To give u a li'l bg into the matter - I work really long hours (being a workaholic)so I havent seen a show on tele. definitely not a serial in a long long time. The truth of the matter is some MN scenes just pulled me in and I got addicted and started enjoying the show as a whole.
I found this forum and was elated to find so many people who are intelligent, creative, fun to talk to and enjoyed the show too. I was into silent read mode for a very long time..
Then one piece by Kavz (kavya_kraZQueen) made me write a response and I havent stopped writing since..though I had a different view from hers she dint make me feel like a newbie and I realised this place is for intelligent discussions as well..for that I Thank u Kavz!
Then I slowly discovered various aspects of the forum.
I became quite a fan of 😆 Mimi's take ..😆and kept telling her that I initiated MTFC (as much as I can see mimi running to throwing me off the CN tower, I gotto say I find them awesome.. ).I enjoyed the fan-fics here (was even inspired to write one 😊). I discovered the buddy concept and the PMs..Made my first ever buddy here in taran (friendship_trust), who reached out to me in this sea..Nikki(the singer) & Kanky (the writer) made me feel welcome here!!
I sort of fell in love with the paradise..Found some amazing friends there (muneefah, Divya (chocolates), Priya (little dragon), preethi, mishu,aisha(cuppycake) , anna (miss_universe), Paris (parisbynight),Rabbia, Madhvi (mdkr), naina, piyu, fatima, abanti,zoah...we had some really crazy chats..If any of us were feeling sad, we had one fool-proof way to overcome that -Dissection! Take any scene of Mayur and dissect it and lo..we all go back grinning.!! Thank you girls for being so awesome!!
Well slowly, I realised IF has some guidelines for posting, even then I am not sure if this topic is allowed cos like the expression goes -the mods may close the topic..So, to manuovre around that possibility..Let me just talk about MJHT.
As much as I prefer to say otherwise..this place is divided (there are the Mayur fans, Sajan fans, those who like both. those who like all, Rania , MN fans (Ex) ...etc) yet united cos..you can notice it in the posts - there are always people crossing over and supporting other opinions which is great.
I for one always end up enjoying the humour of the MN fans(ex) ..they do come up with the most outrageously funny stuff so much so that even 'mappu' sounds funny to me now (though I had strongly detested it earlier). I say this cos, I also enjoy the absolutely enjoy the adorable posts by Sana, nikki & others were I just gush about my love for MJHT/MN :).
So, you are wondering (just like me) whats the point of this post? To just let you know that I enjoy being here, meeting you all, reading your intelligent views and debates. There is one tiny problem..sometimes I find that the attachment levels to characters are so high that people get upset, disturbed , distressed..ki I feel like asking
..in Tamil ..ivaluvu thevaya?
..in Malayalam ..ithrakku veno?
..in Hindi ...itna zaroori hai kya?
..in English.. Is this necessary?
I mean, there is enough stress in our lives, do we need to stress ourselves further by getting stressed out about this aswell? Why not live and let live (like the std- i appreciate ur opinion but this is my point of view🤣 )
Ok, somebody stop me b4 I get carried away..
Single question- Are healthy discussions on MJHT possible when the emotions run so high?
give in your opinions, povs...
Divya😊
P.S - mods -Pls pls pls do not close this topic..I promise you if this topic becomes a bashing centre, I would personally PM you to close this..(is this allowed!!?)
P.P.sAnd another thing I like about IF -the like button (which u r free to use for this post) ..I wish there were love buttons too (Though hate wud be more effective)..Well,,there I go again. I stop!!!