Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 40 - Page 56

Originally posted by: WittyKittyVixxy

I want to ask Ayesha/Adnan & all of you, how much should one forgive in the name of “love”?

At times I wonder what love actually means for Vikrant,

This is a a variable carrying multiple variables within

Bold - I would modify this a bit & ask what love means to both Vikrant & Mannat

Originally posted by: ChaoticTangles

If we are looking at this thing from social perspective then from social perspective a lot of things are wrong in this show be it mannat openly pursuing vik even when he was married man, manvik openly having relationship when vik was still not divorced, vik getting close to mannat even when he is engaged, mannat getting carried away in this situation... In this way so many things are wrong morally and socially

Please tell me you are joking about this

Because as far as I remember... everyone... and I mean everyone was in support of Mannat for 'taking what is hers'... 'claiming rights on her love' and 'saving Vikrant from Malla'

Aaj mausam Badal gaya to mijaaz Badal gaye??? 🤣

Also on this same morality .. I dont see anyone questioning his morality when he made that obnoxious demand of staying at SM for his wedding catering... "uske liye tumhe bahot paise milenge"... a demand he made to a married woman????

trying to make Mannat jealous by making her witness his "new life"...

confessing his feelings and putting a ring of her finger....

All I see is pages and pages of praise and appreciation for Vik for finally realizing what he wants!!!!!

You keep saying you dont want to defend him but do so in every post of yours.. edit the post because you cant justify the point I raised about Gagan...

Kidult and me were raising a simple point... Viks trauma is justified... but his trauma shouldnt be used to justify for questionable choices.

He could have finished the pheras and still stayed angry and hurt.

The discussion was on his morality and ethics... where he left Mannat on the altar after sleeping with her. The exact 'trauma' she had told him she fears for their eventual wedding. And he proved to her that she was always right about that assessment of her.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

But that is exactly what i am saying. Both have made mistakes. Why is Mannat CAed? While Vikrant is given leeway for trauma? Mannat's mother died in a brutal road accident. She also went into deep trauma.

For both Manvik, that day was the worst day of their lives.

And they will forgive each other. When certain truths begin to come out.

Post leap is about them getting to know what happened to their lives, and how they were manipulated, not by circumstances but by people around them.

Their lives came to a standstill when they left each other. Both would not have survived, without the children to keep them a little buoyant.

How they make their way back to each other, if they do, is the ongoing story.

Sorry Scarlett, I don't know if you meant it for me Or someone else... But I feel you are talking regarding me and misunderstood me... I didn't not CA mannat, never will ........i dont even understand why you felt that..?

I was just saying that the show made both manvik do morally questionable things at times.. and how did you miss that I even called out vik in that post and not only mannat........but we understand them and their situations and dont judge them... So why judge vik without weighing the situations he went through...

Uff, can we discuss today's episode please? Hamara Vikrant is on his way back to normalcy.

Vikrant rescues Dua and Yuvi. Dua keeps calling out baba and it is Vikrant outside who is trying to open the door. Both the children are frozen cold, and Dua keeps calling out to Yuvi. They rush home.

Both the children are unconscious. Malla thanks Vikrant for rescuing Yuvi. But Vikrant thanks Mannat & Dua. Manvik both have a calm conversation, holding each other's hands. Mannat says they should thank Babaji, for saving 'hamare bachche'.

Noted by DK, and everyone else. It is nice to see Manvik talk normally to each other. And in a weird way, it is good to see them also a little distant. They need that distance without having any haq on each other.

Mannat notices that ARS is missing, and connects her freezer episode with Dua's. She again suspects Arzoo, when Arzoo comes running in with a whole of mumbo jumbo, to cleanse the aura of the children! Vikrant also looks sceptical; while Mannat , DK are glaring at her. Incidentally, she touches Dua with a feather and Dua wakes up.

Dua tells her mom that Yuvi pushed her into the freezer & banged the door shut. Malla gets angry, yells at Dua; Vish also asks Vikrant how does he trust Dua? Does he have proof?

Mannat the sweetheart checks with Dua if Yuvi had come to rescue her. Dua confirms that he did come to take her out, and she tells Vikrant not to punish him. She says he got his lesson because he fell in, and fell sick too inside the freezer. Vikrant is fuming at his familyu; tells both Malla and Vish to apologise. And he says he doesn't need proof to believe Dua...

Yuvi wakes up; runs to Vikrant, hugs him. He says he is sorry for pushing Dua. Vikrant checks if he is ok. ANd then scolds him very badly. Yuvi says he got angry, and Vikrant raises his voice so loud that everyone gets shocked. yuvi is bawling. Mannat, the Mother Hen, runs to Yuvi, & explains to him, that maybe he got angry but what he did, was not right. Yuvi tells her, that's why he went to take Dua out, but someone pushed him in. Mannat & Vikrant are both taken aback,

ARS comes in between, and tries to put words into Yuvi's mouth, saying he fell into the freezer. She blames Malla for her upbringing. But yuvi again repeats that he was pushed in!

Vikrant's anger at Yuvi, and at his mom, Malla was good to watch. I felt happy watching the episode after ages; even more than Manvik scenes.

I am waiting for Vikrant to come back, regardless of the BTS we have seen.

Originally posted by: ChaoticTangles

Seems like you missed out on my second part.. From vik's pov he didn't leave mannat he just asked for time and then mannat left the town... If you are saying just asking time from mannat to clear out his thoughts is leaving her, then I understand you... but how can we expect a person to think that straight, figure out things, weigh values and take decisions in such difficult situations... is he really so wrong to ask some time?

