Women-Men...equal rights?

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Suny

@SmarterDesiKid

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

This is not to be taken extremely seriously!!! The thought just came to my head
I'm not a sexist, I bow down to women!😆

But was wondering..
Women want equal rights...
they want to be treated just like men...equal job opportunities, salaries, happiness, and respect.
They got the freedom to play sports like basketball, just like men, tennis, just like men, golf, just like men, wrestling 😆 just like men...

But then, why be chivalrous? Why pull out the chairs, and lay down jackets on puddles, and open doors, etc...
why show they are better than men, receiving extra care and stuff, and not equal?
Of course they have the sacred ability to birth to children, but the man has equal part in the birth...

SO...should we be scared that a riot breaks out with MEN demanding equal rights?😆😆
not the real question, sumtin to think about

just want to see your thoughts on this matter

[again, i am not a sexist, I worship women, respect them... I just think of random thoughts at random times]😆😆

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dunno

@Mindbender

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Posted: 16 years ago

😆just for the record women have never really rioted for their rights i guess😆 have they?

Secondly, ofcourse some day or the other women would be more powerful than men. But lets just keep our mind clean and clear of certain thoughts😆

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Ajnabee

@*Woh Ajnabee*

Stunner

Posted: 16 years ago

Uh-oh Suny, looks like my one comment on your transition from school to college and your attitude towards women has really taken charge on you. 😆

Just kidding, extremely nice topic, I'm tired right now, will come back to this tomorrow. g'night!

Edit - one thought that came to mind. Bowing down to women does not make you a feminist or "un"-sexist. Treat her as your equal is what a woman wants.

Also, why are you guys always nagging about holding doors open? Geez, does it really kill you? I hold the door open for the person behind me, regardless of gender. God. 😆

Okay will come back to this later. 😆

Edited by *Woh Ajnabee* - 16 years ago

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dunno

@Mindbender

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Also, why are you guys always nagging about holding doors open? Geez, does it really kill you? I hold the door open for the person behind me, regardless of gender. God. 😆

Yea , exactly whats the big deal? khud nahin khol sakte?😆

i'd like to hold the door open if the other person really doesn't care about it😆 . If he/she is like oversensitive about it , i'll close it even when he/she is trying to open it😆

Edited by clodpolish - 16 years ago

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Ajnabee

@*Woh Ajnabee*

Stunner

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: clodpolish
Yea , exactly whats the big deal? khud nahin khol sakte?😆
i'd like to hold the door open if the other person really doesn't care about it😆 . If he/she is like oversensitive about it , i'll close it even when he/she is trying to open it😆

Arre, jab tum ho, toh mai khudh kyon kholoon? 😛😆
You know what, I can open my own doors, I don't need any guy to open a door for me, especially not one who'll moan and groan later on. 😉😛

And Cloddy you're ---- no words come to mind. 😆

Now a question to you boys - you normally don't want to open a door for any girl, because you think she can do it herself, but then why do you fall head over heels over "the girl" then? Why open the door for her, why pull out her chair? Why do all those nice things for her, that you normally don't believe should be done for a girl? Now don't tell me its love, I don't believe that crap. 😉😛

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Suny

@SmarterDesiKid

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Arre, jab tum ho, toh mai khudh kyon kholoon? 😛😆
You know what, I can open my own doors, I don't need any guy to open a door for me, especially not one who'll moan and groan later on. 😉😛

And Cloddy you're ---- no words come to mind. 😆

Now a question to you boys - you normally don't want to open a door for any girl, because you think she can do it herself, but then why do you fall head over heels over "the girl" then? Why open the door for her, why pull out her chair? Why do all those nice things for her, that you normally don't believe should be done for a girl? Now don't tell me its love, I don't believe that crap. 😉😛

i c the reason behind the av😆😆..JK!!
answer: To impress the girl??? or to develope a psooible love story?😆

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Ajnabee

@*Woh Ajnabee*

Stunner

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: SmarterDesiKid
i c the reason behind the av😆😆..JK!!
answer: To impress the girl??? or to develope a psooible love story?😆

Good that you see the reason, there is a reason. I wish my avi would be an emoticon. 😉 - that's my favorite RL expression as well. 😆

And judging from your answer, I see the reason behind your avi too. 😉😛 .... Kidding of course! 😆

Back to the topic - So it doesn't hurt your big fat ego to hold the door open for a girl you are trying to impress. But it kills your heart to open a door for a girl out of pure decency? 😉

P.S. Can I give you a piece of advise? If you really want to impress a girl, hold the door open for girls other than her and show her your gentleman-like manners. 😉

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dunno

@Mindbender

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Arre, jab tum ho, toh mai khudh kyon kholoon? 😛😆
You know what, I can open my own doors, I don't need any guy to open a door for me, especially not one who'll moan and groan later on. 😉😛

And Cloddy you're ---- no words come to mind. 😆

Now a question to you boys - you normally don't want to open a door for any girl, because you think she can do it herself, but then why do you fall head over heels over "the girl" then? Why open the door for her, why pull out her chair? Why do all those nice things for her, that you normally don't believe should be done for a girl? Now don't tell me its love, I don't believe that crap. 😉😛

bolo bolo kya bolna chahti ho😆

hmm well seriously, i don't do it, and i don't believe in doing it.i know most girls like things like these cos they "seem " nice but then everyone can do all this. There's that inherent niceness which people should possess rather.

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Ajnabee

@*Woh Ajnabee*

Stunner

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: clodpolish
bolo bolo kya bolna chahti ho😆
hmm well seriously, i don't do it, and i don't believe in doing it.i know most girls like things like these cos they "seem " nice but then everyone can do all this. There's that inherent niceness which people should possess rather.

jaane do 😆

You don't open the door open for people? 😕 So if someone is behind you, and you open the door for yourself, would you reach your hand out and hold the door open until they take hold of the door? "Holding the door open" has different connotations, it doesn't necessarily mean that you have to hold the door open every single time you go through one and for each and every girl - because those guys are extremely annoying 😆 - but I mean common courtesy is also something right?

I don't know about anyone else, but if I'm with someone, I hold the door open (regardless of gender), let them through, and anyone else that's behind them (if its a nice guy - he'll automatically be embarrassed and will grab hold of the door so he can let me through) - and then I'll go inside. Or if I'm alone, I always turn around to look behind me to make sure that there's no one there, so I don't slam the door on the person's face.

Now PLEASE tell me that you do the same - or I will have to come there and knock some sense into that brain of your's. 😡

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dunno

@Mindbender

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

jaane do 😆

You don't open the door open for people? 😕 So if someone is behind you, and you open the door for yourself, would you reach your hand out and hold the door open until they take hold of the door? "Holding the door open" has different connotations, it doesn't necessarily mean that you have to hold the door open every single time you go through one and for each and every girl - because those guys are extremely annoying 😆 - but I mean common courtesy is also something right?

I don't know about anyone else, but if I'm with someone, I hold the door open (regardless of gender), let them through, and anyone else that's behind them (if its a nice guy - he'll automatically be embarrassed and will grab hold of the door so he can let me through) - and then I'll go inside. Or if I'm alone, I always turn around to look behind me to make sure that there's no one there, so I don't slam the door on the person's face.

Now PLEASE tell me that you do the same - or I will have to come there and knock some sense into that brain of your's. 😡

lol, i was talking about those nice things which you say most boys do for a girl😆

secondly, lol, yeah , i am courteous and respectful enough😆