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Posted: 16 years ago
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Guys,
I just found out that this story is not fictitious....this really happens in bihar that they sale their on daughters for some stupid amout of money...And the reason that they give is that they are poor and they need money....
No offence to any Biharis:
But, if they are that poor, why reproduce so many bloody kids.....
they don't stop on that
if you know that your financial situation is not worthy of supporting that many children, why keep on adding more people to your families.....
and some people are suffering because of their own deeds...
First of all, they reproduce like anything....and then selling the kids
At least from what I know, majority of population in Bihaar is supposed to be Hindu.....
Selling your daughter is supposed to be the biggest crime and biggest sin that a Hindu person can commit as according to the Hindu books, the daughters are the forms of laxmi and selling laxmi will bring misfortune to your family for years to come and births to come......
If the above still hasn't changed, if the people still haven't stopped selling your daughter, its time to do so...may be that will bring you good luck....I mean seriously....
People, this comment is not to offend anybody, but for those hipocrits who say that daughters are burdens and its bad to have daughters so, we should sell them.....Get a life, if daughter were burdens, than the people who reproduce them are bigger burdens, than we all should wipe you off of this planet shoudn't we???????Gosh...........someone please educate this people....
anyways,
regards,
chilly

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Really...woooo.....i know this is reality in some parts of India..i dont know where Bihar is....but parents shouldnt do this man..dont they have feelings....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i knew that is do happens in Bihar
i totally agree with
sweetchilly1234
she is right
if u can't afford to feed ur family then why are u keep adding more member n ur family..............
not only that kids have to suffer more then ma n pa
they have to starve each day but they won't stop adding a new member in their family...........
in wealthy family there is only like 2 or 3 kid but where its should be like that they have it like 6 or 7............that is just stupid for poor people to have that much kids........ even if u have this much kids i think u shouldn't do these kind of things...........selling ur kids is just like killing them............its looks like they really don't have any feelings for these poor kids who are being sold.......
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well,Lali's parents have 4 kids for a 'REASON'.. they wanted a Son,so they have 3 daughters then they 'stopped' after they had a son😕.... Of course this is not the case with other poor ppl whom I know,some hv 1 daughter and 4 sons.... I really donot know why they don't understand this SIMPLE MATH that to feed 4 ppl it costs 4X1 person's 😲
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Posted: 16 years ago
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The reality is thaat all over the world, poverty or poor ppl give birth to large number of children, be it africa, or india or any other place in the world.
It is a bit illogical when u hear it first time, first of all ppl are poor, why do they need more mouths to feed. But the extreme poor also have their reasons --
1. More boys mean more hands on the field or work. meaning more income.
2. More girls -- Is no good economically.. so the cases of girls being sold happens.
3. Disease - Lot of children die due to bad health and lack of medicine, so more children ensures atleast 50% survive.
Only way to get ppl to give birth to less children is to educate them and to eradicate poverty. It is seen as ppl become richer and get urbanized, they reduce the number of children.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I belong to Varanasi in UP and I know what actually happens

Many household and shop servants in big cities like Mumbai, Delhi, Hyderabad, Lucknow and many more......
belong to small villages form U.P., Bihar, M.P., Andhra pradesh, and many such places
and are treated like hogs here

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Posted: 16 years ago
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wow so tis is true!i agree wid u all
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Man, I have two daughters and they are my pride and joy. I can't live without them for a mintue. Thank God I am not living in the place call Bihar. I heard stories when I was younger about people in parts of india selling their girl child, I did not undertand it then nor can i understand it now.
The world is a cruel place and I am sorry for girls that are being sold for money. This is human trafficking, it is wrong. The Lord will not spare people like you, nor should he.
This show hurts my heart, when i see it that is why i would read the updates and as long as it is a hurtful episod I will jot look at it. I can't take the sorrow. I keep hoping that soemthing good will happen for Lali, I was hoping that her chosen husband would defy his parents and come a take her away someplace save.
This show is to sad for me to watch.
Edited by Trinibeauty - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I really don't like it when people keep having kids even when they don't have food for them or clothes to wear, going to school is out of the question for those kids. I wish there was some kind of punishment for those people.......
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i am not from bihar but my grandparents from mymom side came to usa and they started talking and my mom is like why have more children when you cant give them good education. my nanu is like you should have more children b/c when they grow up they will work and you will have more wealth they don't need to be educated. he is like when they will work and you can buy more land for farming and stuff. and my mom is but after they get married and separated from you they will have small piece of land for themselves and probably have hard time living. but he does not understand b/c they still want to stick with old way of thinking. i just hate the way they think we tell them lot of new things but they just ignore us and now we stop telling them
ahahhahah

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