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xaviara thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with you kavya, totally !! I don't get it !! Are we only supposed to post a topic, if we love the epi and we swooned, cried, or blushed ?? Why is our constructive criticism termed as spreading negetivity ?? We take our time out and watch the show, none of us is sitting idle at our homes !!! and if we take our precious time out for this show and we dont like what we see, then shouldnt we be allowed to voice our concerns ? our displeasure ? isnt this forum about discussion ? if its only for topics praising the show, then it shouldnt be called a forum, it should be called a fan club.
I'm not blaming the mods here at all. I just wish that if some members dont agree with what we want to say or discuss, they shouldnt bother reading our posts !! i mean when they post praising topics, do we go to their posts and tell them not to praise ? no we dont ! so shouldnt we get the same liberty ??
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Heyz people!! 😊 What sucks is that I'm always late! You guys have already filled 10 pages without me....😒😛

Talking about Freedom of Expression/Speech, isnt that what a forum is? A place to share ur views? Personally, I haven't ever been bashed or sent hate pms, but it kinda stings when u have people that have a view different from you, label you, or slot you in a certain category. I'm trying really hard to be as general as i can here, because i don't want to blame any side. Peope have to learn to accept and move on. 🤔 And if there are problems on this forum today it is because both "sides" are equaly responsible. It doesn't matter what side started the argument. And Heck 🤬, it doesn't even matter if there still is an argument. What really matters is that people respect each other. Why ruin freindships over a track, jodi, or creative. I've been a silent member on india-forums for ages, and really, this type of thing has happend before on several forums. The only thing that differs from forum to forum is the type of members in each section. Anyways back to topic, the MJHT forum has always had this problem from the beginning. 😒
I have a feeling it's 'cuz of the two main lead jodi's. The creatives probably thought that the popularity of their show will rise if they have two main jodis to cash in on. Little did they expect, that some day their TRP's will drop because some fan group will start "hating" the track and stop watching the show. 😕 (some "fans")
This topic has been discussed enough in the past and no conclusion has been formed. The only thing that I would like to say to people is please respect, and try and understand another point of view! If you don't like what someone's saying then avoid arguing. THink about what you're going to post when you hit the post button. If you tink about it once and still think taht what you're gunna say to someone is necessary then by all means press the button! 👍🏼 Debating or discussing track problems is fine, but trying to force your opinion on someone else is wrong. The point of a forum is free speech and if you can't value that then it will be hard for this forum, or any forum on this site to survive long.
This is probably my longest post, so please forgive me. 😔 😆
I didn't bother reading every single post , so if this post is a repeat of evrything you've already read, I'm also sorry. 😆 I feel sooo gud letting this out, so now lets calmy solve this matter and proceed.....😃
Mods, I appreciate all you do, and it must be hard I'm sure to monitor this forum 😛, but try and keep this post going, so we can all discuss this and sort it out.
(if that's possible!)
~Madiha
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Kavya I agree with what you said...........I am over the double standards and hypocricy.....this forum has just turned into a battle zone which is sadly quite frustrating.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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why dont you just PM a mod and ask!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: miss5stars

why dont you just PM a mod and ask!



Ummm...I believe Gagan has posted her views on one of the pages...so not quite sure what you mean.
Awesome post Kavya !! I agree with every word you said. I don't really have much to add, so many people have expressed themselves so beautifully ( I'm late as usual 😛). The basic purpose of a forum is to encourage discussion and to enable people to discuss their views, no matter how different they may be. In fact, its this diversity of opinions that makes the discussion richer and more meaningful. Also, you should be able to post all kinds of views, whether agreeing or disagreeing, freely and without hesitancy. But sadly, that is not happeneing here. Labels are given to people, and views different from the popular majority are often sidelined. As soon as a topic is opened to analyze or maybe criticize something, another topic intended to counter it is opened. Isn't that destroying the very essence of a forum ? Even if people don't agree with each other, its not necessary that they don't respect each others' viewpoints. Instead of giving space and freedom to people to agree or disagree, attempts are made to simply drown out the voices that you don't want to hear simply because you don't agree with them.
Again, these are strictly my views, not intended to hurt or offend anyone.
Edited by StarshineHues - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Firstly I want to say you are the best Moderator on this forum Gagan- you play your role very well, you are fair to all parties and not once do you make any of us feel that you are biased . You balance it all so well - you care to address our grievances and bother to respond to our issues, that too so amicably- I truly admire and applaud you for it 👏 👏

Originally posted by: Gaganjot.S

Firstly Kavya, you knew this type of topic is not allowed MJHT Discussion(?) Forum(?) still it is made.
Nevermind..
I want to say a few things while i am at it...
When the question arises about abusing report button.. I want to say that no one can abuse the report feature. I believe we are mature enough to go into detail and review it. I am not saying we do not make mistakes... but again feel free to contact us..
If we took action on every post that was reported.. i believe all the topics would have been closed on this forum.
Kavya, only if members did not view report feature as telling on others, but as helping out the mods find the few selective members who are creating rifts between members.
Unfortunately, we do view it as telling on others and we really do not like it that is why we don't hit the report button unless it is a MUST but we will try to keep this in mind.

Edited by Kavya_KraZQueen - 16 years ago

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