Kumkum Bhagya New Season | Episode Discussions Thread 3 - Page 83

Originally posted by: TintedBlossom

I was out, just got back and finished the epi and oh my, what a surprise! Turns out Patidev thinks of his wife even worse than we do We call her Dora for her explorations but in his head, she’s quite literally a 7-8 yr old kid who could be lured into an EMA with a candy

Jokes aside, I’m not justifying his words but if I try to see things from his perspective, knowing the kinda man he is… his assumption doesn’t seem that far fetched to me. See it’s been established that he’s someone who only trusts what he sees with his own eyes, not what others say. And from his POV, he’s caught Dora with Rau not once but twice nd both times in questionable situations. His mind can’t exactly reject the possibility of an EMA, especially since he doesn’t even know why she was there with Raunak in the first place. So all this.. he manipulated my innocent wife.. narrative feels more like a loophole his heart created, to convince himself that no, she’s still his Prarthana, she can’t be what everyone is accusing her of

In short, he’d rather believe she’s incredibly naive, dumbb and easily manipulated than think of her as characterless.

Shivu isn't wrong actually after all his Dora is so naive that she accepted him wholeheartedly as her Pati and give him free hugs at any free chance 🙃

So is BM implying she will whole heartedly accept when Shivansh brings back Prarthana and confesses he loves her.

Separation is necessary for realization and confession.

Good job Shivansh please leave this annoying woman on road .

I only liked her when she kept asking him if he loves Prarthana.

Let’s see what happens next.

Originally posted by: Fillowship

totally right tint tint 👍

Shivu isn't wrong actually after all his Dora is so naive that she accepted him wholeheartedly as her Pati and give him free hugs at any free chance 🙃

Agreed too with both of you.

Namik paul should have been nominated and he is the male lead not Raunak.

Originally posted by: Nikvi29

Namik paul should have been nominated and he is the male lead not Raunak.

Originally posted by: TintedBlossom

I was out, just got back and finished the epi and oh my, what a surprise! Turns out Patidev thinks of his wife even worse than we do We call her Dora for her explorations but in his head, she’s quite literally a 7-8 yr old kid who could be lured into an EMA with a candy

Jokes aside, I’m not justifying his words but if I try to see things from his perspective, knowing the kinda man he is… his assumption doesn’t seem that far fetched to me. See it’s been established that he’s someone who only trusts what he sees with his own eyes, not what others say. And from his POV, he’s caught Dora with Rau not once but twice nd both times in questionable situations. His mind can’t exactly reject the possibility of an EMA, especially since he doesn’t even know why she was there with Raunak in the first place. So all this.. he manipulated my innocent wife.. narrative feels more like a loophole his heart created, to convince himself that no, she’s still his Prarthana, she can’t be what everyone is accusing her of

In short, he’d rather believe she’s incredibly naive, dumbb and easily manipulated than think of her as characterless.

I am looking forward to Shivansh explaining the meaning of EMA to his naive wifey

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

Well sometime you need stupid people to let someone who should have brains they're being stupid cause you it's as simple as that

It is such a Shivansh Randhawa coded statement...

The way he is speaking, arguing and debating with himself.... blurting out contradictory statement is actually very very endearing ❤️

Okay so last night I was out so couldn't participate in the discussion....

But I really really liked the episode...for many reasons...

Firstly the way Shivansh defended Prarthana's non-existent EMA by saying that Raunak manipulated his wife to do this..as if she is a 6-7 year old kid and manipulated with chocolate 😂is really endearing...

And honestly I don't have any issues with his EMA word use.i am not saying it's right . because if he hadn't used such words he would not have been Shivansh Randhawa.. Emotional intelligence is not a quality that he has that much.. Trusting someone blindly is not his strength unlike Prarthana..He has seen enough betrayal in life for him that compels him to straight up believe in what he sees and not make any assumptions or justification in his head...

His life's biggest trauma is her mother leaving his father and him.To such an extent that his existence today is nothing but a response to that trauma...He may be assumed that it is for EMA that his mother left them...so it's obvious that he is using the term EMA....

But still the character growth of Shivansh lies in the fact that he is now choosing what he saw in the eyes of Prarthana over what he saw a few moments back..And trying to make justification for her...He believes in the honesty,care and purity that he had seen in Prarthana 's eyes to such an extent that he is making theories in his mind to believe that she is still his innocent Prarthana...and he also knows how sometimes Prarthana 's "acchai" becomes her weakness.....

Most importantly after Gaslighting himself for a long time with talks like "it's not a real marriage..it's a situationship...Hamare beech rishta nahi halat hai", after the sniper track he finally admitted it to himself that they actually have built something very very beautiful, precious,raw and real amidst the surrounding toxicity ...and he started to believe that Prarthana would never believe him...and he is just startled to the core with what he saw...It's his fear of abandonment speaking...his fear of Prarthana might leave him is speaking

And then the way Shivansh said in the car

"I never thought that she would become soo soo important to me...That her every single action would affect me to such an extent"...is soo soo powerful and poignant....

