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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly Mitts .. that's wht Creatives want to show nd want us to understand .. I dunno bout hindi rituas, bt according to d show, ths sindoor doesn't mean dat he'll mary her, yes he will put sindoor on her bt not marry her .. he's doing all dat so dat Archu will hate him .. which is of course impossible loll ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Does putting sindoor means 80 % marriage .Or does it not have any significance .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sindoor has significance .. bt I guess more than that, pheras nd all are more important .. Sindoor cums at last in a marriage ceremony, after the mangalsutr, pheras nd all .. so only sindoor isn't important .. maybe in ths serial, they want us to see as a promise to marry her
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Shravani ne toh Manav ki band baja di .
honestly , she is the worst thing to have happened to him . If he marries her , he is seen as someone who is a pathetic husband and broke his relationship with a lovely wife .
If he doesn't then he is seen as a spineless guy who broke a promise to a pregnant woman .I mean she did many times say that she wanted to leave but he is the one who stopped her .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree Tanyaz... either ways Manav will be unhappy and all the blame and guilt will come on him. He is in a very bad situation right now... as I said before, his biggest mistake is that he tries to please everyone at the same time. If earlier only he had said that I wont be able to give shravani any happiness so please get her married to someone better then all this wouldn't be happening today.
At that time, Girishji would have been a bit upset and Savita would have accused him of being selfish. But today things are different. If he refuses the marriage, Girishji will blame him of ruining his daughter's life and not letting him go ahead with the abortion thing earlier. Vandu, Savita, Kaka-everyone will be angry. Since shravani has been living in Manav's house all this while, people might even say this is Manav's child and Manav is truly characterless. Who knows, even Sulochana and family might be offended with Manav.
If he goes ahead with the marriage, he will die a slow death, little by little everyday, under the guilt of doing injustice to Archu. Archu will also remain unhappy all her life.
The best thing to be done... take Shravani and go away to some far away place and never come back!!
Edited by nikitagmc - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree . It is very very clear that the only thing he is 100 % focussed on is marrying Shravani so just do it and live in peace with her .
What makes me angry with him is this nonsense he was saying to Tarun about ' Archana meri zindagi hai ' but I have to keep Shravani happy even at the cost of making Archu miserable . Then he goes and swears on God to Shravani that she is not the reason why him and his wife cannot be together .
Uff.....say one thing and do another thing , that is what this man is all about .
And Nicki , the worst ever thing now that this man is going to do is yet to come . He will marry Shravani ...as we saw in the precap today .
Then when Archana gets hurt he is going to act all caring and loving . That has to be the worst of all things he has ever done . Shame on him that he will be leading that poor girl on yet again . Giving her all those stupid loving looks and then going and hugging his wife Shravani right there in front of her .
I have never used bad words for Manav , I have always said that he is a good person despite of anything but now my view is changing about him very fast .
He says one thing and does another thing .
He is going to make Archana fall in love with him all over again , as if she is any less in love right now , and then he is going to put her and Shravani through hell by sometimes making one insecure and then sometimes the other .
What kind of a game is this man playing ...............
You know when Archu falls and then if this guy comes to take care of her then I sure hope Baba gives him the tightest slap of his life , and orders him not to touch his daughter or come near her .
Gosh , never thought a time would come when I would dislike Manav Deshmukh so much
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The worst thing that will happen to Archana is not Manav putting sindoor and marrying Shravani but her falling off that damn terrace as I fear it will bring that man Manav Deshmukh back in her life .......
Why can't he just take his new wife and live happily ever after with her .......
I am going to be so disappointed if Archu still stays in love with Shravani's guy .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Tanyaz: But that is what Manav is doing right now...

He has made up his mind to marry Shravani and so doesn't want to give Archana false expectations. On the contrary he wants her to hate him and move on in life just like all of us want her to.
He doesn't want to lead Archu to disappointment at all... he knows he has to be with Shravani.
But what you are saying about the future track is true. Agreed that he will be caring for Archu cos of his own love and concern, but will pretend in front of Archu that he is doing it for 'insaaniyat' sake so as to not give her false hopes, but Archu will see it as love. And think that 'Manav still thinks of me, I'm so lucky to have him and blah blah'. And never forget him
But if he doesn't take care of her in that house, who will? I have least expectations from Savita, Vandu or Shravani. Damodar can care for her, but how much comfortable will she be with him? (changing sarees, bandages, leaning on him for support, sleeping close to him at night so that he can get for her whatever she wants)
So keeping in mind Archu's future and happiness:
1.) A nurse should be hired for Archu: But BT shows never have shown such simple solutions so I have no expectation that this will be shown.
2.) She should go back to her own home with her Mom: Archana won't agree out of fear of Manju making complaint
3.) Someone from that house, preferably Varsha should come and live with her for a few days: Now, this would be absolutely fair and correct, but Savita will make her usual tamasha and insult them both.
Edited by nikitagmc - 15 years ago
Tanyaz thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Most definitely Varsha can come or even better the more sensible Vaishali can come .
Vandita is a good person and she will take care of her . Most of the time baba can be with her as well , like feeding her etc .
Anyone anyone but Manav Deshmukh ........
Not him , please please not him .😡😡
Ok , when she falls hewill be at the scene so Ok, he can take her to the ambulance . He would do that for anyone so that's ok . But after that no more . I don't want this man to even fix her a cup of tea . And if for insaniyat or for whatever reason he does that Baba should politely but firmly tell him to go and take care of his pregnanat wife and not to care about others ....Archana is not alone , she has baba to take care of her .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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you are right , Archana is foolishly in love with another woman's guy . Th person who will fix this problem is baba . He has to tell Archana to put a stop to this foolishness. Right now even he wants her to get back with manav but I am sure he will soon see that Manav is only fixed on one goal and that is to keep Shravani safe and happy and to hell with everything else . There fore if Baba really and genuinely love Archana then the first person he will put a ban on is Manav , going near his daughter .
Archana is a beautiful and a very nice girl . She deserves to have a good life . I hope the people who love her and are around her will make sure that she stays away from manav .
Gosh , Nicki all these things you are saying , like changing sarees , sleeping near etc etc ...even the thought of Manav doing it is making me angry .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago

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