just out of curiousity...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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if u were in saloni's mom's exact situation (after years of marrage u find out ur husband had a previous relationship in which he had a child and broke a woman's heart...etc) what would u do?
for me if i found that i out, i would first of all break down and cry my eyes out. (that would probably create a flood in my house lol) then i would shut myself in my room and get a hold on myself. then i slap my husband, say a couple of swears at him and kick him out of the house. then i would take the child that he has neglated or didn't know about and love it. i mean its not the child's fault so i would adopt that child and i would be the new mother of that child. then i would try to get a divorce or at least a separation. lol. sorry i may be sounding really really cruel right know but i could never except a husband who would break a another woman's heart and then marry someone else. thats just my opinion though.
what would u do though?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well to be honest i think any person would be upset but its not exactly a affair it was before they got married and she should have given him one chance to explain.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Nice thought raising question:
if somethg like that (god Forbid) happens...i will still continue to stay with my husband....its left to him if he wants to leave me n go...its left to him to decide abt the other child. i will stay with him but i will not be the same old wife who i was...i will for sure make him feel guilty every second of his life....i will for sure remain silent but my silence will kill him...he shd beg me to scold him n curse him or hate him....but for sure i will still love him....somthg in the past...that he did not intend to happen will NEVER change my love for him....
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well if i was in her situation, I would atleast listen to my husband's reason before blasting him of. I guess noone in this serial actually knows why narpat did this , they did not hear his side of the story.

And anyways if my husband did have a child before marriage than it is nothing related to me, why should i cry my eyes out coz he never cheated me what happened before he got married is his past and come to think of it even women have past, so if he did then it is not that he is a bad person atleast he never cheated me.

He would be a bad person if he knew about his child and then failed to accept the child. But in Narpat's case he did not even know he had a kid. I don't think that he is at fault at all.

As for kalika, get hold of yourself, you are despicable, your father did not know your existence but you deliberately seperated a minute old kid from its family. you are a scum of the lowest kind.

But as you said i will make my husband acknowledge the daughter he had but never divorce him or blame him in these circumstances.

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Originally posted by: Hinal454

😊

if u were in saloni's mom's exact situation (after years of marrage u find out ur husband had a previous relationship in which he had a child and broke a woman's heart...etc) what would u do?
for me if i found that i out, i would first of all break down and cry my eyes out. (that would probably create a flood in my house lol) then i would shut myself in my room and get a hold on myself. then i slap my husband, say a couple of swears at him and kick him out of the house. then i would take the child that he has neglated or didn't know about and love it. i mean its not the child's fault so i would adopt that child and i would be the new mother of that child. then i would try to get a divorce or at least a separation. lol. sorry i may be sounding really really cruel right know but i could never except a husband who would break a another woman's heart and then marry someone else. thats just my opinion though.
what would u do though?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i agree with rosesred, what happened before the marriage happened. its not exactly cheating, if narpat didn't know that a child existed and he did it before the marriage. everyone has a past before they get married and you can't always go back to it. i feel that ambika should have listened to what narpat had to say before getting upset at him and ruining like a 30 yr marriage. he has always supported amibika and her silliness, he even cared for manu bhabi when his brother dumped his wife.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: bansal_nidhi

i agree with rosesred, what happened before the marriage happened. its not exactly cheating, if narpat didn't know that a child existed and he did it before the marriage. everyone has a past before they get married and you can't always go back to it. i feel that ambika should have listened to what narpat had to say before getting upset at him and ruining like a 30 yr marriage. he has always supported amibika and her silliness, he even cared for manu bhabi when his brother dumped his wife.

\after everything has been said about Kalika, what I was very curious about is her age how old is she? somehow I think that in the serial that she is younger than Saloni, Gajpratap doesn't know how old she is and also doesn't know how Shama became mental and also didn't know about Narpat until he saw the picture of him in Shama's hand.
What could have happened is that Shama's husband dumped her with a young kid and left her for a tart and Shama became depressed until she took out the photo of Narpat and remembered there college days when she and Narpat had been lovers and somehow maybe a knock on her head caused her to become mental. Gajpratap came across kalika crying and saw who Shama was and started to take care of her. He might have even loved her himself at some point. He only left his house when his son was very young because his wife became suspicous of him and thought he was having an affair.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ektas_Angel

Well to be honest i think any person would be upset but its not exactly a affair it was before they got married and she should have given him one chance to explain.

Yup, same thoughts here

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