Cheater Boyfriend!--Help!!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Kruti.Luv.Edwad

Hey guys. Thanks for replying. After reading all the replies, I have decided to ignore him. After what I've seen, there is no way I can trust a single word he says. Apparently the girl who I saw him with knew that he had a girlfriend. I'm disgusted with her as well, but oh well. What's done is done. I'm giving my 110% to move on, but it's obviously not easy. It's not as hard as I thought it would be though probably because of the deception, its easier than it should be but still a little difficult. I'm trying to go back and see where I went wrong and What I did to get this in return but after a while I figured that either way, it doesn't change reality. So yeah, I'm on a "recovery from break-up" phase right now.

Thanks so much for your support and comments guys.

Love you.

xo Kruti

Hey it aint ur fault, u didnt go wrong anywhere. This sounds like a real sleezbag in the first place, dw there are plenty of other guys out there better ones that will treat u with respect.

Originally posted by: Sujal_Fan_No1

Hey it aint ur fault, u didnt go wrong anywhere. This sounds like a real sleezbag in the first place, dw there are plenty of other guys out there better ones that will treat u with respect.

Thanks for the warm words. They mean a lot😊

I think the best revenge you can get is to move on, lavish fabulous attention on yourself, hang out with your friends, go shopping, have FUN and tell yourself he isn't worth your time or energy!

p.s. don't blame yourself! Cheaters are cowards. If something was bothering this guy, and he didn't have the guts to bring it up, he may have just done something passive aggressive to get you to break up with him. You deserve better yaar! I feel like girls are always taught to think about how they can be better partners, but we rarely think about what we deserve, and what we should be able to demand from a guy.

^^ I guess you are right. Whenever something goes wrong in a relationship, girls usually try to see what they did wrong. You know what? Not to sound conceited or anything but I did go over all those months and I dont see where I went wrong. I was always there for him, I've stayed up nights talking to him on the phone when he was feeling low, I spent time with his friends because he wanted me to hang out with them...I dont even like his friends...they all have perverted minds. Maybe their friends' way of thinking brushed off on him....I don't know what he was thinking when he decided to cheat on me but I know that I have done nothing wrong and I'm not going to let this put me on a guilt trip.