love marriage vs arrange marriage

i know i know.. jo khaye woh bhi pachataye and jo na khaye woh bhi pachataye.. lets be serious now... you can't say which one is better..atleast i can't.. because people change thru out their whole life..you can't predict someone's behaviour or can't be responsible for it...but when it comes to choosing one of them...family or love... which is to go for?... sometimes its love because family is eventually gonna accept the fact.. sometimes they don't and you have to leave the love one..but he is the man of dream.. he is "the perfect one"... you old and mature enough to make your decision... what are other options??

I would still say go for the arranged marriage. You at least get a someone to blame for all that has gone wrong with your marriage😉 Pachhtana toh hai hee chahey love ho ya arranged. At least aim to get a punching pillow while bartering there😛

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