In defense of ArMan...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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OK I know we all are disgusted with the "Mang Filling" ceremony of Manav n Shravani... But then after that we r going to get our original ArMan back...

I m not defending Manav its just I dont agree with the saying that "Manav doesnt Love Archana anymore"... I think he loves her same the way he use to its just he is hiding his LOVE... Its old ways Manav n Archana have always been like this, caring about other more than themselves.. It their this ability which made them perfect couple...

Archana n Manav are both made for eachother n they belong together... I still believe this fact that no1 else would make happy...

I read comments that Manav marrying Shravani coz he doesnt love or care ARchu but I think he is doing this to make ARchu hate him so that she moves on in her life n forget him... He wants Archu to hate him so that she can have a happy life after him.. This selfless Manav is.. And on other hand Archana is taking all troubles n bearing Savita soo that Manav is not thrown in Jail again... This selfless Archu is... Now dont u think they make perfect couple??

I m not defending Manav or Archana but I m defending ArMan.. I still love this couple a lot n wanna see them together not with ne1 else but with eachother....

SO bottom line no matter what they show(ME disaster) I still think Archana should be with Manav..

I would love to read what u guys think...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Some say the ArMan magic will be missing even if they reunite. But after seeing how manav took the Tea prepared by Archu, I feel their magic is eternal. That divinely innocent chemistry will be revived very soon.
During this period of judaai, many have written off manav telling many negative things. But I always felt Archu was more guilty, as she was not listening to manav, when he was trying to say that he was innocent and how he was trapped by Ajit.
It is Sulochana, who was misguiding her daughter. Anyways, that is past.
ArMan are reuniting and this time their bond will be stronger than before.
Agreed to you mitts on your comments.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with u. they can only b happy with each other and they belong together.the reason why they r perfect for each other was told by archana herself when she told manav her feelings and they hugged for the first time.how she found that friend that partner she always wanted who was from her own world. manav wanted the same.

i always believed that manav still loved archana. he was just hiding it due to the circumstances. but obviously he cant hide for long. circumstances sometimes make us do things that we dont wana do. but we still do them. this is life. sometimes unexpected things happen.things we dont want. and how we tackle with those things depends on us. sometimes we do things we dont wana do. manav loves archana but its his nature and the circumstances which are forcing him to act this way. so much has happened. now he believes archana will not have a good life with him bcoz of whatever happened in the past and his aai. he knows his aai somewhat. maybe he doesnt know everything about her. but he has some clue. he is not like damodar. he is a different person. he is someone who always thinks about others and has eternal faith in God. in the end, i think, his faith and selflessness will be rewarded. and same goes for archana.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SD-

Some say the ArMan magic will be missing even if they reunite. But after seeing how manav took the Tea prepared by Archu, I feel their magic is eternal. That divinely innocent chemistry will be revived very soon.

During this period of judaai, many have written off manav telling many negative things. But I always felt Archu was more guilty,as she was not listening to manav, when he was trying to say that he was innocent and how he was trapped by Ajit.


It is Sulochana, who was misguiding her daughter. Anyways, that is past.


ArMan are reuniting and this time their bond will be stronger than before.


Agreed to you mitts on your comments.



I respect ur opinion. but i think archana was not that guilty. she didnt know manav before her marriage. it was an arranged marriage. she met him some time ago and married him. they stayed together for a few weeks. and then everything went against manav. the proofs ajit created against manav were hard to avoid. it would be hard for any girl to trust a man after this. in her heart archana somewhat believed manav but she was always afraid.afraid that what if this is true and she is betrayed again.i think if u put urself in sulochana's place (or as archu's father) then u will realize as a parent she was right. who would allow their daughter to live with a man like this. archana had lived with manav and that was the reason that she had some faith that manav might not b bad but sulochana had not lived with him so she didnt know how he was.but yea i dont like sulochana's reaction even after she got to know manav was innocent. i guess she is a very overprotective mother. we(well i have) have seen many mothers of a son who show this over protectiveness and possessiveness after their son's marriage, but in PR, they showed this protectiveness and posseiveness in a daughter's mother.

