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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: anukapoor

Only thing that left me little baffled was, at the end of pheras, Radhika abruptly said she wants to go home...........I wish they showed, how they are lost in each other's world just for few seconds at least I wanted her to relive those moments one more time...........and feel the tender love of Dev..............

Is this just me or someone felt the same?

Anu, I'm tired of making excuses for this girl...only she and the creatives know why she does what she does😡 She has very thick skin I tell you...if I were her, I woudn't let Dev out of my sight especially after all these beautiful gestures. As someone said, Dev is one in billion...i would say zillion and beyond😃 I don't know how this girl just drops him so ruthlessly😡 Ughhhh . Little does she knows that there are so many Dev ki Deewanis in this Forum who would be more than delighted to grab him away from her😉
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Posted: 16 years ago
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In indian culture , restraint is excercised before marriage unlike western where the avowal of love is followed by a mutual kiss & even premarital physical relationship .In present times ,this is happening in india too .
These two belong to a society with old values .
When a couple is about to get married , there is a tendency to get carried away when the two are in close proximity to each other .
It is generally the case that the woman has to enforce restraint . The men are apt to get carried away throwing caution to the wind ..
More so , it is inappropriate for a girl to be out with a man in a lonely area after dark , even though he may be the fiance & a very honorable one .
Even Mrin had mentioned that Roz 2 milne se kuchh unch neech ho jaye to & vaishali had said mrin theek kah rahi hai .This is only to show their way of thinking .
Radhika is well aware of the proprieties & does not want to overstep them

Edited by interest - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: interest

In indian culture , restraint is excercised before marriage unlike western where the avowal of love is followed by a mutual kiss & even premarital physical relationship .In present times ,this is happening in india too .
These two belong to a society with old values .
When a couple is about to get married , there is a tendency to get carried away when the two are in close proximity to each other .
It is generally the case that the woman has to enforce restraint . The men are apt to get carried away throwing caution to the wind ..
More so , it is inappropriate for a girl to be out with a man in a lonely area after dark , even though he may be the fiance & a very honorable one .
Even Mrin had mentioned that Roz 2 milne se kuchh unch neech ho jaye to & vaishali had said mrin theek kah rahi hai .This is only to show their way of thinking .
Radhika is well aware of the proprieties & does not want to overstep them

Very well said, Interest
In addition, Rads being the product of an unwanted pregnancy must have grown up hearing taunts about the "loose" character of her mom. Again in a society where the women has to show restraint, it is usually she who is blamed. Rads is only protecting herself ... till she is publicly accepted as dev's wife
she has on a few occasions been unrestrained
- when she asked to stay back with him the nights that he did the kshama vrat
- when she ran to give him the handkerchief
- when she hugged him at the ghat
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Very educating post. Keep on writing. We enjoy reading it. Hinduism has such a beautiful wedding ritual. Binding nature and soul together.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Interest/Rajsri.. Very well put..
Loved your analysis of the Radh's action..
Yes she does have all those elements at home waiting to pounce on her the moment she enters the house .. She has to give account of her time...
Like Dadiji to Dev..Nobody at her home tells her not worry about what you wear...Your Kanha is going to love you as your are..
And the best part of the story is that Dev does know that.. He has never requested her to stay above that.. He knows her situations and her limitations... He is free man to do whatever he wants to do and where ever he wants to go...but not her.. She has so many lines to keep and so many boundaries to be abide in.. Yes Dev does understand that.. and that's why each time he lets her go... Even when he calls and she says she needs to go he lets her off the phone.. He never forces her beyond her capacity to stay or to talk..
Even at the ghat when Dev was expecting her with Chudia and she went without.. She told him the same thing that she needs to go home and Dev though he just drove all the way from Delhi to VR just to see the chudia.. did not see the chudia but she even went as soon as the evening approached... He just let her... Cause he knows it that whatever time she has spent with him that's the only she can spare...
I really love that about Dev.. that he never forces her to do anything she cannot do... He is the only one with whom she can be free to do as her will... with all others she is dutybound to do what she is suppose to do..

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