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Posted: 29 days ago
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So savi picks her mil who basically treated her like shit for a man who would have loved her and her kids and given them the fathers love they crave! Why not give her the happy ending. She can still have a career and put her kids first.

The mil even at the last moment was selfish. Deep down wanted savi and the kids to go with her. She put herself first rather than savi and the kids. If she loved savi as a daughter she would have insisted she gave her marriage a chance and stayed behind. Arghhhh why do I watch these serials they leave u so frustrated !

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Posted: 28 days ago
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I did not like the ending too its like they always give Savi a terrible fate that is to suffer😡

SavNeil season was abt companionship. In life not everyone bless with a companionship it came in both Savi & Neil life after they loose their spouses. People might have different thoughts of how Savi & Neil can move on or badmouth Savi that she jump from Ishaan than Rajat where is her love for Rajat or Ishaan or where is Neil's love for Tejaswini. People watch with shippers lens they will not understand SavNeil season. It actually deal with reality & real human emotions. Neil is the person and the life partner that Savi always deserved. The maturity & understanding b/w them is huge. She went though fire of humiliation insults accusation thats when she got love. Here love came without expectations & respected & understand her

Its easy to say live in memories and stay alone. But in walk of life when you reach a age where you have fulfilled your responsiblities,settled your children everything looks good and everyone busy with their own lives. Thats when loneliness hits you where you have noone to share talk cry care & love you and be a friend throughout. You need a companion to walk with you in your last stages of life. He might be not your first love or husband love. Its a love & friendship of companionship. Not everyone bless with a true companionship and Savi was bless with it to loose it. She also snatched the father's love that Sai & Kiaan was tol be blessed with & separated Sai-Neil. They were each other sunshine. Noone betrays spouses love & memories they are special in the hearts & have their own place it can never be erase but than life cannot lead on alone. Its difficult,you need a companionship. Life does not bless with everyone a true companionship. She cares abt everyone & loves them and at last when she has someone who cares & love her with no expecations she decide to loose it. Neil have accepted her as his wife he will not move on stay loyal to her living in those memories he had lived with her & kids. I hate the ending too

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Posted: 28 days ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

I did not like the ending too its like they always give Savi a terrible fate that is to suffer😡

SavNeil season was abt companionship. In life not everyone bless with a companionship it came in both Savi & Neil life after they loose their spouses. People might have different thoughts of how Savi & Neil can move on or badmouth Savi that she jump from Ishaan than Rajat where is her love for Rajat or Ishaan or where is Neil's love for Tejaswini. People watch with shippers lens they will not understand SavNeil season. It actually deal with reality & real human emotions. Neil is the person and the life partner that Savi always deserved. The maturity & understanding b/w them is huge. She went though fire of humiliation insults accusation thats when she got love. Here love came without expectations & respected & understand her

Its easy to say live in memories and stay alone. But in walk of life when you reach a age where you have fulfilled your responsiblities,settled your children everything looks good and everyone busy with their own lives. Thats when loneliness hits you where you have noone to share talk cry care & love you and be a friend throughout. You need a companion to walk with you in your last stages of life. He might be not your first love or husband love. Its a love & friendship of companionship. Not everyone bless with a true companionship and Savi was bless with it to loose it. She also snatched the father's love that Sai & Kiaan was tol be blessed with & separated Sai-Neil. They were each other sunshine. Noone betrays spouses love & memories they are special in the hearts & have their own place it can never be erase but than life cannot lead on alone. Its difficult,you need a companionship. Life does not bless with everyone a true companionship. She cares abt everyone & loves them and at last when she has someone who cares & love her with no expecations she decide to loose it. Neil have accepted her as his wife he will not move on stay loyal to her living in those memories he had lived with her & kids. I hate the ending too

But don't you think they moved on very quickly? The way Savi and Neil looked at each other it seemed they developed feelings for one another and their spouses died only 15 or 20 days ago at that time. Isn't that unrealistic? It takes time to heal and fall in love again. Also, you said Neil respected her massively. But one day Neil created scenes in front of her house and said, "Apki himmat kaise hui Sai ki mobile se mera number block karne ki?" I don't think that's respectful behaviour at all. If a kid's mother asks someone to stay away from the kid, she has the right to do that. Creating scenes in front of a person's house and threatening her is inappropriate and totally unacceptable. That's really disrespectful behaviour in my eyes. Please don't think I'm criticising your view and trying to quarrel with you. I'm only expressing my opinion.

