Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel
It’s not a big deal. That’s my pov. Agree to disagree, it was family week and everyone had fun, he overreacted. There is nothing emotional about this, it was a dupatta on his head, a hairband and a pair of glasses. There are 8 of them left and everyone was playing around with each other in the freeze task even those that aren’t friends. He doesn’t like it because he is a grouch, and in BB everyone enjoys like this. Nahin aata phir BB pe, koi aur show karta.
If it wasn’t a big deal for you, that’s fine...your opinion,I am not even saying that it's a big deal..bcz that's not the point...but my point is you or me don’t get to decide for someone else what should or shouldn’t make them uncomfortable. BB might be a fun show, but consent and boundaries don’t get suspended just because cameras are rolling.
Calling someone a “grouch” because they didn’t enjoy a prank from two particular people is exactly my problem. Not liking certain people entering your space doesn’t make a person wrong it just means they have a different comfort zone than you.
And saying “nahi aata phir BB pe” is basically blaming someone for having personal boundaries, which is absurd.
We can agree to disagree definitely,I have had a lot of conversations with you and we both have agreed to disagree a lot of time respectfully inspite of having different views but to me it looks like your POV invalidates his right to feel uncomfortable.
My point is simple:If a person says stop, you stop,if your intention is not to hurt or poke...Itna hi basic hai.
Edited by asmitamohanty - 1 months ago
269