I am very mad at Armaan

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Posted: 16 years ago
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When you lie to someone you just dont expect them to forgive you right away after you say sorry. And this is exactly whats happening between AR. Armaan has this stubborn type of ego that says "If i do something nice, everything will be alright". Well guess what Armaan people need some times to think it over. They need some timeto see what the real problem is. All of you guys are saying that its Riddhima's fault. She is wrong. I dont think she is wrong. She has a point. If her boyfriend spends a night with another girl and says its nothing, but he lied to you, you do feel bad. Even if it was nothing. He shouldn't have lied to her. And when he eventually does tell her the truth, he just expected her to forgive him. Riddhima was right for saying the whole world revolves around him. And I do know he loves her very much, even more than himself. Im just saying that Armaan doesn't have any patience at all. First when Dr.Shashank figured out the truth, he wanted him to like him so fast he did a lot of bizarre things for him to accept their relationship. Armaan always runs away from his problems, first two riddhimas didnt accpet his love , he went to that wrestling thing (Sh), then on 10th July he went to that village (Su). Now as the promo shows he had his things packed up, and the worst of all he meets with an accident. I know Riddhima shouldn't have been that harsh with him, but maybe that is the only way to make Armaan realise that its not always about him.

PLZZZ NOOO BASHING, KEEP IT TO CHARACTERS NOT PEOPLE

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Posted: 16 years ago
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see armaan and ridz have different personalities, inhibitions and insecurities and thus different way to deal with them.....its not completely ridz fault and neither of armaan....both are right and wrong at their own place......so we cant put the blame on one and relieve the other.....they are in a relationship and need to talk and sort things out , analyse their relationship and take some time to introspect themselves
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with both of u armaan is at fault here and ridhima is completely right it was dragging on the way armaan tried not to tell ridhima about everything
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thanks a lot to both of you guys for commenting =]
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think you are right. Armaan is very presumptuous, he thinks that just by saying 'I love you' and only on that basis he can get through everything. And by doing silly stupid things he thinks he will be forgiven, but sometimes things need to be handled properly and seriously. And specially with Riddhima, who is the more mature and serious one in the relationship. I agree with what you said, but its not his fault either. Riddhima WOULD have gotten mad at him if he would have told her right away, but that doesnt mean Armaan wasnt wrong. He was, right from the beginning of the whole Pari issue, by lying to her about it!!!

Kiran
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I completely agree with you .... I think we've all been in love with Armaan so long that we didn't really notice his faults ... but no one is perfect na ..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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My take: Armaan is at fault definetely coz he lied to Riddhima and came up with the silliest of excuses on situations when Riddhima caught him with Pari. But I feel he already apologized for it some n number of times..and Riddhima has still not forgiven him yet. I think she is dragging the situation unnecessarily when she herself is unable to undt why she cant forgive him. Yest she said that she trusted him that ofcourse nothing happened between pari n armaan but still cant forgive the part that Armaan lied to her.
Riddhima's problem is she has still not understood Armaan. Atul put it very right when he was trying to explain things to Riddhima, he knows that Armaan is wrong but thats how he is. He is very insecure and possessive when it comes to Riddhima. Even the simple thot of losing or hurting her, gives him sleepless nights and he tries to cover up things so that Riddhima does not feel sad. Armaan wud have confronted about Pari to Riddhima; but just to remind you guys..Riddhima got irritated with the sight of Armaan dancing with Pari and didnt even give an opportunity for Armaan to explain. She just walked away. Again Atul played the peacemaker there and tried to make Riddhima remember about waht Armaan has done for her. And thats when she realised that she is taking things too far. Next day she comes to patch up with Armaan but again says that she shud not have made a big deal about the Pari incident since Armaan was just dancing and its not that he has spent a night with her. How would Armaan in his wildest dreams think of confronting the truth to Riddhima.
I feel Riddhima gets upset with Armaan too soon; He is childish; naughty and immature but seriously guys are like that when they love someone so dearly. Riddhima has to accept this side of Armaan. Atleast she should remember what all Armaan has done for her; its only he who was trying to woo Riddhima; he has saved her on many ocassions; he has helped her on many ocassions; the BOMB incident; the crackers accident where he risked his life trying to save Riddhima; the bike race to gather money for Sanjeevani; Sanjeevani concert (his idea), Convincing Shashank with his bhook hadtal; he never left Riddhima's side; accepting his parent faults during his engagement; and i am just losing count of what not.
To forget all this and just say "Aaj tum mujhe haar gaye; Main woh nahin chahti jo tum chahte ho; is just a little over the line.
and now that she has blurted out she is fine and wants to patch up with Armaan suddenly. She always feels that she needs Armaan the most when he is not around. This also Armaan has said to Riddhima once (I think when Suku was there).
The issue is she loses trust on Armaan very soon; and poor Armaan tries to save his blunders trying to prove every time that he loves Riddhima to DEATH.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: iluvuarmaan

My take: Armaan is at fault definetely coz he lied to Riddhima and came up with the silliest of excuses on situations when Riddhima caught him with Pari. But I feel he already apologized for it some n number of times..and Riddhima has still not forgiven him yet. I think she is dragging the situation unnecessarily when she herself is unable to undt why she cant forgive him. Yest she said that she trusted him that ofcourse nothing happened between pari n armaan but still cant forgive the part that Armaan lied to her.
Riddhima's problem is she has still not understood Armaan. Atul put it very right when he was trying to explain things to Riddhima, he knows that Armaan is wrong but thats how he is. He is very insecure and possessive when it comes to Riddhima. Even the simple thot of losing or hurting her, gives him sleepless nights and he tries to cover up things so that Riddhima does not feel sad. Armaan wud have confronted about Pari to Riddhima; but just to remind you guys..Riddhima got irritated with the sight of Armaan dancing with Pari and didnt even give an opportunity for Armaan to explain. She just walked away. Again Atul played the peacemaker there and tried to make Riddhima remember about waht Armaan has done for her. And thats when she realised that she is taking things too far. Next day she comes to patch up with Armaan but again says that she shud not have made a big deal about the Pari incident since Armaan was just dancing and its not that he has spent a night with her. How would Armaan in his wildest dreams think of confronting the truth to Riddhima.
I feel Riddhima gets upset with Armaan too soon; He is childish; naughty and immature but seriously guys are like that when they love someone so dearly. Riddhima has to accept this side of Armaan. Atleast she should remember what all Armaan has done for her; its only he who was trying to woo Riddhima; he has saved her on many ocassions; he has helped her on many ocassions; the BOMB incident; the crackers accident where he risked his life trying to save Riddhima; the bike race to gather money for Sanjeevani; Sanjeevani concert (his idea), Convincing Shashank with his bhook hadtal; he never left Riddhima's side; accepting his parent faults during his engagement; and i am just losing count of what not.
To forget all this and just say "Aaj tum mujhe haar gaye; Main woh nahin chahti jo tum chahte ho; is just a little over the line.
and now that she has blurted out she is fine and wants to patch up with Armaan suddenly. She always feels that she needs Armaan the most when he is not around. This also Armaan has said to Riddhima once (I think when Suku was there).
The issue is she loses trust on Armaan very soon; and poor Armaan tries to save his blunders trying to prove every time that he loves Riddhima to DEATH.



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Posted: 16 years ago
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i think you did not saw today episode, riddhima thought that armman was not serious about the marriage and she insulted him very badly but when she went home she saw everything and was suprised to see that armman was doing exactly the same what she wanted to do for a dream home.
come on after 2 years of your relationship you still cant trust the person whom you love then better the realtion is to ended.

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