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Posted: 28 days ago
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Originally posted by: Shirsha

But don't you think they moved on very quickly? The way Savi and Neil looked at each other it seemed they developed feelings for one another and their spouses died only 15 or 20 days ago at that time. Isn't that unrealistic? It takes time to heal and fall in love again. Also, you said Neil respected her massively. But one day Neil created scenes in front of her house and said, "Apni himmat kaise hui Sai ki mobile se mera number block karne ki?" I don't think that's respectful behaviour at all. If a kid's mother asks someone to stay away from the kid, she has the right to do that. Creating scenes infront of a person's house and threatening her is inappropriate and totally unacceptable. That's really disrespectful behaviour in my eyes. Please don't think I'm criticising your view and trying to quarrel with you. I'm only expressing my opinion.

Neil's drunk is different issue he was angry by Savi's words. But Savi was wrong too trying to break the bond between them. I agree she is the mother and she has all rights on her daughter but this is the same man who save her daughter life and was a fatherly figure for her daughter she would have loose her daughter if he did not explain the consequences of her behaviour. Neil was angry by Savi words asking to stay away from her & Sai. It affected him but in the morning he did remember and apologised to her & explained too, thats maturity. Savi was wrong here she was separating the person. He was in pain hurt and heartbroken & was drunk he pour out his heart to her. I did not see disrespect he was more hurt & he apologise for his behaviour too

Regards to SavNeil feelings. Welll what can we do when show is ending they rush up things furthermore feelings there is no control over it. You can't plan it just happens. Thats what happen to SavNeil it just happened. But Savi took a decision of not accepting those feelings so she made a choice

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Posted: 28 days ago
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The only reason I feel they didn't end the show with Savneil as a couple is because they thought Savi’s third marriage would be degradation of her character. She didn't choose her MIL over Neil. She chose spending rest of her life without a man.

I feel Savi and Neil needed some time to heal each other and move on from the pain they suffered in the last few months. If at all they had lived together it would have been more of a compromise. Neil told his parents he wants to live with Savi because he put sindoor on her maang. He didn't mention he fell in love with her. She was more like responsibility on him. Savi too would have lived with him only for the sake of her daughter's love for Pookie uncle. They were kinda attracted to each other but were not in that state to fall in love with each other.

I wish they make a short hotstar web show with Neil Savi meeting each other after few years, fall in love and then decide to get married.

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Posted: 28 days ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

Neil's drunk is different issue he was angry by Savi's words. But Savi was wrong too trying to break the bond between them. I agree she is the mother and she has all rights on her daughter but this is the same man who save her daughter life and was a fatherly figure for her daughter she would have loose her daughter if he did not explain the consequences of her behaviour. Neil was angry by Savi words asking to stay away from her & Sai. It affected him but in the morning he did remember and apologised to her & explained too, thats maturity. Savi was wrong here she was separating the person. He was in pain hurt and heartbroken & was drunk he pour out his heart to her. I did not see disrespect he was more hurt & he apologise for his behaviour too

Regards to SavNeil feelings. Welll what can we do when show is ending they rush up things furthermore feelings there is no control over it. You can't plan it just happens. Thats what happen to SavNeil it just happened. But Savi took a decision of not accepting those feelings so she made a choice

Okay, well, my thoughts are very different.