when archana was avoiding manav, many people got angry at her. then manav was avoiding archana and people reacted the same way. i always believed that archana and manav made some mistakes but most of them were done unintentionally and due to the circumstances. they were not bad people, they were just summoned into bad situations. which lead to distrust. but obviously they both have mann ka rishta between them and their innocent and pure love was always alive in their hearts and will always be alive😊and ofcourse, God was helping them too and will help them.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with what you are saying mitts
However, ever since the beginning of the serial, I have always said one thing. Manav's biggest fault is that he tries to keep everyone happy at one time. You remember the fake necklace issue with savita na? At that time, he tried to keep archu, savita and sulochana all happy at the same time. In all this he suffered, cos he was called a wimp, a weak person, etc, etc. and had to work overtime to pay off for the loan he had taken for the necklace.
Today again, things are going that way. He knows things have gone too far so he cannot go back. Shravani wud abort sachin's akhri nishani, savita wud never forgive him, the little happiness his family cud get back after's sachin's death will go. So he sticks to his decision of marrying shravani. But then what about Archu? how will she be happy? So he decides that he will make her hate him so that she can move on in life with someone else after the divorce.. (but we know that is never going to happen)... for this matter he does not defend her when Savita badmouthes her and behaves coldly with her, and in all this HE is the one dying within. He is the one who is called weak, selfish etc etc.
My point is... this attitude is wrong, First of all, you cannot keep everyone happy all at once. In life, you have to take some strong decisions in which you have to take one side. Maybe we will see Manav realising this in the future episodes. Secondly, the decision he has taken, of keeping peace in everyone's lives... does not guarantee happiness to anyone... he is taking responsibility of the child but shravani won't be happy, he is thinking that archu will move on without him, but that is far-off thinking, and the way he is handling things right now ("Mera dil rota hai jab Aai Archu se kuch kehti hai aur main kuch keh nahi sekta"... filling sindoor in shravani's maang without will and feeling horribly guilty later... not sharing his feelings with anyone in the family...not even his dad) I feel Manav shows tremendous signs of going under clinical depression. (So does Archu... if these horrible things continue.. )
Archu and Manav are both selfless... no doubt and we love them for it, but I dont want him to do it at the cost of his wife. Right now he is assuming that she will move on in life if he makes her hate him... (maybe cos once at a time people had told him her marriage was fixed to satish)... but he needs to realise that this is NEVER going to happen, and so his selflessness will give his wife nothing except loneliness
I will believe in the ArMan love story again if Manav takes the decision of backing of from the marriage for Archana's sake... blasts his Aai for some matter of Archana.. takes responsibilty of his mistakes...apologizes to the whole Karanjkar family and also to Archana.
DISCLAIMER: This was not Manav's defence. At least I don't think so. Only my own views of what I think is the problem with Manav.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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the way things are right now , the way he is behaving , I definitely don't want Archana to be with Manav .
He told Tarun that he still loves her but he is still more concerned about his family and Shravani's baby . Clearly Archu is not his priority .
Tha tis why I don't want Archana to be with him . For Archana he is the priority , over and above anything else .
The day he starts giving her the same importance then maybe I will consider hoping that they get back together . But not as of today .
Today as things stand , Archana should move away from this guy and concentrate on her life . He belongs to Shravani and he is the one who has chosen this path for himself .
Also the man tries too hard to keep his mum happy and we know what his mum thinks of Archana .Even though he knows that his mother is downright inhuman with Archu he still pampes her all the time .
Everyone is important for him , everyone but Archana . Her life , her tears hurt him but not enough for him to stop the unfairness towards her .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Tanya:
I know Manav is giving priority to his family, but i want ArMan together.... You just need to have some patience.. You were saying Few Days Back that manav doesnt love Archana, but he proved you wrong... The day when he will consider Archu to be his priority, that day AUTOMATICALLT they will reunite.... Do you think its easy to want that person to HATE you whom YOU love a lot!!!!!
I wud say have patience.. If you really cares for archanas happiness, then you must realize its Manav only.. You are doing same mistake which manav is doing as he thinks that she can be happy without him!!!
I hope u dont mind, was just my opinion..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i am nsync with Ali, for thy he is right.
There are no two ways about his love for Archana, just imagine what he has too go through.
He tried his heartout went to the extent of burning his hand to prove his innocense, but all in vain. He was made to believe that Archu is getting married to Satish. He even told to Varsha, that he still and always loves her, there is nothing much important than Archu's happiness.
So by all means he his doing it for her sake only, yesterday's episode stands testimonial off his love.
When he tells Tarun that what he goes through when that monstrous Savita aai, yells and abuses her.
But he can't help but to cry within himself,
Love is selfless, love is scarifice and love is blind at times.❤️
he his caught in a situation of saving a girl's honour, he almost lost the hope of his reunion with Archu.
Thats the reason he went ahead and by asking Shravani to marry him.
Inorder to save the only nishani of his bro's.
So in all fairness to the situation i dont hold him responsible.
Above all when she was trembling in the cold, he showed how much he caress Archu..............💔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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He used to love her a lot before . But things have changed . Even though he says he does , his actions speak otherwise
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The day he does something concrete , I will be the first one to apologise to him and his fans .
But till then , sorry ....I want Archana to keep away from this guy as far as possible .
When I say something concrete I mean it him giving preference to Archana over Shravani and his mother , loud and clear . And totally breaking off relations with any other woman axcept Archana .
Right now he is atually going to strengthen his bond with Shravani by marrying her so how can I say he loves Archana . Just because he said so , sorry ..
He has to prove it or else his words mean nothing .

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