Hi ppl,
Well I know I am repeating myself, but I have to say this....Kittu is coming across as one of the most heartless, insensitive and self-involved characters...She is the classic example of those who are out to do good for the world while hurting their own loved ones...
I am afraid I just dont understand how one can go ahead so stubbornly for one's own dreams while making so many others unhappy and that too with hardly a pang...And the whole prob is that it is all of her own making...Firstly the whole question of a choice would not have arisen if she had behaved sensibly from the beginning...Why did she have to make Rohan feel insecure and unwanted...He's hardly the pre-historic male types and he wouldn't have had a problem if only she had behaved sensibly...He's just acting this way coz he feels as if he doesnt have a place in her world...which is just so TRUE!!!...If Kittu hd managed to reassure him, then things would hardly have taken this turn....
I think it cant get worse for a lead character if one starts agreeing with the words of the so-called villains of the serial....but thats exactly the case here....Kittu is not the only woman to seek a career and have ambitions...Most women today seek a fulfilled life with both marriage and career...What kind of a message are they sending across here?...That to be a career woman, one has to get out of a committed relationship...Leave one's prospective partner at the crossroads??....Dont ppl who do jobs marry??...
Any relationship involves dialogue and negotiation...Even if Rohan gave her a so-called ultimatum, the onus is on the other person to try and negotiate and reach a middle ground....There's hardly ever a either-or case in any close relationship...If they show it ths way, then its not only unrealistic but shows the protagonist in a bad light!!!I ws feeling so bad for Rohan today...He really deserves so much better (incidentally AV was brilliant in that scene)...If i were in his place, I would start detesting Kittu!
A couple of weeks ago, I posted 5 reasons for watching this serial...Today as far as I am concerned there is only one reason for not watching it...That is Kittu herself!!!...Sorry AV, but in future if i hv to watch u, I'll stick to HK....at least till they modify Kittu's character and show her go down on her knees to all the ppl she's hurting, esp Rohan, which will prob be never, so why even bother!!!