oh trust me....you're not the only one....
Bella was pretty annoying to begin with but it got worse and worse with every passing book...in New Moon and eclipse.....i would have choked her if i were a character..lol....
There is so much i dislike about her, I don't even know where to start.......one of the things that really annoyed me were her descriptions.....everytime she would say something like "he's too beautiful".....the number of times in twilight she said it was enough for us to get the point......it sort of got annoying with the same description OVER AND OVER again..
she also likes to whine a lot..i mean a LOT.....no one's life is perfect...and her life wasnt so bad......wasn't bad AT ALL (especially considering she had edward and jacob in love with her)
Like ambrosia said....she calls herself a feminist but what happened when edward left or when she had to choose between edward and jake?....she completely fell apart...
It also doesnt seem to bother her that she can't get out of her own mess.....okay granted that with the volutri and all she would have needed the cullens but not when edward left.....she really didn't need to give jacob the wrong ideas.......
I also hate how she cant stand up for herself......its so easy for edward and jake to get what they want.....yea you love them but sometimes you gotta take a stand like when she was kissed by jacob WHILE she was edward's girlfriend...
and the fact that she first kissed jacob in eclipse despite the fact that she had a boyfriend and then soon enough basically told jake that she chose edward.......it kinda game the wrong impression of her character if you know what i mean....