Seher Hone ko Hai: Episode Discussion thread 1 - Page 3

Originally posted by: awida

I think Amal's father get rid of her soon after her birth..coz he doesn't want more girls.

Seher's mom is going to work in Fareed's house, na? Maybe Amal and Seher come to know eachother from there.

Originally posted by: MJ_1009

thats whats been shown that seher's mother comes to fareed's house for a job, i think...but lets see..zero expectations since its on itv..with the one hour thing in the pipeline, im not sure with the story execution tbh

But how will Seher's father agree to her mother's job? If he was living in another place I would've thought that the girl and her mother eloped to a far away place.. but since they live in Luknow it will be difficult to hide from his eyes.

Originally posted by: awida

But how will Seher's father agree to her mother's job? If he was living in another place I would've thought that the girl and her mother eloped to a far away place.. but since they live in Luknow it will be difficult to hide from his eyes.

Originally posted by: MJ_1009

i wonder when amal was even adopted and why the coldness for...fareed at least tries to be kind but it seems like fareed and sultana have their own issues..but question will be how their dynamics would be intertwined with seher and her family..my itv prediction is that seher and amal could end up being friends since the both are in the medical field since amal failed her medical exams..but lets see..

So I watched the original Turkish dizi on which this is based (not the whole thing, I ended up dropping it after I got bored). Anyways, in the original, they make it clear that it is a failed adoption. Amal was the one pushing for a child but then later just couldn't connect at all to the child. Fareed never understands that kind of logic and basically this disconnect leads to a breakdown in their relationship.

While it sounds strange, in real life, failed adoptions do happen apparently. It is really sad situation but there have been news stories where folks returned the child back and it became a problem because it created international news. (This was international adoption stories).

However, according to some experts, adoption does have a failure rate. Sometimes, the adoptive parents have this fairytale kind of idea in their head and then reality hits and they are not prepared. Some are not cut out to be parents even with bio kids and adopted kids make the situation harder.

In some, they find out that they are unable to show real affection to someone who is not of their own blood despite effort. Basically the child just reminds them that they are infertile and becomes a source of pain instead. (this was the kind of dynamic that the dizi hinted out with why Amal rejects the daughter).

Originally posted by: MJ_1009

Lol, thats what id like to know too..plus, sultana was the one to deliver seher as per flashbacks (i think thats what was shown)..when lucknow comes to a full circle lol hahahah

I missed that scene. I only watched Seher in her father's arms, when her mother gave birth to her sister.