Jumping in here...

Bold.... is Mannat really wrong to ask him to finish the remaining 2 pheras and take an entire life time to resolve the issues?????

Which she was ready to give... apologized to him and wanted to make amends...

Loved the episode Scar 😍

Incidentally, she touches Dua with a feather and Dua wakes up. This was hilarious and karma probably

Mannat the sweetheart checks with Dua if Yuvi had come to rescue her - loved that Mannat wanted to confirm if Dua was misunderstanding since Yuvi was in the freezer along with her.

And he says he doesn't need proof to believe Dua.- loved this again a fresh start for bringing back trust into his life.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Please tell me you are joking about this

Because as far as I remember... everyone... and I mean everyone was in support of Mannat for 'taking what is hers'... 'claiming rights on her love' and 'saving Vikrant from Malla'

Aaj mausam Badal gaya to mijaaz Badal gaye??? 🤣

Also on this same morality .. I dont see anyone questioning his morality when he made that obnoxious demand of staying at SM for his wedding catering... "uske liye tumhe bahot paise milenge"... a demand he made to a married woman????

trying to make Mannat jealous by making her witness his "new life"...

confessing his feelings and putting a ring of her finger....

All I see is pages and pages of praise and appreciation for Vik for finally realizing what he wants!!!!!

You keep saying you dont want to defend him but do so in every post of yours.. edit the post because you cant justify the point I raised about Gagan...

Kidult and me were raising a simple point... Viks trauma is justified... but his trauma shouldnt be used to justify for questionable choices.

He could have finished the pheras and still stayed angry and hurt.

The discussion was on his morality and ethics... where he left Mannat on the altar after sleeping with her. The exact 'trauma' she had told him she fears for their eventual wedding. And he proved to her that she was always right about that assessment of her.

Arey i am sorry for putting out my pov.. You all are making me look like i am CAing mannat but i never did that... My point was everyone including me understood mannat's and manvik perspective in vik-malla track and didn't judge them.....despite it was socially/morally questionable we understood manvik's pov.... that's why despite it being questionable choice that vik paused the marriage , why can't we understand vik here that it was because he was not in a position to analyse and make sense of anything ...

My question is ,is he really so wrong to ask sometime to make a decision...??? , after such a big revelations..?

Originally posted by: Moor278

Jumping in here...

Bold.... is Mannat really wrong to ask him to finish the remaining 2 pheras and take an entire life time to resolve the issues?????

Which she was ready to give... apologized to him and wanted to make amends...

No she is not wrong... Did I mention somewhere that she is wrong.. She is not wrong to have that expectations from him,and at same time he is not wrong to have that expectations that he needs sometime to figure out his thoughts...

Even mannat felt it that way he was it wrong in needing sometime, the only reason she says vik left her at alter and after terrace wedding is because she feels he divorced her... She doesn't feel he left her because he asked sometime... She feels that he left her by divorcing her which we audience know is not true...

And it's fine I understood you guys pov thats why left it at that.. But then Scarlett misunderstood one of my post and the discussion continued..

So peace out

Originally posted by: ChaoticTangles

Arey i am sorry for putting out my pov.. You all are making me look like i am CAing mannat but i never did that... My point was everyone including me understood mannat's and manvik perspective in vik-malla track and didn't judge them.....despite it was socially/morally questionable we understood manvik's pov.... that's why despite it being questionable choice that vik paused the marriage , why can't we understand vik here that it was because he was not in a position to analyse and make sense of anything ...

My question is ,is he really so wrong to ask sometime to make a decision...??? , after such a big revelations..?

No need to be sorry...

You wanted my opinion... I am giving it to you 🤓

Nobody is saying he is wrong in asking time... the point always has been... or rather the first point raised in this discussion is there should have been some decency and morality in him considering he was intimate with Mannat. And that should have been there irrespective of the situation presented to him.... he did that with Malla but he couldnt extend the courtesy to Mannat.

When a person is that close to someone, you except utmost trust and some leeway from the other party... that is what Mannat was seeking from him.... to finish the pheras and take as much time as he wants to analyse/resolve/be angry over the matter.

Is it really wrong if she wanted him to get married first and resolve it later?

Originally posted by: Moor278

No need to be sorry...

You wanted my opinion... I am giving it to you 🤓

Nobody is saying he is wrong in asking time... the point always has been... or rather the first point raised in this discussion is there should have been some decency and morality in him considering he was intimate with Mannat. And that should have been there irrespective of the situation presented to him.... he did that with Malla but he couldnt extend the courtesy to Mannat.

When a person is that close to someone, you except utmost trust from the other party... that is what Mannat was seeking from him.... to finish the pheras and take as much time as he wants to analyse/resolve/be angry over the matter.

Is it really wrong if she wanted him to get married first and resolve it later?

No she is not wrong... Did I mention somewhere that she is wrong.. She is not wrong to have that expectations from him,and at same time he is not wrong to have that expectations that he needs sometime to figure out his thoughts...

Even mannat felt it that way he wasnt it wrong in needing sometime, the only reason she says vik left her at alter and after terrace wedding is because she feels he divorced her... She doesn't feel he left her because he asked sometime... She feels that he left her by divorcing her which we audience know is not true...

And it's fine I understood you guys pov thats why left it at that.. But then Scarlett misunderstood one of my post and the discussion continued..

So peace out