This girl spreads rumours about me

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Posted: 17 years ago
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This girl spreads rumours about me.😡

I know a girl. She keeps on spreading rumours about me by telling our common friends that I love her, I keep looking at her, I want to be always close to her etc. etc.😡 But I know that it is not true.

One day, in front of lots of our common friends, she brought a rakhi and wanted to tie it on my wrist. I was surprised.😕
I said, "But today is not rakhi day."
She said, "But I want to tie. Do you have any problem?"
I said, "No problem. Tie it."
I extended my hand so that she could tie the rakhi. But she did not tie.
She said, "It is OK. Forget it."
Then she walked away. Later I came to know from some friends of hers (girls) why she did that. One day earlier, she had said to those friends of hers that she would try to tie rakhi on me and I would say no.

But when I had no problem in she tying rakhi on me, then she got another idea. Now she started telling everybody that I already knew her plan. But I know it is not true because before she asked to tie me rakhi, nobody had told me about her plan.

She keeps telling people that I am very lovey, duvery towards her when others are not around.😡 But is is a big lie. In fact, I avoid being with her when others are not around. She herself keeps finding excuses to come to me and then lies about me.
I am getting irritated by her.😡 I do not know how to stop her from telling lies about me.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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this girl is crazy about you...she is trying to get your attention and thats why shes saying everythiing...why dont you do something like that to her...reverse pyschology..ask her to do something a bro would do for his sis...or tell your friends about it...better yet confront her and ask her what her problem is??? 😃 hope im helpful...but rite now im sorta dead...from advice been giving advice since yesterday 😆 to my friends and so im out of ideas now im sorry...if u need help you can pm me...im sure my brain will work in a bit 😃
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hehe this girl is crazy 😆
some things u shud do to amke it obviosu to her n ur friends..
1) AVOID HER
2) dnt give her too much bhaav..akchlli dnt give her bhaav at all.
3) avoid talkion to her.
4)do you ahve a gal or a crush on sum gal? maybe take about ehr...indirect hints...dnt give out her name if u want.
5) link this gal with soemone else 😆 ok kiding! dnt.
6)n the bestest idea {OK I NOE THERE ISNT ANY WORD LIKE THT. SO WHAT?}
Go n tell her personally {she might get offended if u tel in frnt
of everyone} that u dnt like it, n she betta stop doing it n all...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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did u ever do anything wrong to her? cuz maybe if u did...she's probably jus takin revenge from u...or maybe she likes u n wants attention from u...like one of da person above said. yea it is reallyyyy irritating when sumone starts up stupid rumors which arent true at all!!! buttt...do u have a gf or do u like sumone? if u do...den i really suggest u start making a move about dat...dont want u to lose the person u love! its like da song "kisisi tum pyar karo..." so yeaa..butt abt dat gurl..just ask her wat she exactly wants? n yaea! but dont misbehave wit her..or take any revenge cuz dats not nice! jus try to have a little more patience n yea..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hehe this girl is crazy 😆
some things u shud do to amke it obviosu to her n ur friends..
1) AVOID HER
I do that. But not always because sometimes avoiding a person is not courteous. However, I try my best not to meet her when we are alone.

2) dnt give her too much bhaav..akchlli dnt give her bhaav at all.
That is correct. I do not give her bhaav.😆

3) avoid talkion to her.
I do but sometimes talking to her is a part of my duty under some situations.However, I try my best not to meet her when we are alone.

4)do you ahve a gal or a crush on sum gal? maybe take about ehr...indirect hints...dnt give out her name if u want.
No, I do not have any crush on any girl.😉

5) link this gal with soemone else 😆 ok kiding! dnt.
Correct. I should not do that.😆

6)n the bestest idea {OK I NOE THERE ISNT ANY WORD LIKE THT. SO WHAT?}
Go n tell her personally {she might get offended if u tel in frnt
of everyone} that u dnt like it, n she betta stop doing it n all...
I have told her many times. But I never shouted at her. This is because even though I get angry at her a lot, I do not want to hurt anybody in the world.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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dipz22,
I am sure that I never did anything wrong to her. On the contrary, I was always nice to her. Earlier she often used to come to me for various reasons - mostly for some help with her academics and sometimes for some other reasons. I used to help her as humanity. I behaved that way with many other friends of mine (some of whom are girls). But no other girl behaved with me the way she behaves.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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she brought a rakhi.. LMAO🤣 🤣 that is so funny
i think she likes you .. a funny way to show that😆 or she has nothing better to do

u no wut.. if u have already talked to her n she doesn't stop, play along, like if her friends ask u if u like her be like yes i do.. soo?? 😆 but no then she might take it seriously... i guess just .. ignore it n don't react. she will get bored eventually
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hmmm akhl, u seem to be a nice person and i really dont knw y she's doing that to u, but i feel u shud just talk to her personally and ask her whats her problem. n dont worry, everything will be better. jus give it some time. time will fix the problem. and jus try to ignore her ok?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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lol..arrey fikar not yaar..bade bade logon ki saath aksar yehi hota hai...log unki jhooti kahaniyan banate rehte hain... 😆 😆 😆

ok on a more serious note...well if she's playing u do the same...u spread a rumour bour her...or even better...spread a rumour bout urs n her break-up..and pretend to b angry wenever u see her...then see wat she does?? 😆 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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rakhi part was funny lol sorry. BUt again i know what you ar going thruogh cuz my frind has had a prob with a crazy gril simliar to this one. SHe is not doing only cuz she likes you so much she is lookin for attention and is gettin it from you. Confront her and tell her to stop! dont to scared you might hurt her if you dont do somthing now she might do somthing stupider nex time

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