Gurpreet Vs Yash's mom...look

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mechocoholic

@mechocoholic

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Posted: 15 years ago

#91

Originally posted by: April2007

You have not questioned Yash's mom behavior and but all the onus on Gurpreet to have sanskar ..cultured women are never ever told that they are not fit or good enough to marry particular women's son. The rejection is done very discreetly and also not by mom but by the boy.

To respect somebody who rejects you and has no manners to be extremely subtle and sensitive is not cultured or decent.

Yash's mom is totally uncouth and uncultured. In Punjab all girls are thought as your own daughters and rejection is done very sensitive manner..in this Yash should have withdrawn..his mom should force Yash to withdraw she has no business of talking to Gurpreet or rejecting her. It is clear from your posts and other posts this is not done in rest of India, the girls are openly rejected by mothers of the boy. Yash's mom's behavior is not an anomaly. In Punjab MIL like Yash's mom will have problem in getting their sons married

@ bold part.....Completely false....

read my post on this page

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/perfect-bride/1270715/gurpreet-vs-yashs-mom-look?pn=4

I have never said that yash's mom is completey correct...but i do feel that she should not have to instantly approve of any girl her son just happens to meet in a reality show and just has a liking for,....if it was a long relationship and they were deeply in love my feelings would have been different on the issue...

I have said from the beggining is that why isn't yash's mom asking yash to take a step back/...why does she put the burden on gurpreet????

That being said....two wrongs don't make a right....and the way gurpreet spoke to yash's mom was over the line..and not acceptable....even if she has disagreements with yash's mom, she should have maintained her respect as the mother of the guys she may marry or atleast intends to marry in future....so even though yash's mom in wrong...gurpreet isn't right in my eyes as well......

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Bugger

@Bugger

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Posted: 15 years ago

#92

well i think all 3 r wrong here ........

Gurpreet is rude and arrogant ......she dun hav manners to talk or to put across her point!! Her point was rite but teh way she said or the tone in which she conveyed it wud not b liked by any person....forget yash's mom!! har baat ko kehne ka ek tarika hota hai!

U cant b soo blunt in speaking when u r speaking to the guy's mother whom u wanna marry. I like the way nandia expresses her views ......she dun listen to anyone's crap ...but tells it in a way ,,,,to shut up ....without sounding rude! Untill ur in ur house ucan talk in watever wayy u want but when u get married ...things do change ....its not tht u dun make any point and listen to all nonsense ur in laws r saying .....but as i said ....the way u express it matters a lot.

yash's mom is a culprit tooo ......if she didnt liek gur she shud hav said tht earliar and instead of telling to Gur ...she shud hav told to her son!! These type of MIL wants eevrything the way they want.....so with them any gal with strong personality like gurpreet cant adjust at all and i think thts wat his mom saw and thts why disliked her frm teh day one. Yash's mom has to understand tht it his son's life and if he feels about sumone so strongly she shud give her a chance. but as far as i hav seen .....neitehr she has given gurpreet any chance nor gurpreet hav tried to grab it!! its very diffciult fir 2 rude strong personalities to stay under one roof.......so seeing their nature i dun think they can ever get along!

And now i will cum t oyash ........out of the 3 i think the biggest mistake is of yash!!

He is the one who has to maintain a balance between his wife and motehr!! Tht u can only do if u respect both but i can see he respects none!! he is juss doing wat he wants to without taking care of eitehr of their feelings!! he knows tht his mom dun like gur ....but still he went on .......and led the gal .........and didnt try to solve the matter!!

it seems yash is juss playing along ....to add teh spice to teh show!!

otehrwise first thing he wud hav done after knowing tht his mom dun like gur is to manaofy his mom and telling gur to mellow down a bit on her behaviour or .......but he didnt take any effort in resolving the matter ..........or if his motehr is adamant , then he has to take his stand on gurpreet!! how much tht gal will fight on her own!! this all is going more against her!! instead of gur speaking it shud b yash speaking and taking a stand for whoever he wants! if he wants gur .....stand by her and if wants to go by his mother's choice ..tht plzz dun lead the gal!!

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Rani

@April2007

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Posted: 15 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

@ bold part.....Completely false....

read my post on this page

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1270715&TPN=4

I have never said that yash's mom is completey correct...but i do feel that she should not have to instantly approve of any girl her son just happens to meet in a reality show and just has a liking for,....if it was a long relationship and they were deeply in love my feelings would have been different on the issue...

I have said from the beggining is that why isn't yash's mom asking yash to take a step back/...why does she put the burden on gurpreet????

That being said....two wrongs don't make a right....and the way gurpreet spoke to yash's mom was over the line..and not acceptable....even if she has disagreements with yash's mom, she should have maintained her respect as the mother of the guys she may marry or atleast intends to marry in future....so even though yash's mom in wrong...gurpreet isn't right in my eyes as well......

I don't agree with you, In my world nobody openly rejects the girls it is done very subtly great care is taken to make sure that nothing bad is said about the girl.

I think you should hear Raj's dad, he kept on repeating their is nothing wrong with Pri but Raj should see other girl..he never said that Pri is unfit to become his bahu.

If Yash's mom is uncouth and uncivilized, she will not receive respect. In my community elders are required to act more decently because they have experience and age on their side...Raj parents are good example.

Edited by April2007 - 15 years ago

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anjalibc

@anjalibc

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Posted: 15 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: mechocoholic
see this video....is this the way to talk to your future mil??????? and even if she's not gonna be your mil, if she's just a friend's mom, and she may disagree with her, but hasn't , anyone taught gurpreet the correct way of talking to elders???????????no wonder yash's mom dislikes her, i mean i'm not condoning what yash's mom is doing, but noone can say that gurpreet is likable, and a sweet girl, she always comes across as rash, arrogant, and a brat....after watching this video..i don't think anyone will wanna make her the dil of their family......🤢🤢🤢

http://www.india-forums.com/video/video.asp?vc=3AE378A9-4760-4897-ABEE-42CF8D1D264E

Absolutely right. I fully agree. Now the 'Grapes are Sour" just because he is listening to his mother's choice. Otherwise if he is going with her he is good. LOOK AT HER. SHE IS THE WORST BRIDE AND NO ONE WILL MARRY HER. YASH IS A GOOD BOY AND SO HIS MOTHER. SHE MUST HAVE SEEN SOMETHING WRONG IN HER SO WHAT, HER SON'S MARRIAGE, SHE DEFINATELY HAS AN OPINION AND IT IS UPTO HIM TO LISTEN TO HER OR NOT LISTEN. IF HE HAS UNDERSTOOD HIS MOTHER, HE IS THE BEST SON WHO WOULD ALSO BE GOOD HUSBAND .

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ramzeena

@ramzeena

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Posted: 15 years ago

#95

nw everybody s talking against gurpreet,who galat kiya teek hai ,hw a girl will tolerate these much insul?,many days she kept silent<yash told she is nt matured<yash ke liye who peeche hatne ke liye tayyar thi,ek bar rajbeer ke papa rajbeese or ladkiyo ko bhi dekhne ke liye kaha tha na us tme ne priyanka itna roya or she approached yash,yash ne usko samjaya,is tme yashdeep ko kya hua ?priyanka ek baat ke liye itna roya tho y he s nt tryingt to understand gurpreet?,kitna din who tolerate karungi ?sab ke liye ek limit hotha hai,na?koi ko self respect hotha who yahi karungi .is tara ko saas ho tho gaya sab<ye tho life ko savaal hai na?

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