Explain to this one thing! It's all quite silly!

Hey

I think everybody is here for the money they make each week. It is good income. I dont think anybody is going to get married in the end. A good stratigy would have been to have 2-4 guys in your choice field and not committing to any one fully. For this stratigy to work you need the 2-4 boys or 2-4 mothers who like you. I think only Pooja has this. Since she is beautiful(by Indian stds, i.e. fair, colored eyes, general good disposition), mature and intelligent it works for her. I think Nindita tried this, but it did not work. She made the mistake of playing one boy against her, kind of committing to Vivek a bit more than she should have. If had not indicated to either Gaurav nor Vivek that she liked one more than the other, she would still be here. Hitesh likes Pooja and all the mothers like her too. She on the other hand has kept her options open, by telling Hitiesh she has not yet fallen in love with her. This way Hitesh nor his mother will not elliminate her. They have not yet realised that she is playing with them.

I say stay there but you don't need to go hunting for a person to fall in love with again!

I too agree with it........if you like some-one....and you focus on knowing him more...is understandable......But why would you still want to remain on the show and keep playing if that person is eliminated....I mean wouldn't you want to get eliminated too...find out if things click with your preferred one .......or else move on to find your partner in the larger play field of life, rather than be stuck to the next one available on the show ( who is anyways half committed to someone else..half undecided....and is not even your own preference )

Originally posted by: shruti14

Hey

So I follow the show (quite religously) and come onto the forum fairly often but don't post ( I think i have posted once here!)

There is too much drama on the forum, especially over people you may never meet or know! But nonetheless I understand the enjoyment one gets making it personal affairs. I too have been guilty of it quite often!!

Moving on to the basic premise for the topic, I fail to understand that if the show is really about finding your future mate why should you begin the search again once your chosen one is eliminated? I take this show to be on two levels.

1. You come and find your partner, see if your relationship works outside and if it does get married.

2. You come and treat it like a game show, try your best to win and enjoy the booty.

Both approaches are fair to me because each to theri own. However I see a lot of contestants confusing the two. I am going to reteriate my point using a few examples. Please don't take it personally.

A. Rumpa. She liked Gaurav, expressed her love on national television. He never really turned her down. Now she has made it clear she came to get a partner on the show. I understand her staying on the show, but what I dont get is that if you have found your someone why begin the search again? I haven't heard her say, even once that she will wait to meet Gaurav outside, since the week he got eliminated.

B. Vivek. This guy seems genuine. He came for marriage, like Nandita and tried to get to know her. He never said he loves her but made it aptly clear that after her there is none on the show he wants to get to know. I hope he stays true to his word and doesn't fall for anyone for the sake of the game.

C. Yash. This guy is here to win. He is going the way most suited for him and is even being lucky enough to get support from the judges. He is not looking at marriage but at winning and in the bargain if he finds someone its good!

D. Pooja. She according to me is the most sensible of the lot. She is ready for marriage but her aim is to be the Perfect Bride. She realises Hitesh's weakness for her and she plays along while keeping her dignity intact. She hasn;t made any promises and says she wont either keeping it an open playing field. Honestly I like approach the best as she is playing well on both grounds.

Coming back, I don't get why people need to look beyond once the person they have chosen for themselves is eliminated. Play the game, but you don't need to find love again. You have to understand the person is jst out of the house not dead for the world.

It;s like saying if my partner goes for a business trip for a long duration, he and/or me should find someone else for the interim.

A little silly for me!

Wow, rambled quite a bit.

Here are my two cents. Keep the topic clean please.

Shruti

Very well written and a very mature thinking. Love ur post

Originally posted by: t2004sachin

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Very well written and a very mature thinking. Love ur post

Thank You 😊