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Posted: 16 years ago
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After watching today's episode, I think I understand where Pooja is coming from. Even though Hitesh likes her a lot, a girl cannot just be with someone who she does not love. Since she can't force herself into loving him, she should not give him false hopes. I don't think either of them (hitesh or pooja) are wrong in this situation. =/
What do you guys think? Do you agree with the reasoning she gave?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree you
she is good girl
agar yo wrong hoti to hitesh ko kabhi na nahi bolti
yo show ka bhar bolti

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajdia

i agree you
she is good girl
agar yo wrong hoti to hitesh ko kabhi na nahi bolti
yo show ka bhar bolti



then why didnt she tell him 4 weeks earlier...she told him only when she stated geytting pressure from star plus as the want a marriage to happen on th show... so she wanted an easy escape...she used him for sure...i dont think her intntions were ever to get marriad on the show.. shes always coming in confession room and giving explanation for her closeness with hitesh..as if she want to convey that to someone who is wating for her outside...


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Posted: 16 years ago
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she wanted publicity for her future career n she got it...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya09876



then why didnt she tell him 4 weeks earlier...she told him only when she stated geytting pressure from star plus as the want a marriage to happen on th show... so she wanted an easy escape...she used him for sure...i dont think her intntions were ever to get marriad on the show.. shes always coming in confession room and giving explanation for her closeness with hitesh..as if she want to convey that to someone who is wating for her outside...


I think Pooja tried she took Rajbir to meet her mom but Rajbir never reciprocated. I think somewhere somehow she got intimidated by Hitesh's mom and her survival on the show became important , she went along. She should have been more open and taken other Kuwars for dates and not capitulated under pressure.
Hitesh and his mom should take this as learning lesson that cannot scheme and get what they want. Gulabo should have encouraged Hitesh to interact with as many girls as he can.
The format of the show is flawed. It doesn't allow all girls and boys to mix and date each other. If you are not a winner of the task, you don't get the opportunity to have one to one dates and also ratio of girl to boy is screwed. Girls have very limited choice.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007

I think being very nice to everybody is usually fake and misleading. Pooja was being nice to everybody to get into everybody's good books. She went along with Hitesh because no other Kuwar chose her as their first choice and also Hitesh's mom publicly claimed her as their own and she went along with Hitesh and his mom.

Now Pooja realized that she is in a bind either she marries Hitesh or get out..she decided to get out.

I completely agree with this post.....her ideal choice was rajbir...magar jab usne ghaas nahi daali...she kinda went along with whoever was interested....now she was in a tight spot, where she could not have just dilly-dallied anymore, so decided to call it quits.....either way she does have a choice to say no to someone...some ppl call off weddings after the engagement too...so it's not like pooja committed a sin, by turning hitty down..i think the eventual fate of this pair, was evident for a while and inevitable.....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007

I think Pooja tried she took Rajbir to meet her mom but Rajbir never reciprocated. I think somewhere somehow she got intimidated by Hitesh's mom and her survival on the show became important , she went along. She should have been more open and taken other Kuwars for dates and not capitulated under pressure.
Hitesh and his mom should take this as learning lesson that cannot scheme and get what they want. Gulabo should have encouraged Hitesh to interact with as many girls as he can.
The format of the show is flawed. It doesn't allow all girls and boys to mix and date each other. If you are not a winner of the task, you don't get the opportunity to have one to one dates and also ratio of girl to boy is screwed. Girls have very limited choice.

agree with u completely, Pooja never liked Hitesh more than a friend..it was obvious from day one. Their interaction reminded me of one of my interaction with this guy who liked me very much, and even though i cleared with him from day one that i didn't see future with him, he kept trying. Pooja, i think tried..mostly for her survival in the show. But now that things have gone too far, she finally rejected him. hitesh's mom is in for a big shock, and she is going to do anything and everything so that hitesh can start getting to know Rumpa. This is getting way too interesting, can't wait to see wat happens in this scripted reality show.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think Pooja really thinks a lot about herself that she is the best and she is the most beautiful girl. Hittesh and Hittesh Mom really liked her and she just played along. And I think she never came to get married on the show.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I cant confirm whether or not she "used" Hitesh to gain popularity but all I know is, if she was a bad person she would continue leading him on. She never said she loves him and always reminded him that they were friends. So, it's not really her fault that Hitesh keeps going after her.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xserial_queenX

I cant confirm whether or not she "used" Hitesh to gain popularity but all I know is, if she was a bad person she would continue leading him on. She never said she loves him and always reminded him that they were friends. So, it's not really her fault that Hitesh keeps going after her.

Ofcourse, It is her fault though she kept on reminding him that they r just friends she also said that he is more than a friend to her what does that mean. Whenever she use to win the task she use to take Hittesh name for the meeting. Not once she said she wants to go out with anyother Kunawar. She did take Raj but his name was on the chit which she pulled out and now suddenly she would like to know Vivek. I really did like Pooja and I thought that y was'nt she the first choice of every mother. I was also pissed off at Rajbir that he went for Priyanaka and not Pooja coz I thought she was really nice but I don't agree with her on this point.

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