Are we emotional? *page 17* - Page 15

Originally posted by: debby

<br><br><font color="#0000ff">Hey Divya..</font>🤗<font color="#0000ff"> Its always a pleasure meeting like minded people :)<br>Your topic sure stirred some healthy discussion, as was the motive. :)<br></font>

Awww thanks a lot debby..thats a huge compliment... 🤗

OMG DIVZ!!!

oh well

for some reason

kavya just mentioned this thread in the passing...and here I am

I generally like being happy..and I mostly post funny things and leave it at that.. Im an erstwhile member of the mayur paradise..the DB in the first page of mayur paradise was our trademark creation(majorly kavya neha{measweetneha} and I)

I always thought it was better to resolve issues first IF possible through other resources(pm/messenger) before running to the report button..my close friends know me and I dont have to explain myself to anybody else.....

I personally hold no grudges on a forum..but then emotions do run high

the problem comes in when people have to tell each other what to do and what not to do...
well if i dont like a post i just ignore it after reading or giggle and leave it...

but yea Divya
I hate to point fingers. but I understand malayalam as well and some points raised in the first few pages werent great...

but then it is her opinion....

as long as my opinion is not ridiculed here(which happens oh so often) I am happy..

but then we are not given the courtesy and it is possible some others felt that we have not given that courtesy to them also...
I try to be honest to myself... Im not going to talk about how others should behave or not coz I have no right to

at the end of the day I should not regret what I have posted here..


usually if I am angry I do not type stuff..as words are dangerous weapons to hurt... what others do is their choice


I am glad enough to say that the emosanal drama in the forum has kind of forced me to restrict my presence to an extreme level in the forum..now I open strange posts... comment on my gallery and stick to my chat club..coz ppl seem to hate ME more than My posts..hate is a strong word but still they do..

Im sure ppl will still smirk at my posts.. but doesnt matter to me.. I knw im true to myself

as for maturity
let me tell you..one of the youngest members of IBL-Iqra is one of the sanest members I know too....I take her advice as much as I would take the advice of an elder sister..coz i believe she is as good as anybody else!


bottomline
be happy and ignore what u dont think is happy.... and by ignore yea I mean no snide remarks too... I as an individual wouldnt want to pass snide remarks.. I may have passed..but I try to correct myself when I feel guilty...

haha I even heartily apologized to kanika(missing Vmars) for all teh SG vs MN drama that happened pre-April....and now we are good friends and she doesnt mind my random leg pulling...

and ofcourse my mom says..when there is a group of more than 2 women..fights are bound to occur... it is teh post fight zone that is important...i would reconcile as an individual but i wouldnt expect other ppl to do the same