Ranvir's reaction to Ragi's negativity on Sadhana - Page 12

salha call me sukanya. yaar that is excatly my point. How can she be selfish????? I always felt that it is becoz of her misacarriage and the truama made her say all these things In heart of heart she still loves sadana, but the numbness is still there due to the miscarriage, and after the initial anger she will become her normal self , and start loving sadana.

Originally posted by: kamuralee

salha call me sukanya. yaar that is excatly my point. How can she be selfish????? I always felt that it is becoz of her misacarriage and the truama made her say all these things In heart of heart she still loves sadana, but the numbness is still there due to the miscarriage, and after the initial anger she will become her normal self , and start loving sadana.

Edited by Crimson_Sky - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky

Hey Bani ... I know its between nu_du and you ... but I felt like chipping in here...

I think nu_du is just trying to express his/her feelings ... and that can be his/her POV. And the story is just so dramatically poised in this fashion ... that perhaps many who are not in IF perhaps feel similar.

I am not talking about you or me or anyone else.... but maybe being Politically Correct is not always everyones main strength... and maybe nu_du means no harm. Maybe she/he is also a grat fan of Bidaai and is just hurt by Ragini.

I feel that we can be more understand and kindly towards our fellow members...while being respectful of everyone at the same time!

I love both your comments ...

 

Thanks a tonne for clarifying! 😊
I agree with each word in your every post. You sound like a very fair and thoughtful person. And yeah I honestly still don't think it's wrong to say that I am quite unable to like Ragini anymore. Which is sad of course, but nothing I can do about it!

I am watching Bidaai, just from a couple of months now.
I liked this serial as was sort of comparable to real life than others.
But recently exaggeration of Ragini's miscarriage totally disappointed me.
I have seen people having miscarriage in real life , they just don't blame others for it .On the other hand they themselves feel guilty.esp.,that should be the case in Ragini's miscarriage which happened when she fell down the stairs because of her own day dreaming.
Even after that Bidaai creatives mourned for the miscarriage more than two months , like she will never have a baby again.
I agree it is a sensitive issue but I think Bidaai creatives have blown this situation out of proportion and setting a bad example for society!
In real life more than (almost) 60% of women will have a miscarriage of some type or the other.So they should show this in a positive light  and not focus on mourning it forever and the blame game!

Edited by Rarewatcher - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Rarewatcher

I am watching Bidaai, just from a couple of months now.
I likeed this serial as was sort of more real than the others.
But recently exaggeration of Ragini's miscarriage totally disappointed me.
I have seen prople having miscarriage in real life , they just don't blame others for it .On the other hand they themselves feel guilty.esp.,that should be the case in Ragini's miscarriage which happened when she fell down the stairs because of her own day dreaming.
Even after that Bidaai creatives mourned for the miscarriage more than two months , like she will never have a baby again.
I agree it is a sensitive issue but I think Bidaai creatives have blown this situation out of proportion and setting a bad example for society!
In real life more almost 60% of women will have a miscarriage of some type or the other.So they should show this in a positive light  and not focus on mourning it forever and the blame game!

couldnt agree with u more

Thanks Kinny-Partner.
Liked the discussions that go on here .You guys are awesome!

Millions of people have misscarriages ... and recover very fast...........Yes  crimson_ sky you are right, two years back  I had miscarriage in seventh month of pregnancy....its not that i don't feel the pain even after having a child now.........but at that time I thought I have to be strong and face the situation....was back to my work within a month.........and  i think such situations make one more strong with an attitude to look towards things in amore positive and balanced manner........

The posts are going completely out of topic & sometimes instigating. Seriously guys, we are still discussing who's right & who's wrong? And even if we are, this thread is not for discussing that hun. Many forgot to stick to the topic.

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