something personal related to SP - Page 3

meaning to saying ramas that you proved every woman not to give up that one day god will give them they joy of being a mother.

Originally posted by: peaches

Very interesting topic. That is as sad reality that just because you are born a woman doesn't guarantee that you have the gift of having a child. It is a privilege.

On the other hand the other issue that woman need to understand is that there is a timeframe when a woman is most fertile. Now days woman want to accomplish so much, that they are pushing motherhood for later, which complicates things.

If a woman is young now, they need to understand the risks involved in a late pregnancy. The longer you wait, the harder it is to get pregnant and the more complicated the pregnancy becomes.

The point is, that if you have a choice don't try to push being a mother until you have enough money, or climb the corporate ladder, or bought a million $$ house etc.... Ofcourse you should be married, I think that being a single mother is not the best option, however that is up to the woman to make that choice.

My point is that for the woman out there that think it is easy to have a baby 1, 2, 3 bam I will get pregnant. Think again. So are extremely lucky, but there are some that have to really be patient and wait.

Just my thoughts...

I truly agree with you. also it is best to have a child before you turn 30 . I think between 25-30 is the best age. after 30 the fertilty decreases for women and you are so right about women thinking about children if they want to have them in early age.

exaclty some women are born with not becoming a mother but yet there is always adopting so many children in india are being thrown in the trash or simply women abort it. When you are in a situation where its is dangerous for you i say do it other than that dont kill an innocent child. I maybe be a hypocrite because i did have one 4 months ago it was a tough decision i took because i was a newly wed and me and my husband were not ready and my husband was very depressed and i apologized to him but till now i regret that decision.