Anupama can never be role model to women empowerment
Women empowerment is breaking norms of old society of abuse and oppression and going forward in life
She never left her toxic in laws- Leela and hasmukh for past 50 plus years. She married at 18 years and now at 65 shes still with same hasmukh and leela doing their seva
It means message is never leave your abusers
And who are these abusers they are not your mom, dad, brother, sister or even husband
She forgot she divorced vanraj and married anuj kapadiya later so leela hasmukh are not her in laws to run to their house after every udaan flop
So her sasural is kapadiya family not Shahs
Basically by marrying anuj kapadiya she destroyed his family and life
Malvika disappeared from his life his gaurdian kaka disappeared from his life and only shahs remained thanks to anupama
Than she left anuj and choti anu for silly ego reasons and ran off
Just when he was marrying shruti and have a stable life she returned to make him bhikari and pauper and who forgot his past and destroyed rahi life(choti anu)
The only people anupama is ever loyal is to is vanraj shah and his parents and his 3 kids and their kids etc
She can never be loyal to anyone else not even her own mom or brother other than the Shahs
She never care even for adopted kid Rahi kapadiya
And she can never go do any job and establish a career or work life only others sympathy can get her temporary jobs
That job also she can never do properly does mistakes and loses jobs
I would prefer a woman like Tulsi virani who 25 years back shot ansh gujral to save her daughter in law from sexual assault as woman empowerment
Or a person like tara who created life for herself
or Dhanak in colors Ghatbahnadan who become ACP later on
These are real women who were also not rich and came from back grounds like anupam aonly but worked hard to come out of it and helped others too in life
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