Why is everything misinterpreted by many folks here?? Is it because you dont follow their Hindi very well or that you dont follow the context well?? In fact Hindi is not my first language and I do have trouble with hard core Hindi, yet I follow what they say. I dont think Geeta meant that or intended to mean like that. I am not a Geeta fan, but I didnt see anything wrong in what she had said. From what I have understood, she meant, "it's common these days for girls to leave their husband after some small fights and then the gaps can never be closed; the couples should rather discuss and listen to each other, before making drastic decisions to leave the partner." That's exactly what our parents and grandparents would think and advise us too...