What should Jyoti do if she's pregnant?

it may sound horrible and though people don't plan on them [but these aren't people, they're charaters in a drama!], she should have a miscarriage.

Jyoti will keep the baby and show everyone what she can do as a single mother. Eventually the truth will come out about how Brij lied, but if I were Jyoti, I wouldn't go back to a man who believed a stranger over his own wife.

Originally posted by: samirah23

Jyoti will keep the baby and show everyone what she can do as a single mother. Eventually the truth will come out about how Brij lied, but if I were Jyoti, I wouldn't go back to a man who believed a stranger over his own wife.

Originally posted by: Laylai

but who do you believe if said wife has hidden the truth when you have placed all your trust in her and she knows this?

First things first - I disagree w/ anyone who thinks that Jyoti should be a single mom. If Pankaj cannot reconcile w/ her, she should adapt out the baby. This is b'cos a kid needs both parents, and the birth parents aren't necessarily the best. Having babies isn't something just for the self-gratification of either parent - if they can't both provide a stable environment for the kid, they need to adapt it out to a couple that can.

On the point about whether Pankaj should have given Jyoti an opportunity to tell her side, it's a fair point, but if Pankaj has just discovered that Jyoti has been witholding from him for over a year a basic family fact such as the number of siblings she has, Pankaj has a right not to trust her. And if he doesn't trust her to tell the truth, then whether or not she gets to tell her side of the story is moot. Telling ones side only makes sense when there is a good chance that it will be factored in while determining the truth. Pankaj did go by Jyoti's allegation that Brij was deceptive, and kicked him out on that basis - from that standpoint, Jyoti scored a victory. But on whether Jyoti herself is trustworthy, Pankaj can determine that independent of Brij.

That said, if I were Jyoti, I'd refuse to go back even if Pankaj relented, citing CM. In the past, she took all of CM's abuse out of her love for Pankaj, but now, she needs to tell him that if he wants her back, he needs to choose. Not just for her sake, but b'cos CM's been making everybody's life miserable - Jyoti's, Uday's, Sudha's and embarrassing MN&G in the process.

Originally posted by: Vrisha

First things first - I disagree w/ anyone who thinks that Jyoti should be a single mom. If Pankaj cannot reconcile w/ her, she should adapt out the baby. This is b'cos a kid needs both parents, and the birth parents aren't necessarily the best. Having babies isn't something just for the self-gratification of either parent - if they can't both provide a stable environment for the kid, they need to adapt it out to a couple that can.

something that i don't understand is that why is CM in charge of the house when it should be pankaj's parents. i mean she's pan's mums sister so why should she be the boss of the house unless she was the bahu of vashist parivar but her husband past away. i dont understand why pan's parents never say anything when CM is always talking nonsense about jyoti and sudha or anyone else!

I think CM is not the mum's sister but the father's younger brother's wife.

Coz if she is the mom's sister should she not be called maasi?

Maybe I missed some key episode somewhere.

no, you're right mahmansma, CM is not pankaj's mum's sister, she is in fact his dad's deceased brother's wife. so in a way, she is originally a vashisht parivaar bahu too.