Originally posted by: Nush_Rat
While I agree with majority of your points, I still don't believe Savi started to love Neel.
LOVE is a huge statement. From that perspective, I don't even think Neel truly loved Tejaswini but was strongly infatuated by the idea of her.
How a person behaves, situation has a huge role to play there.
When Savi lost her family, she had Ishan who was a good mentor to her. Ishan's death was Savi's breaking point but she still had Isha and Shantanu who shielded her emotionally.
If it weren't for little Saisha, Savi might not even think about another person and that wouldn't be wrong either. We need a companion to share our life but there are also real life people who have spent their life loving one, because of their strong feeling, not due to societal pressure.
With Rajat, Savi had a proper family, they had their ups and downs and eventually found their way out of all the troubles. Unfortunately when Rajat died, she didn't have a strong support and somehow Neel came to her life.
While I agree he has helped her, it's also true that majority of Savi's problem started due to Neel as he never maintained the boundary Savi tried to keep between them.
Savi's dilemma started only during the memory loss drama because once again she had to do a compromise for her kids - without her job, she needed financial security and Neel provided her that. This also made her feel guilty.
In between all that, she got a bit attached and I think as a human being who just lost the love of her life, her confusion made sense. We cry even if we have to say goodbye to our neighbors. That doesn't mean we are IN LOVE with them.
Leaving a confidante who was with you at the worst time of your life will leave you emotionally scarred. But that doesn't automatically mean she started loving Neel.
Also, Neel's family would never accept Sai and Kiaan and as a mother she chose her kids which I believe was a wise decision.
If in the future, Savi moves on, finds a suitor who will accept her kids, she can definitely start her life afresh. But Neel is definitely not that person who married her without her constant and then wanted to play house just because he put sindoor on her. There was a huge lack of clarity and if I had two little kids, I wouldn't gamble their future just because such a volatile person decided one fine morning, he and I can make a good team.
My intention is not to hurt you or start an argument just for the sake of it. We can coexist peacefully and agree to disagree.
But having seen Savi's journey and the way she even behaved this 2 months also, I find no indication that she ever thought about anyone else than Rajat, PERIOD...
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