Are SaJan really friends?-Something to think about

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Posted: 16 years ago
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So I've constantly been reading about how Sajan are best friends and should fall in love soon, etc, etc. What I don't get is that...where is this "best friendship" that everone seems to be talking about?
I'll explain...😳
Samrat and Gunjan became friends and then Samrat titled her his best friend because she understood him so well. Gunjan even called him her best friend because he took care of her and respected her. But when Sheena came along and asked Samrat to choose between the two, Samrat chose Sheena, even if Gunjan told him too. It was still his decision at the end and he chose Sheena. Why? Where did his friendship go at that point? Does he not know in true friendship you don't drop your friends for anything!!!?
Why should they fall in love when they clearly do not have a true friendship going? I think if anything Gunjan understands her friendship so well and only that's why she has been able to fall in love with Samrat, but Samrat does NOT understand what friendship is, thus he is unable to fall in love.
I think what we are seeing is still his developing thoughts about friendship and relationships.
As we were shown in the beginning Samrat has not had a good hold on relationships in his life, so his dealing with Gunjan's friendship is a little weak.
Why should we complain when we see a developing character?
Please think about this and share your views, would love to read them. 😊
Shweta

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hey babes, i get what you are trying to say, im also really upset but i guess Gunjan didnt leave Sammy any choice. He wanted to figure out some other way for this situation but she didnt leave him a choice, so technically he didnt choose Sheena, Gunjan made the decision for him. That's why even after all this he's gonna try to talk to her and spend time with her. Over all i blame sheena LOL😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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How did Gunjan not leave him any choice? Samrat did have a choice. He just doesn't know the true meaning of friendship that's why he dropped Gunjan.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Remember in Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, Anjali tells Tina that Rahul isn't her(Anjalis) best friend, she is his best friend. Samrat tells Gunjan his worries and insecurities but I don't remember Gunjan opening up to Samrat. She's the listener in their relationship.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

How did Gunjan not leave him any choice? Samrat did have a choice. He just doesn't know the true meaning of friendship that's why he dropped Gunjan.

Because Samrat wanted to find out some other way for all this SaJan and Sheena problem but then Gunjan dropped the flower which was a symbol of thier friendship. When sammy gave that flower to Gunjan he said until you keep this flower i will know that we are friends but gunjan drops it because she wanted to break their friendship because she thinks that Samrat also loves Sheena and because of her he can't be with her.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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though sam is annoying me with his certain dialogues...you must know sam didn leave gunjan or don't even want to...its gunjan who left sam and sheena for their happiness!!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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a friendship works two ways not one way. Samrat knew that why Gunjan dropped the flower...it was because she didn't want to come inbetween Sam and Sheena's relationship. Did Samrat know that if he really was Gunjan's friend he wouldn't drop her friendship just bcuz Gunjan thought it was best to do that?
It's not friendship buddies....Samrat doesn't really know the meaning of friendship.
Shweta

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