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Posted: 16 years ago
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sorry, didn't want to offend anyone...
And I know people ask question like who is gonna educate them about having less children and all.
But, from what I know, there are posters all over India and there is adds all over that say hum do hamare do.....and doctors' without borders go and talk to these people and try to educate them...but it seems they enjoy what they are doing....they totally ignore all the things doctors are saying and laugh it off....its pathetic...I don't think they realize that apart from them contributing to bad life for their children, they are contributing to having more poverty across the world...As it is, ther is food shortage across the world....and in no time...even people with money will have to suffer b/c some people did not make the right decision....scientists and doctors aren't stupid for saying what they do....its matter of taking them seriously with these people...
The famous quote, Bache to bhagvan ki den hote hai.... sickens me, as no where in any bible or book does it say, you should reproduce kids like crazy....Infact, it says that you should watch your deeds and make careful decisions and this is one of them.....reproduce less and there will be less suffering for all....
god bless everyone,
chilly
Rumii thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
#12
, Bachchey Bhagvan Ki dein Hotey hain Reminds me of a Hillllllarious news about the power Couple of Bollywood..Abhi-Aishwarya😉 Abhi was being asked when would they be PLANNING for Children and Abhi said that CHILDREN SHOULDN'T BE PLANNED,THEY JUST HAPPEN😕 wHAt oes he mean?????????????????? They are not doing any Family Planning😆 Aishwarya is not Pregnant after 2 long years without any family planning🤣..
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Posted: 16 years ago
#13
WHile i agree that it is a terribly sad thing to have to or be compelled to sell away one's child, i'm not so quick to point fingers at those who do that and condemn them to hell. It is always painful to part with one's child, be it death or otherwise. I mean, can't the practice of asking for dowry during marriage be viewed as "selling" away your daughter? We all see Nanku and Majri, and we know that they love Laali. They were compelled to sell her away as the only way out. Instead of condemning the parents who sell, how about burning those who buy these daughters at the stake? If Baali or anyone else in power would have given Majri, Nanku or even Laali a job, i'm sure they would have taken it but those who have the power to surpress, do so with the evil will to snatch away daughters just because they know they can. How effin' sick is that? i do believe those who "buy" daughters are more at fault than the helpless who sell. It is just like the ivory trade. If people stop buying, the supply will stop.
All this business of selling away daughters instead of sons, has to do with the simple fact that generally, people want sons to carry on the family name.
And yes, those who are poor and who have no means, should not have too many kids but even family planning costs money. You think condoms grow on trees? Or are you saying they should just stop having sex? That's not feasible either. The real solution is to give under privilged stratas of society a platform to work on, to get jobs and so forth. And please, all this caste business really has to stop.
Anyway, this show is too tragic for me to watch on a daily basis but kudos to the creators for forcing this reality down our throats, instead of the usual storylines on zee tv we are all so familiar with.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#14
i agree with all you guys, I hope people get more eduated about this.
I dont like to see this show, I dont know how parents can sell daughters. Daughter also can do what men can do and achieve anything in this wold. I hate it when people say india has changed. When all these are still happening in india, I know nothing has changed.
Edited by rajyamvedula - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetchilly1234

sorry, didn't want to offend anyone...

And I know people ask question like who is gonna educate them about having less children and all.
But, from what I know, there are posters all over India and there is adds all over that say hum do hamare do.....and doctors' without borders go and talk to these people and try to educate them...but it seems they enjoy what they are doing....they totally ignore all the things doctors are saying and laugh it off....its pathetic...I don't think they realize that apart from them contributing to bad life for their children, they are contributing to having more poverty across the world...As it is, ther is food shortage across the world....and in no time...even people with money will have to suffer b/c some people did not make the right decision....scientists and doctors aren't stupid for saying what they do....its matter of taking them seriously with these people...
The famous quote, Bache to bhagvan ki den hote hai.... sickens me, as no where in any bible or book does it say, you should reproduce kids like crazy....Infact, it says that you should watch your deeds and make careful decisions and this is one of them.....reproduce less and there will be less suffering for all....
god bless everyone,
chilly



yes you are totally right, the giverenment runs a lot of campaigning. But I guess when your first priority is poverty, and the understanding is that more kids = more support for the parents, so these ad campaigns are ineffective in front of it.
Until poverty is there, I think little can be done.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#16
I agree that people in these horrible conditions should be educated, but as educated people ourselves WE should be realistic. They all know how children are made and YES they can stop having sex! (please note as this is a discussion in the forum of AJMBHK I am speaking of dedicated married couples that love each other and their families purely, like Laali's parents) Now, with that being said as an educated person I'm going to be realistic once again...do I think this will happen...NO!
tjay-z thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
#17
Aishwarya is not Pregnant after 2 long years without any family planning🤣..
😆😆😆 now that's sumfing funny....lol
well she better buckle up now....lol

anyways i'm a huge fan of evryfing indian, 4 cryin out loud i can speak hindi....aw obsesed is that. i'm indian or anyfing close, so it rilly hurts me wen i see and hear stuff lyk this mehn
tj

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