The man who always loved to be in control of everything...his business,his deals,his allies,his enemies...who he wants to protect,whom he wants to destroy..is finally admitting to himself that he has lost control over his own heart and life ..it's not a part of his plan....but this girl just created such a havoc in his life without even trying

About Prarthana....

I really despise the fact that she still trusts Raunak's words even after watching him setting his house on fire and listening to his words of obsession so many times...I am just irritated with the confusing and middling approach they are taking wrt Raunak...

But I really liked Prarthana 's mandir talks....She was voicing her dilema and speaking something very very relatable...We all have been through a situation where we know what we should do for the betterment of our loved ones ..yet were unable to do so simply because we were not ready for the tremendous pain that we would go through in the process ..

.She is in a difficult position...She really wants to protect his husband from every hurdles, obstacles and make sure that he gets all the success, happiness and smile that he deserves...Not a single dream of him gets shattered..but she is not being able to do so..She can see that if she leaves Shivansh,then may be his every issues will be solved...but again Shivansh has become the reason of her existence now...From the moment she wakes up to the moment she goes to sleep at night...and even after sleeping her entire day is centred around him...more than that she has always been a traditional girl who believes in "kumkum bhagya" "saat Janam ka bandhan"...and how can she leave her husband...She knows that it would destroy her and she is not ready for that....

And she is someone who has a good emotional intelligence...she has noticed the shift in Shivansh ever since they married..and she also trusts the fact that he does care for her,does consider their relationship as something real...so it's obvious that she is confused,conflicted...

It's a very popular statement that "true love needs to be selfless" and Prarthana also is believing that & is ashamed that she is not being able to be that...but is it that easy for any human being to be selfless? When self-preservation is something that is innate in us...we are either born with it or the circumstances teach us that...that scene was sooo sooo relatable

As per the Precaps whatever she does I am glad that she is sharing it with Gayatri....Who is a Prashiv shopper...so If something goes wrong,I hope she would step in and talk to Shivansh.....

I believe makers are planning something big...now what is that...let's see

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

About Prarthana....

I really despise the fact that she still trusts Raunak's words even after watching him setting his house on fire and listening to his words of obsession so many times...I am just irritated with the confusing and middling approach they are taking wrt Raunak...

But I really liked Prarthana 's mandir talks....She was voicing his dilema and speaking something very very relatable...We all have been through a situation where we know what we should do for the betterment of our loved ones ..yet were unable to do so simply because we were not ready for the tremendous pain that we would go through in the process ..

.She is in a difficult position...She really wants to protect his husband from every hurdles, obstacles and make sure that he gets all the success, happiness and smile that he deserves...Not a single dream of him gets shattered..but she is not being able to do so..She can see that if she leaves Shivansh,then may be his every issues will be solved...but again Shivansh has become the reason of her existence now...From the moment she wakes up to the moment she goes to sleep at night...and even after sleeping her entire day is centred around her...more than that she has always been a traditional girl who believes in "kumkum bhagya" "saat Janam ka bandhan"...and how can she leave her husband...She knows that it would destroy her and she is not ready for that....

And she is someone who has a good emotional intelligence...she has noticed the shift in Shivansh ever since they married..and she also trusts the fact that he does care for her,does consider their relationship as something real...so it's obvious that she is confused,conflicted...

It's a very popular statement that "true love needs to be selfless" and Prarthana also is believing that & is ashamed that she is not being able to be that...but is it that easy for any human being to be selfless? When self-preservation is something that is innate in us...we are either born with it or the circumstances teach us that...that scene was sooo sooo relatable

As per the Precaps whatever she does I am glad that she is sharing it with Gayatri....Who is a Prashiv shopper...so If something goes wrong,I hope she would step in and talk to Shivansh.....

I believe makers are planning something big...now what is that...let's see

@ purple I hate that too after she saw evidence with her own eyes. No wonder Shivansh sees she is so gullible and can be manipulated. But seriously for EMA I wonder what his definition is because he is Shivansh Randhawa bakwaas specialist. On serious note it just shows how possessive he is about her. I love his trust in her but he knows how gullible and manipulated she can be too.

Her mandir talks makes her so real not typical Indian tv heroine. Tyaag ki murti . This shows her real and relatable. She loves someone so much yet she knows for Shivansh’s betterment she should leave him for his good. Poor girl you do not know if you leave him Shivansh will be broken or he will be super disappointed and Angry at you. You saw how his mom abandonment did to him. You have started to mean the world to him.

If you leave he may bring you back in angry or after he learns the truth or because he realizes he loves you. Temporary separation is necessary for PraShiv story to move forward.

Yes, I am glad she told Gayatri because if Shivansh comes along looking for her or she hears something against her sister she will tell Shivansh and all why her sister left Shivansh.

I am glad Gayatri is telling her to go to mandir and get her answer.

She will full support her sister in her decision.

Yes i feel there will be a big confession or Shivansh might not let her go and then there will be a confession.

Let’s see what they have in store for us viewers.