Shital Thakkar has serials like Swabhimaan , Kahani Ghar Ghar Ki , Yeh Meri Life Hai in her kitty. Shital believes that lasting relationships do not happen by reading tips on relationships. Relationships have to be nurtured and handled with care.
Love without romance is bad!
Love is the essence of any relationship. It is the most important factor when any two individuals live together. If love and romance fade away in a relationship, then it will die. Only love and no romance is bad. One cannot follow points put down on paper for a long lasting relationship. It's important that the partners connect, understand each other and sacrifice for each other.
Lust is a very important part of the human system because lust comes from within; it's a natural process. It's not that without lust a relationship will not survive, but sometimes love is not enough. You need to keep lust alive in a relationship.
Relationship is made up of many things. When you cook you need to put in all the ingredients. Similarly, in a relationship you need to have all the above ingredients. Small gestures like buying a gift, a surprise dinner date shows that you are passionate about your partner, you care and are romantic. Most important is spending quality time with each other.
I am a peaceful person. In fact everyone should be. Only if you think quietly you can find a solution for a problem. Whenever such a situation arises you need to talk it out. Conversation is the best solution to any problem. But yes, if an argument results in raising the hand then that's the end of a relationship. This is not love but disrespect.
Jealousy happens only in the first few years of a relationship when you are a little possessive about your partner. However, even after knowing each other for years if you still feel jealous then there is something wrong. It's a matter of concern and you need to sort it out. That means you are over possessive and extremely insecure.