Cheater Boyfriend!--Help!!!!

Originally posted by: Kruti.Luv.Edwad

I think the title says it all. Just a few hours ago I broke up with my boyfriend (ex-boyfriend now) because I found out he was cheating on me. We dated for about 8 and a half months. Me and my girlfriends were going to have girls' time out so we went to the park and he was caught red-handed making out with another girl.

Now He's sending me text messages non-stop. He's calling me, but I'm not picking up his calls and all of that.......

All of his text messages are along the lines of "I'm sorry baby, I promise it won't happen again. Give me one more chance"

A couple of my friends think I should teach him a lesson and the rest are telling me to let him keep begging and not pay attention to him. I'm kind of stuck. Can you guys vote on this?

If you think I should teach him a lesson...how?

My friends that think I should gave me this suggestion:

talk to him, pretend to give him another chance, and then about a week later pretend that you're cheating on him with someone...a guy friend of mine has already stepped up to take the part.

Now the thing is, If I do that, then there is no difference between me and him. I dont want to stoop low to his level. It's not that I'm not upset, but right now the disappointment and hurt is completely taken over by anger. I want to think clearly and I know from reading the honest and unbiased replies from you guys, I can think better.

You can PM me if you dont want to comment here.

xo Kruti

Originally posted by: snowflake0555

Ha, I was gonna say the same thing as you put in bold. If you do the same thing back at him then it's not gonna make you any different. You'll be just as bad as him. So I don't think you should get back together and pretend everything's okay but then break-up with him again. Maybe he's serious this time and really wants you back? But I dunno, If I was you I wouldn't get back together with him if I saw him making out with another girl... like wtf? Obviously he wasn't drunk, was he? So yeah, unless you realllly had feelings for him and you're reallly upset and depressed, then maybe getting back together would sort things out otherwise forget that jerk! I'm sure you'll find someone else who is 100x better then him. But making out with another girl whiile he was a girlfriend? Wow, that's just sick! What a .... 🤢

Btw you should really post this in the advice corner instead of posting it here :)
You'll get more response there I think. 😊

Mmm in my opinion, you should ignore him completely. He will get to know that you are not interested in giving him another chance and he will stop calling you.