santu grown beyond her age

It is sad but true that socio-economic situation shapes person's life. Santu is younger than Kaddu and Maulik. Maulik is ready to let his brother die for his mistake. Kaddu is ready to ruin her family name and father's face in public by running away before her engagement. These kids ahve no sense of responsibility and self pride. these two care less who they hurt in order to get what they want and to save their necks.Very much spoiled nad used to getting their ways.
Santu so young and forced to grow up early by taking care of her family at the young age.. To save her Nanaji's face in public, she went on marring a guy much older than herself. Once in the DM's house she has not only kept her mouth shut about the abuse,but actually had it hidden from the people's eyes. She did not tell her Nanaji or Khemi about her being unhappy at the DM's to avoid hurting them. She is running around the town to show the new groom to Maulik. Goes and beggs Kaddu's boyfriend to not to run away. Saves Dm's face by playing his wife in front of all even though she is not even considered as a part of the family. she cares for the family of the guy who refuses to even consider a liability and leaves her in the garden bench on their wedding night.
Nanaji did not have money , but they had each other to rely on. They were close knit tight family, who cared for each other.

true and very well put cimba...

but i think it is the reality of life for santu.......she has seen hardships from her childhood and had grown beyond her age.....and marrying DM jsut made her life bad to worse......she had to grow way way beyond her age....i mean look at her life....she is a mother to 5 kids who dont consider her mother....moti who tortures her to no end....souten potrait and her parents.......and DM...., apart rom suraj and birwa...DM and babuji are the only saving grace in that maniac house....must add DM has his own mood swings😆

but the way DM is acting with santo in the past few episodes...hope we will get to see old smiling santo.....

Of couse it will get better as handsome Dm will fall in love or at least considers her as a wife in a true way. So right about DM's mood swings, boy does he have them? 😉 Poor kid lost her child hood in Dm's jamela type,kashtdayak family.

Cimba very good point....The circumstances are such that Santu is forced to grow up....I appreciate how she is handling the situations but what I wanted to see at the same time that she is pondering at least within herself, maybe cursing her luck for getting married to an elderly person and having to be mother of 5 children...at times the 18 year old coming out even if she does not want to show it. I hated the scene she is giving coy glances to DM...the safety pin scene....she should be upset ...yeh nehi that she is waiting for him to consummate the marriage...let that come later...slowly her acceptance of the situation after all she is 18...acting to be older but then she is 18....

I agree with looks that she has for DM. It is DM who has 5 kids and has been there ,done that in life. For Santo it is her frist marrige, he is her husband and she has some acpectations of the marriage. Yes ,she wants the marriage consumated ,she wants her husband to speak to her lovingly and nicely. As anyone else who is newly married wishes from the new alliance.
Sadly this point of the game for Santo is that she is hoping that she does not get in trouble and be yelled at.

Yes ...

Santo lost all .. meaning her relationships and happiness and got nothing in the form of the social status of Mrs.DM !

cimba, very nicely put..

Originally posted by: cimba

I agree with looks that she has for DM. It is DM who has 5 kids and has been there ,done that in life. For Santo it is her frist marrige, he is her husband and she has some acpectations of the marriage. Yes ,she wants the marriage consumated ,she wants her husband to speak to her lovingly and nicely. As anyone else who is newly married wishes from the new alliance.
Sadly this point of the game for Santo is that she is hoping that she does not get in trouble and be yelled at.

Yes I want the consummation to happen then, she should think about when DM gives her atleast a status of his wife in reality and not pretention, just to show his relatives and friends....it should be natural progression of her marriage to DM.....I do not like DM being rude but since he is the husband she has to look coyly to him.....

Me too !!

I think the consummation is the new TWIST !!