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Posted: 28 days ago
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i agree they both were still grieving and both met each other due to the same goal...but sometimes in life you never get a chance like that i.e someone to come along and love your kids as his own and will give you the love and respect you deserve. She walked away from something that could have been amazing....but they could have shown her leaving ..... then done a leap of 2 years later and shown they had time to grieve....focus on themselves and work on their friendship and then get back together. How amazing would that have been. i feel these shows leave you very frustrated as they never give a happy ending. These poor characters just come on the show to suffer!!!
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Posted: 28 days ago
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there also is nothing wrong with a 3rd marriage! first one hardly was a marriage and 2nd only lasted a couple of years!! Society will never allow her to live with someone so she has no choice but to marry!!! Realistically she deserves to have her own life and not be a doormat to her mil! her kids will grow up and she be left on her own. She deserved better.
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Posted: 28 days ago
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Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

The only reason I feel they didn't end the show with Savneil as a couple is because they thought Savi’s third marriage would be degradation of her character. She didn't choose her MIL over Neil. She chose spending rest of her life without a man.

IshVi era. Ishaan was not her husband actually but her first love. Yes they did got married but under a tradegy circumstances when they truly got married Ishaan died. I never term IshVi marriage as marriage. Ishaan was Savi's first love and he will always lives in her heart. She was the man who taught her feelings of love but its heartbreaking he died. Theirs was not a marriage in actual sense when they did he died

SaRaj era now that is her real marriage. They came together for the love of Sai they got married and she did live with Rajat as husband-wife. Thats her real marriage. I will term as 1st marriage. They lived together even though Rajat died

SavNeil era its more of companionship than love b/w bf-gf or husband-wife. Theirs is companionship and it comes with more of friendship than the usual love. Its a kind of friendship that even normal marriages lacks of. A relationship of maturity & respect. If this marriage was accepted its actually her 2nd marriage

I feel Savi and Neil needed some time to heal each other and move on from the pain they suffered in the last few months. If at all they had lived together it would have been more of a compromise.

Did they even heal each other?😂 they were busy finding Riddhi and doing marathons😂. The person who actually healed Neil is Sai. She totally heal him even when he was fighting for his life instead of Tejaswini it was Sai voice brought him back to life. Actually Neil has healed himself with the help of Sai. Tejaswini will always live in his heart as first love of how Ishaan is for Savi but he got the closure. Every marriage when people come together they have a reason for an example SaRaj was a marriage of compromise that is for Sai but they made the marriage work and fall in love. Its the same here too yes its a compromise but than the marriage will work too. Its not a burden

Neil told his parents he wants to live with Savi because he put sindoor on her maang. He didn't mention he fell in love with her. She was more like responsibility on him. Savi too would have lived with him only for the sake of her daughter's love for Pookie uncle. They were kinda attracted to each other but were not in that state to fall in love with each other.

He has accepted the marriage & Savi as his wife thats the biggest hint that is his feelings for her. He had feelings for Savi even before memory loss it did not explore properly due to rush up things. He wants the marriage he is 100% into it. That is his feelings. For a marriage to work you need to live together if SavNeil lived together the marriage would work. They have feelings for each other thats the beginning of it

I wish they make a short hotstar web show with Neil Savi meeting each other after few years, fall in love and then decide to get married.

Even i want that too happen. A short web because SavNeil season is not for ITV. Web will do justice or sony channel. ParVika has a sizzling chemistry with each other & mature emotional genre is their forte

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Posted: 28 days ago
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Originally posted by: ritauk

i agree they both were still grieving and both met each other due to the same goal...but sometimes in life you never get a chance like that i.e someone to come along and love your kids as his own and will give you the love and respect you deserve. She walked away from something that could have been amazing....but they could have shown her leaving ..... then done a leap of 2 years later and shown they had time to grieve....focus on themselves and work on their friendship and then get back together. How amazing would that have been. i feel these shows leave you very frustrated as they never give a happy ending. These poor characters just come on the show to suffer!!!

I completely agree. I don't want to watch it from shippers lens,i am watching it with reality lens. In life not everyone gets a true companion after spouse death or any other reason for separation. There some people are bless with a true companion accepting you and your kids and giving a promise that he will take care of you & your kids till he dies that person truly lucky to be bless. She might be special child of god who did not want to see his child suffering loneliness he bless her with a good man in her taking care & loving her till her last stages of life.. She deserves the respect & love. Noone cared for her except for this man whom is totally a stranger to her. Its also clear she has feelings for him. She loose him to get a life of insult & humiliation as that psycho Tara will make her life a hell.

I want to see a continuation this is more like an open ending

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