shows in their eyes!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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What I am angry with manav is theway he treats his wife . there is no excuse for this nehaviour . I hope he regrets it big time one day .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Manav did not do the right thing by agreeing to marry Shravani while still being legally married to Archana. Manav is not the father nor should he have any responsibility towards Shravani and Sachin's child. Manav needs to make a choice, either stay married to his wife or break all ties and marry Shravani. Manav can't have it both ways, the longer he and Archana stay together, the more painful it will be when it comes to part ways.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok, let us not forget that Manav offered marriage proposal to Shravani when he was on verge of getting divorce with Archana and when he thought Archu was interested in getting married to Satish ( info. provided by Manju). At that time he didn't know that Archana is going to have change of heart and refuse to divorce. He would never have made any such offer if there was any remote possibility of getting back with Archu.
When we saw him in his 'resposibility' mode towards Shravani where he walked away while his mom ill-treated Archu, agreed to put sindoor, had engagement done, agreed to do puja with Shravani, some of us cursed him saying how can he do this to his wife and now when he is feeling sorry for the love of his life and comforting her, again some of us are questioning him abt his commitment and responsibility towards Shravani.
Bottom line is that Manav is only human. He had strong resolution in the beginning but seeing Archu going through all this pain is weakening him day by day. Besides Archu also confesses her love to him. Is there any man, who in Manav's place, would be able to resist feeling for a wife like Archu? He can see Archu is repenting for her mistakes and enduring all the ill-treatments for sake of Deshmukhs well-being so how can he remain untouched by all this. At this point what he should do is re-anlayze the situation and be truthful to Shravani about his feeling for his wife.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

... if there was some other Woman in Sharavani's place,...is it really acceptable to see your Fiance holding hands and consoling his- Ex.😵.>??????????????????

I'm not a Fan of Shravani's or diagreeing to Manav-Archana union BUT if we see from SHRAVANI's POINT OF VIEW,Shravani Never Ever pressurised Manav into this relationship,He himself gladly accepted the responsibilty...So why is shravani going to be treated like a 2nd choice in Manav's Life😲..???????????

Neither is Manav Shravani's 1st choice.... Manav- Shravani's alliance is not a normal one but a sort of compromise. Manav is doing a favour to Shravani by marrying her, he was unhappy abt engagement to Shravani but Shravani's dad, Savita pressurised him cause they couldn't wait for divorce. If Shravani goes ahead with engagement with a guy who got separated from his wife due to misunderstandings, whose wife still loves him and they are not divorced then she should be willing to accept her fiance holding his own wife's hand and comforting her.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It was shravani's choice to get intimate with sachin. she didnt take manav's permission at that time. manav owes her nothing. being a brother, he took responsibility of his brother's child only bcoz girishji was going to get the child aborted. he cudnt let that happen. in a way he also felt responsible for sachin's mistake since sachin was his brother. he proposed bcoz at that time he was getting divorced nd whatever happened in the jail (remember he broke his mann ka rishta, which meant the most to him, with archu bcoz of what sul aai told him on the phone.he tried to talk with her bcoz he had faith archu didnt complaint nd there was something going on but his faith was broken by sul aai) he just supported a woman to save her child and humiliation. shravani clearly knew he was in love with archu.she clearly knew that getting into this relation was a compromise for both of them.there was no love connection here. yes she cud hav questioned manav why archu nd him were in a room nd holding each other. she shudnt hav taken this negatively. she is so blind now that she cant see that they r in love nd want to b together. nd archu nd manav r bound to come closer. these two love each other nd there is no way they can forget each other. manav protected shravani when needed (even though she is only his fiance) nd he is protecting archu now (she is his WIFE!!) manav has been doing a lot for shravani (a characterless girl who got pregnant b4 marriage nd now has fallen in love with another man who was like her brother.plus she is so selfish that she doesnt care abt her baby anymore.she only cares abt herself) shravani just cant appreciate what he is doing.

i think she is just dumb that she can see that manav loves archu but she is still getting into this relation. nd archu is also dumb for sacrificing everything for manav nd his family. she is too nice nd her niceness is ruining her life. nd manav needs to figure it out soon that archu is his wife nd he loves nd he shudnt destroy 3 lives by marrying shravani. nd shravani needs to b patient.

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