Choti bahu or Choti Bahain?

Radhika madam, we understand that you want to help out your nave sister. We agree that you are just trying to keep two opposite things (Vishaka vs Purohits) away from each other as much as possible. We also agree that you believe your sister is telling truth and you still believe she has changed for good. (We viewers know many other things...😭😭 but won't be telling you so early)

But dear, how does it justify punishing your dear husband? What was the need for you to telling him you are not interested in Honeymoon? Are you really not interested? I don't think so. I kno, you too want to be happy and you want to see Dev happy. Isn't it? Then why did you blatantly say you are not interested. Didn't you see how disappointed he was? You knew he had been looking for spending time with you alone. You also knew, he was excited about this trip.

Dear, you don't have to keep your foot in two boats. Give your other boat called sister some direction and a navigator and let it go. You are making a simple situation into a more complex one. The situation which could have been solved by simple disclosure of truth at the right time had gone rotten by your complex calculation.

If you had told your lovable husband about Vishaka earlier, that would have made everyone's life easier. Now, you see, your sister is blaming you for not taking care of her, you are not happy that you are hiding things from your husband and most importantly the person you consider your life is hurt. Why do you always have to think of win-lose situation? Think of win-win situation. You tell Dev that Vishaka is in danger. As a sister and as Raj Purothits they need to help that person. Matter is over. Don't you have confidence in your lover? Don't you think your Dev is a gentleman enough to help a person who is in life threatening situation?

Now, tell me my dear, what you want to be? A Choti Bahu or a Choti Bahein?

If you want to be Choti Bahu, then please don't wait for anything else. Go and pacify Dev. Tell him what's going on in your mind and what is going on in your life.

I hope to see a happy Radhika and a double happy Dev on Monday. OK?

More than choti bahu or choti bahan, Radhika needs to be like her namesake an be a premika to Dev as that is the only thing lacking on Radhika's part. She has shown it in the past when she ran after Dev to give him her first gift or wore the burning bangles. But, those times Vishaka was not in the picture. Also, she gave the pain to herself. Now, Vishaka is in the picture and the pain is being given to both Dev and Radhika.

Dev has always been shown to be a little self-centered, somewhat spoilt younger son of an affluent family. But, he has been the most giving towards Radhika to the extent of taking away all her pains at the expense of even risking his life for her. Radhika doesn't need to do exactly the same, but needs to also give him importance over other people in her life. I think if it comes between keeping secrets for Vishaka or choosing Dev, it should be Dev who comes first. Right now, the eternal love seems to be on Dev's side and is only shown from Radhika's side whenever Vishaka is not in the scene. She needs to show that there are times when she will choose Dev over Vishaka.

hundred percent agreeing with you

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

This is the reason I left this serial . Same old bakwas theme ........Rads loving sister more than Dev .It is the crux of this whole serial ....sooo glad i left it .