This girl spreads rumours about me - Page 2

Originally posted by: xsweetbabygyalx

hey guys, I'm a newbie here and this is my first time writing a post. I'm in a relationship for a few years now and I am wondering if my boyfriend's behaviour is normal in love as if all guys do this in love or if my bf is different 😳 I don't have a brother so it's so hard to tell 😕

here's the story .. my boyfriend asked me about marriage in our 8th month relationship than again a few months after that, he adviced me to get married to him and on Christmas he kind of proposed me(it was more of just marry me as he's very desperate to marry me) than last year he talked about marriage twice and this year he's talking about his kids careers how he wants his son to be in the same career as he is right now. He kisses me a lot and blows kisses whenever we are at a distance apart from each other. I think he's the shy type because I remember him telling me a story about his first crush when he was in 10th grade, he was so scared to talk to her, he couldn't even say 'hi' and he also told me another story of the other girl who I think he liked when he was in the 3rd grade. He works a lot and has 2 to 3 or 4 jobs so it's hard for him to give me quality of his time but I just manage it even though I do miss him a lot and am always lonely without him.😭

here's the problem - this year, in front of his coworkers, he lied about me saying things that I didn't even do and called me names once which was last month when his coworker started the topic about me but behind their back, he's totally different. He's all sweet, romantic and everything. Whenever the topic is not about me, he's cool and normal and while his coworkers are in front of him, he still blows me kisses my way 😳 😊

him lying about me and calling me names in front of his coworkers gets me very upset and 😡 at him where I have to give him a one day silent treatment and email him clarifying that i'm not what he told them i was. He hates my silent treatments though. Last month when he called me something I'm not (an offensive word) in front of his coworker, after I got angry and send him a few hate mails, his reaction was weird because he seemed in a joyous mood then I figured that he was teasing me and as a matter of fact, it was a tease.😆

Here are my questions and concerns:

-1- is this normal for guys in love?

-2- does this mean he is serious about me?

-3- does this mean he is still shy?

For Guys:

-1- would you tease the girl who you love sarcastically in front of your friends to impress yourself ?

-2- would you tease her in front of your friends sarcastically (in a rude way) to show your friends you don't care about her so they wouldn't make fun of you or whatever?

-3- will it scare you when your friends start the topic about your girlfriend all of a sudden?

- if that ever happens, will you get so nervous where you are clueless in what to say so you just saying rude things about her in other words lie about her?