Love him but he doesnt! :(((((((((

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fatima

@fatima_koolgal

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Posted: 16 years ago

I have a crush on someone, i know him, he knows me, we talk to each other by chatting, meet at times at school, but he already has someone and dont think he likes me! he sometimes ignored me! it hurts a hell lot when this happens to me, my love doesnt love me !
help me!

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Pooja

@Angeleyes 2

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Posted: 16 years ago

How do u know he have someone else??

u see when a guy knows girl likes him, he will usually talk with another girl or hold another girl to make the one who likes hm jealous.

I think u should find out if he have a gf.

Good Luck!!

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well, if he's already dating anyone, then I think it'll be wrong to say or do anything that'll end their relationship.

But if he just casually talks to other girls then you should express your feelings to him and then maybe he'll reciprocate. One thing about girls is that we assume before hand that he doesn't like us or that he likes someone else and we end up hurting ourselves. It's best to talk to him and then whatever he says we'll go from there.

If he really loves someone else and yours is only a one-sided love then I'll suggest that you try and forget him. After all it's wrong to come in between two lovers, right?

I hope yours is the first situation and hopefully he'll reciprocate your feelings!

-Mahi

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Eran

@umrao_jaan

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Posted: 16 years ago

First of all, you have to get to know him better. Chatting is not enough. Get to know him as a 'REAL' person.

Agree with mahi that causing any strains on his current relationships is unfair on him. But even before you do anything you should get to the next stop of getting to know him better to even consider a relationship.

EraN

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fatima

@fatima_koolgal

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Posted: 16 years ago

ok thanks, i am going to leave it alll because another big problem has come up or might come

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

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Posted: 16 years ago

^ Oh, I wish you all the best for future!

-Mahi

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* Unnati *

@* Unnati *

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: fatima_koolgal
I have a crush on someone, i know him, he knows me, we talk to each other by chatting, meet at times at school, but he already has someone and dont think he likes me! he sometimes ignored me! it hurts a hell lot when this happens to me, my love doesnt love me !
help me!

Sweety...you said u have a crush on him..& a crush is not supposedly said to be "Love"...its jus "infactuation" & u'll have to get over it....I know its a delicate situation coz in cases of love & infactuation ppl emotionally attach the situation to themselves..& so the result u get from the situation directly affects the person ..be it acceptance or rejection...rejection leaves a very painful impact...

you have to forget him..becoz he ignored u which means he knows that u love him...he shud have softly made u understand.. but he ignored u which is bad..my kind advice to u wud be....stop thinking with ur heart dear...becoz there is a level of emotional tolerance..if u bear beyond that..it will affect ur self-confidence & self-respect..

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Believe

@-Believe-

Stunner

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Posted: 16 years ago

Chandni busss chand se hoga thooo....

sitaroo ka kya hogaaa....

Mohabat buz ek se hoga thoo..

baki hazaroo ka kya hoga...The sky hs no limit....Keep the love alive....may be people will change...crush will change..n you also change...😊Leave it yaar...its happens.......

just chill

vinu

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Chandni Shehzadi

@mariam4eva

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Posted: 16 years ago

awww.....first, be friends with him to get to know him more as a person. Then ask him if he's still available or already taken. Seeing your love with another girl doesn't necessarily mean that she's his gf, they might be just friends. Wish you all the best in the future and your life. I think you should test him w/out his friend who you think is his gf know.

1. ignore him to see if he walks upto you on his own or starts a conversation with you.

2. everytime he sits next to you, move to another table or seat (wherever you sit)

3. if he waves hi to you, look but walk away from his sight

do this only for 3 days to a week then watch his response. If he's seriously taken, he would hold the girl in his arms or hold her hand but if he doesn't then it simply means that they're just friends.